I have been with my fella for 6 months and he is open mided sexually, I was thinking of buying some sex toys, nothing kinky just vibrators and some hand cuffs and things to use on me not him!, do you think he might be put off, do men generally like that kind of thing?
2007-07-05 23:52:08 · 22 answers · asked by Yoyo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2007-07-07 08:50:49 · answer #1 · answered by Cat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely! Sex toys aren't just for women- they make a lot of special boy toys.
Some other ideas:
* A c*ck ring, particularly one that vibrates. It'll help him to hold off ejaculation and last longer (by keeping blood in the penis), and the vibrations will feel amazing at the base of the penis. Plus, if you get the kind that has a clitoral attachment, when you have sex, you can get some of those nice vibrations on your clitoris, too, while he gets them on his penis- fun for both of you!
* Nipple clamps, to be used on either you or him. Both men and women have sensitivity in their nipples, and you might be surprised how much fun you can each have with them . . . particularly if you use them in tandem with the handcuffs and perhaps a blindfold!
* Finger vibrators, which are little caps that you put on your fingers which vibrate. Great for either of you to wear when you touch one another, as they don't get all bulky and in the way like a big vibrator might. You feel close and intimate and like you're touching your lover . . . with an added spicy buzz.
Those are just some of the many toys you can get that can add to the fun . . . and I'm not even going into the mind-blowing joy of the male prostate. If your guy is sexually open-minded, I can only think that he'll be thrilled, and definitely not put off.
Enjoy!
2007-07-06 15:28:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This one really depends on the guy. Some guys get quite jealous by sex toys. And don't even use them on their partners..... now why would a guy be jealous of something that is larger and harder than him, never goes down and vibrates insatiably for a good solid two hours...................... Oh ya that could be the reason
However you said that your guy is opened sexually.... so maybe he's cool with. I would make it sort of a group thing.... telling that you would like to get a toy that he can use on you and having go online with you and shop. This will you be both fun and excitement and if he's part of the selection process and you may be more than interested in grabbing the box from the delivery guy and putting it to use
Mark
Advice Man
2007-07-07 15:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by AdviceManHere 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most men are pretty much up for this.
Why don't you discuss it first?
Also you need to be careful, what if he wants to go further, are you up for it?
Have you really not got any clue even as to how he will react, after all you have been together for 6 months!
How would you feel if he wants you to use the toys on him also?
2007-07-06 00:07:52 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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Recent polls have shown that the average length of intercourse is usually anywhere between 2 to 12 minutes. Most often those diagnosed with premature ejaculation climax in less than a minute or two, and there are even those who ejaculate before there is any sort of penetration. In all actuality, “too short” is really just a matter of opinion. The most important factor is if a man feels that he is unable to control his ejaculation and is frequently climaxing before he would like. Any man who feels that this is a problem for him may be suffering from some form of premature ejaculation.
Regards
2014-09-13 10:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi there . I live with my girlfriend and i went out and bought her a vibrator . I dont mind her using it at all. In fact i find it quite a turn on . Ive used it on her loads of times . It just adds a bit of excitement . Men who are offended by it are usually insecure .
2007-07-06 00:00:01 · answer #6 · answered by warpig 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My guy really likes sex toys, for him or for me.
Ask him!
2007-07-05 23:57:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men do. Some men don't. This question is best ask of your guy. In the end it is his opinion that counts. Not those of us in Yahoo Answerland.
2007-07-05 23:57:32 · answer #8 · answered by davester1970 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my boyfriend loves them!! There's possibly only about 3 men on the planet that dont!! :-)
Enjoy!!
xx
2007-07-06 00:00:34 · answer #9 · answered by Blush 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go for it,he'll love it,and yeah i think men do like to see that in a woman.i know i do,so if your man is put off by it, come and see me,we'll have a great time baby.
2007-07-05 23:56:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋