Hmmm honestly i have i think twice,, is it wrong to be flattered ? i mean its cool to know that you attract both genders right ? No im not putting down gay ppl,im just saying there is some guys (or gals) like me who dont take it as offending,,,think about it, if they approach you,you can just say no nicely without being an as*h ole being all religious about it rite ? so who thinks this is flattering instead of being something obscene ? Ok im a straight guy and i know deep inside im straight,im just confident enought to know that ppl from the same gender is attracted to me as well,, is this wrong ?
2007-07-05 23:15:46 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I had a gay guy really go for it with me once... he was flirting and trying to be funny..
I was really flattered, which I don't think is wrong! Even when I said I was not only straight... But married, he said it could be our little secret... good job I had been drinking and could take a joke... Nice chap he was too...
... Shame I had to kill him!
2007-07-05 23:24:42 · answer #1 · answered by brit_plod 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes I have been hit on by a gay person. I do feel very uncomfortable when this happens. This is not born of homophobia but the reason I am uncomfortable with a gay person hitting on me is because I AM NOT GAY.
If you don't mind people of the same gender as you are thinking you are attractive, then props to you. You might be a better man than I am in this regard. As long as you let them off easy when you reject their advances then it is all good.
2007-07-05 23:20:36 · answer #2 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 01:01:09 · answer #3 · answered by zaragosa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you really a 31-year old virgin. If these guys think you're gay, maybe you are. I can't say for sure. I held out as long as I could and made it to age 15. There was no one to talk me out of my attraction to girls.
I have been hit on by 3 guys in my life, too, but told them I don't have and interest, and they left me alone. I took it as a compliment. I also hit on a woman at a public gathering one time and she told me, "sorry but I don't have attraction for men." OUCH.
2007-07-05 23:30:52 · answer #4 · answered by answerblaster 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had a lesbian hit on me but it wasn't the fact that she hit on me, it was the forceful way she went about it. She threw her arm around my neck and pulled me towards her, she was stronger than me and taller, trying to kiss me. I managed to pull away at the last minute but she scared me. Thankfully, we were surrounded by people! So, I may have been flattered but it was the way she did it. I know that it was just because of who she was and not the fact that she was a lesbian, that she made that a bad experience for me.
2007-07-05 23:33:34 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes...many times..i work in a place where 5% of people are gay/lesbians, and i get the girls hitting on me thinking i am a lesbian, it does not bother me but i think they just test the waters to see if i am or not, i am good friends with quite a few of them and we all have a great laugh, i don't find it insulting or anything, but i just wondered one day if they thought i looked like one, so i asked a lesbian friend if she thought i looked like one and she said no, it's just because i am attractive and women fancied me...theres no harm in that i guess, i was quite flattered actually.....so my answer is...no it's not wrong
2007-07-05 23:30:28 · answer #6 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
im a straight guy whos been hit on by gay guys a few times
i think its cool - better than being called an ugly munch
2007-07-05 23:18:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I've been hit on twice by lesbian friends. I was shocked because they both knew I was straight. One was fine but the other just kept on pestering me until I had to, reluctantly, tell her we couldn't be friends anymore.
2007-07-05 23:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Me personally I find it very uncomfortable, especially if they are pushy, or have the thought in their mind that everyone is gay and just doesn't know it yet. I hate the idea that people think they can "turn" me.
2007-07-05 23:18:50 · answer #9 · answered by Heather 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
sometimes uncomfortable if the gay man is old, but if theyre attractive and young then its a compliment, although i wouldnt be turned on in the least
2007-07-06 02:43:30 · answer #10 · answered by jon h 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋