What I'll tell you is that be careful with her as she can be a person who can send you behinds the bars if not for full time but brief period before you are bailed out. Such ladies can go to any extend & file any wrong criminal complaint against the husband & his other family members. Best course for you is to sit & settle between you two how to go in for divorce by mutual consent as its the only no blame way to dissolve this marriage, if you think that by unilaterally you'll be able to get rid of her by filling divorce on any of these given reasons of cruelty, adultery etc then for get it, neither you'll be able to prove these with sufficient evidence in the family court nor you'll be able to defend yourself against the criminal cases she'll be filling against you under section 498A of the Indian Penal Code fort cruelty, for demanding dowry under the provisions of the Dowry prohibition Act, for domestic violence under the provisions of the Protection of women against the domestic violence Act in her defense against your divorce case filled unilaterally. Such ladies have to be handled with care & by offering a sufficient amount of Alimony & getting her consent for divorce is the best way out to get rid of them.
2007-07-05 22:42:46
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answered by vijay m Indian Lawyer 7
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By definition itself that lady is not a true wife. If you have enough courage to teach her etiquettes of being a good real wife & change her successfully, go ahead brave man otherwise, she is not at all fit for you for a minute even. I wonder how someone selects such a girl as life partner or she is so much expert in cheating that nobody could even detect any of those bad things. In family life & husband-wife relations these things must be kept aside otherwise true love, the backbone of married life never exists. It must be conveyed to her nicely. This shows very bad planning. Now -a -days mostly couples are not religious at all. In such cases too violation of basic principles of being the spouse of someone easily takes place. I know some cases where physical incompatibility makes sex very difficult , the rootcause of all problems otherwise sex is a great pleasing weapon which eliminates most of bad parts of woman's behaviour in short period of time, completely changing her nature. Husband may try to have sex with her as much as possible. It may work. Sometimes girls who undergo some great trauma in childhood too are like this. Only proper medical chech up & due long treatment will help. Husbands should not think onesidedly. Most oof the girls are emotional & delicate in behaviour. This fact must not be ignored while interacting ladies whether one's wife or someone else. Husbands must have soft corners for their own wives & should not treat them like any ordinary woman in businesslike manner. A lot of tolerance power too is required. In most of family troubles husbands are cruel in India & only few cases of ladies come in picture where men do not tell the whole story & act innocent. I'm not saying this cae too is so.
2007-07-06 01:30:12
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answered by Anonymous
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I would say that we are indians and our positive is understanding. We must try to convince her and counsel her that why she is doining all this. Try to solve her problem. No body is perfect in this world and nobody is so adamant, egoistic or cruel by birth. the circumstances are responsible for all this. The only method is to understand and clear your view point.
2007-07-05 22:25:25
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answered by davi_arora 1
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wow first of all why are u still with her if u think shes that bad ?
there must be a good side to her that makes u stay right ? is this Ur feeling at all times or u guys are fighting and Ur mad cuz u say some power full words about Ur wife .
2007-07-08 12:00:25
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answered by amal L 3
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What would you say about your choice in brides.
Cut your losses dude and chalk this up as a learning experience.
Next time look a little deeper( in yourself and in a mate )
2007-07-05 22:07:31
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answered by soulcatcher 2
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Sympathize with her husband, what else. But, mind you, the last trait if it can be proved, is a good ground for legal separation.
2007-07-06 00:00:00
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answered by Anonymous
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amazing. A biker had gotten into the habit of calling his female pal "mom of six" in view that they had six young babies. She became into relatively getting uninterested in it, and finally one night she'd had sufficient. They have been on the bar and at remaining time he yelled around the bar "howdy, mom of six, you waiting to go away?" She yelled returned "each time you're, father of four."
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answered by Anonymous
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You said everything....if your woman is being like this than you dont need a woman like this..if your seeing these qualities in her than maybe you need to have a hard talk with her and tell her to change or maybe tell her if she wont change than you want out..its miserale to have to live with someone like that. especially if shes not faithful to you, you need to maybe act like you dont care and do your thing too.
2007-07-05 22:50:10
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answered by luvleebabygurl22 2
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Sometimes it may be because of the husbands behaviour towards her
2007-07-05 23:16:12
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answered by Anonymous
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I would say, get the f u c k out of my life
2007-07-05 22:18:31
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answered by nice guy 4
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