love this girl so much and she loves me back and we talk on aim and stuff but wen im around her i get really nervous and weve loved eachother fro a while now around 3 months but we havent done anything i havent asked her out i dont hang out woth her or anything but she also doesnt do anything to help that fro example she told me that we should talk more and hang out more at skool but then wen it came to the skool carnival i was trying to but she was just ignoring me becuz her friends where with her even though her friends like me too in a friend way, they even tried to get her to sit next to me but she just hid behind her friends but she says these things but doesnt do anything to help herself its like shes putting it all on me and i dont really know wat to do cuz wen i im around her and talk to her i get nervous but only wen im face to face with her and i dont really know how to get past that. and it might be funny to menchin that im 12 but i still love her no matter wat ppl say.
2007-07-05 22:45:07 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
The internet is great for information and having fun but not so much for relationships! When all you've done is talk on aim it makes it very hard to talk in person, especially when one of you is shy as this girl seems to be. I don't think she's putting you on or ignoring you, but maybe really just doesn't know how to act, what to say or be around you.
Next time you see each other, take a deep breath to calm your nerves, smile and say hi. If you really like this girl, don't be put off by her hiding. You know she likes you, even her friends know it because they tried to get her to sit with you. Say or give her something you know she likes like a drawing or something you've made: a card will do it and give it to her in person. It's not exactly talking but it's closer than aim.
2007-07-05 23:01:36 · answer #1 · answered by poppy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry about the anxiety but it's part of growing up. You should enjoy the butterflies you feel because the older you get they'll go away. Take your time and get to know the girl. One last thing, I know you dont want to hear this...it's not love; It's called infatuation. Infatuation is fun and I'm afraid there is no easy way to deal with it. Don't give into the fear and nerves you feel just do your best to deal with them. Your life will be very boring if you don't take things like this head on. You can make it!
2007-07-05 22:55:11 · answer #2 · answered by Codynova 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow u are only 12...i am only 12 too(really) i think she get nervous too when she is next to u ...and she is hiding because she is scared of the ppl are gonna say and lots of lots of things...i do know that because i have done this stuffs many time and that what girls do.....that doesent mean she doesnt like u it means is better to ask her out but not to a date (in a park) or a places with many ppl around (but not her friends or yours) and not in dark places like cinema ...maybe at first you should know you better and after that going to a really date (my id is vane_is_evil@yahoo.com or vane_is_evil@hotmail.com) and your nervous because you like her and you wanna be perfect in front of her ...but remember nobody is perfect
2007-07-05 22:55:35 · answer #3 · answered by vane_is_evil 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not to be mean or anything but do you know how many times you will be "in love" throughout your life?
concentrate on school and getting good grades and learning about yourself. think about what you want to do as a career and set goals in order to achieve it.
girls will Always be around, they aren't going anywhere.
in the future you cannot even imagine how many relationships you will have.
2007-07-05 22:53:49 · answer #4 · answered by ♥Charmed One♥ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude ur not in love ive been there ur gonna end up in a position where u cant talk to her and evry thigs gonna feel aquard so telll her lets go out but i know for a fact u dont love her and i dont know u at all but trust a guy whos been there
2007-07-05 22:49:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm sorry, but your 12, im 17 and i've never been in love, despite the fact that there is one girl i have really strong feelings for, love takes time, alot of time, maturity, (your 12) and understanding of the other person, i think you need to enjoy being young, its never going to happen again.
2007-07-05 22:51:28 · answer #6 · answered by llamarse 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to calm down a bit more and take some deep breaths. Just relax when you're around her and just be cool. I hope this helps and I'm sorry if it doesn't, good luck.
2007-07-05 22:47:41 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
crazy little boy! those were the days, when ur older and matured you'll relize it was just lust not love. she is someone who makes u feel good when you listen to and watch. like a sole mate. if your that bothered and really believe its love then tell her you think she is georgous and you would really like to meet her in town sometimes on weekends just to grab and chippy and have a chat. good luck!
2007-07-05 22:50:45 · answer #8 · answered by missclare69 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah seems like she's expecting you to make all the moves. I suggest you tell her striaghtforward that you want to love her, and you want her to be your g.f. Then see if she accepts or rejects your offer. Take a risk man!
2007-07-05 22:50:25 · answer #9 · answered by kid_on_theblock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you love her then go and tell her everything
2007-07-05 22:48:31 · answer #10 · answered by SanjuS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋