2007-07-05 23:23:15 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If still she love him somuch and still she need him to be with her, talk to him openly, try to point out the worst what he had did to whole family, make him realise his mistakes and bring him back.
If she hate him, and cannot accept him anymore or forgive him for what he had did, just throw him away, just break off, this world is not ending, a colourful life is still remaining.
2007-07-05 23:33:16 · answer #1 · answered by myavu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Woman should confront her husband and talk about it. Once a cheater is always a cheater. The woman should not accept this immoral behaviour and find a solution by talking over with the husband and involving family members in their talk and decisions
2007-07-06 06:32:49 · answer #2 · answered by Pearl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get a divorce! He doesn't love you and once a cheater, always a cheater.
He's the one that failed, not you! You have alot more class and self respect, pride and value than that, Right?
Good Luck. The real man has yet to come.
2007-07-06 06:32:38 · answer #3 · answered by Very Honest 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As a woman i experience a torture not only to us but also to him.And if that lady has loved him in depth thats it....and if she is very honest and lawful,,thats the end of their intimacy...may be for their kids they may act as if they are loveable mom and dad. A woman can never accept her hubby as cheater....may be becos of dependancy she may also act and u cant find real love with her....if she has parental suport then definitely she will divorce him...otherwise keep herself everything and tortures herself...but a man just walks off from life...
2007-07-06 10:19:33 · answer #4 · answered by indian 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The woman needs to evaluate her life and wheither she wants her husband in her life? Spouses stray from a marriage for many reasons.
There r men who cannot be faithful, others who r looking for certain things they feel they r not getting from their marriage partner. Others go through mid life crisis, seeking being youthful and others are tempted by vixons. Many women who's husband cheat will take revenge on them and the other persons involved. It takes a remarkable women to evaluate to see how much if any they contributed towards their spouses unfaithfulness. Trust and good communication is key in any marriage or relationship. Marriage is alot of work of give and take. It takes work to remain in love & faithful to their partner.
2007-07-06 07:19:44 · answer #5 · answered by Staci 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, she will probably feel hurt and upset. She will constantly yell at him and will ask questions about the cheating. She will want to torture herself with all of the details of their relationship.
She may want to leave the relationship because the trust is gone. But more than likely, she will stay in it because of the invested time and she wants to honor her wedding vows. She will suggest counseling and hope that her husband will change. Then if he doesn't, she will end up divorcing him and taking everything he has.
2007-07-06 06:33:39 · answer #6 · answered by blue eyes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually they cheat back and then the **** hits the fan and they both end up rubbing each others face on their own doo-doo like they do puppies when they make a boo-boo on the carpet... I was in a situation like that until I got tired and left my husband for a year and a half I wasn't going to come back because I was happy,but my children need it me and him so I gave him one more chance he seems to be able to hold it in his pants now.. so cheating back is not the answer is leaving and mean it... good luck.
2007-07-06 07:43:04 · answer #7 · answered by boricua_2290 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on the woman. Some women pretend not to see it (they accept it saying he is a good provider, some women get bitter making snippy little jibbes, etc).
I personally would pick up my stuff and leave and I'd leave a message to show him that that sort of thing is not tolerated and arrange for an STD test.
2007-07-06 06:38:38 · answer #8 · answered by Acyla 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends-what did you catch him doing? Sex with another woman? That is unforgiveable. I think if you want to work thru this you will both have to sit down and talk and find out why he did whatever he did. If he doesnt want to talk --you can leave or if you arent ready to give up-counseling for you. No one deserves to be cheated on and should expect to just take it. You dont need to be his security blanket-when he is done he will come to you till he finds the next one. Hold you ground.
2007-07-06 06:33:00 · answer #9 · answered by firefly06 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if shes smart she will leave. Once a cheater always a cheater.
2007-07-06 06:28:08 · answer #10 · answered by cathy h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋