I'm dating this guy that i'm really not attraced to as far as physical attraction, but I really do like him alot. My problem is I can't stay in the mood. The only time I feel all hot and ready is when I know he is about to perform oral sex, after that I'm not turn on any more. What can I do to sray in the mood?
2007-07-05 18:04:30 · 10 answers · asked by juicyjuice 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is another sick situation presented as a valid question. Get rid of the bum, start your life over, and stay pure.
If I were your dad, I'd run him off for you.
2007-07-05 18:07:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You should just be friends. I think physical attraction is important in a relationship, sex is too. If you keep going with this relationship you'll end up resenting him. Maybe you should try asking yourself why you can't stay in the mood with him? and Why is oral sex the only thing to get you going? What or who are you thinking about during oral sex?
2007-07-06 01:13:44 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not attracted to him physically,why not just tell him so and find a guy you really want to be with. Liking a guy is not a reason for sex.
2007-07-06 01:08:39 · answer #3 · answered by mopjky 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell him flat out that you like him as a friend but that there is nothing more in your relationship with him. If he doesn't keep you in the mood, if that is what you want, go and find someone who will.
2007-07-06 01:15:25 · answer #4 · answered by Aliz 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do everything else you do with him first and save oral for the end so there is something to be anticipating and you can save the big finale until the very end so you dont feel like your just along for the ride
2007-07-06 01:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by somethin bout baby girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
to get drunk lol! but for real the only thing i can think of is for you to be on top at all times. it sounds like he cant work the middle. he can only work it with his tongue you just might have to show him how you want it so that you will want it all the time! teach him how you want to be freak!
2007-07-06 15:21:05 · answer #6 · answered by lilmama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do like guys do, use your vivid imagination. In their minds, they picture all sorts of people and things to get them excited.
2007-07-06 01:09:23 · answer #7 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really like him, then leaving him because of this is really messed up....Just keep messing around together and tell him what really gets you going, and maybe it will work
2007-07-06 01:15:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Date another guy who "Affects You" when your close.
Or learn to just fake it.
2007-07-06 01:07:39 · answer #9 · answered by John 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
get drunk!
2007-07-06 01:07:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋