i really like this guy alot. But he has cheated on me before. & he cheated on his current girlfriend (who is also my best friend) last nite. The problem is.. I cant get over him.. Even though he did cheat on me..i still like him soo much. & he is one of my best friends, i think the reason i do like him so much, is becouse he always sticks up for me. is he even worth it? i have a picture of him on my myspace profile.. (my profile is private.. but if u click on my picture.. it will bring up my picture files) http://www.myspace.com/racer_gurl_for_life thank you.
2007-07-05 22:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by Britt 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
girl, This guy is doing nothing but damage to your self esteem. You are a cute girl and have your whole life in front of you. Let this go. Focus on someone or something else. Plus, what the heck is your ex boyfriend doing going out with your friend? This guy is a jerk off and you two are letting him have his way with you. He probably tells you how hel Loves you and keeps feeding you all crap so you will hang around. This guy doesn't want anything but to line the girls up and get in their pants. The sad thing is you girls seem to be letting him do this or at least keep you on a leash so he can do it later. You just need to remove this guy from your life completely.
2007-07-06 06:40:42 · answer #1 · answered by Paul S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think u want to make it work with him but know deep down in your heart that that's never going to happen and that's why u went to drink with ur friend! I think u did it because you wanted to and because u wanted to feel loved and like someone cared or comfort again something that your boyfriend was supposed to be giving you but wasn't! You shouldn't feel bad about anything especially if your feeling bad cause you think u hurt him! I think you should tell him you did it maybe he"ll realize how much he's actually hurting you make sure you tell him why and what drove you to that maybe hell care this time! To me the only big mess about this is him and if you don't leave its just going keep getting worse! He doesn't want to be with you and he even said that he was trying to make you leave him so he don't have to break up with you well do it and make sure u don't take him back! Or make him think you want hom back! Your worth way more and I know that just by reading this! No one need to be treated like trash except trash itself "him" and that's exactly how he's treating you! Tell him to get a life and stay out of yours! You can do way better! Sorry to say but not everyones as worthless and pathetic as that! Find someone thatll love you no matter what and will protect you and your heart with all they got not through it on the floor and step all over it! Hope I helped :)
2016-05-19 21:15:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what do you want us to do about it? Since you still love a guy u described as a lying, playing and cheating boyfriend. Seems you are still very young and just want cuddle and kisses. When you get older, you will know what is best for you ok? Enjoy but i hope it wnt be too late
2007-07-05 22:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
sounds like a game on everybodys part. He cheated on you, and you now have a "best friend" that he cheated on last night. Are you waiting to swoop him up ? How much of a best friend can you be ? (and guess what ? ....sounds like you are all real young, in which case, he has a lot more years of cheating to do, before he settles down.)
2007-07-05 22:20:25 · answer #4 · answered by Scorpius59 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater. You can't change him. He keeps one on the side just in case he needs her, and he continues to look. If you were the right one for him, he would have stopped looking. So he takes up for you. My ex does the same thing, because he feels guilty for how he treated me. You deserve better. Find you a nice guy, and quit wasting time on this loser!!
2007-07-05 22:14:45 · answer #5 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is a swinger. They always keep several girls around them just like a temporary tire. You'll end up abused or played.
I checked your photo, you think you are very beautiful, but its the freshness of 15 years. You look like a nice pray for predators. Choose to be clever.
2007-07-05 22:15:57 · answer #6 · answered by rexxyellocat 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not worth it....
just because he sticks up for you doesn't make it right for cheating on you. you need to get your priority straight, a cheater will always be a cheater. the fact that he did it to your best friend should have your alarm bells going crazy!
2007-07-05 22:15:41 · answer #7 · answered by diagnostix 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well if u like him then give him one more shot but if he does it again like cheat then why bother he is a pig and he needs to be put in his place movie suggestion john tucker must die! lol really think iss he worth it
2007-07-05 22:15:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it still says itz private when u click on ya pic but dis guy doesnt sound like hes NOT worth it ta me!!..itz goin ta be hard but i think u need ta get over him..i think your very pretty n u can find sum1 better than him (no homo!)..GOOD LUCK!!
2007-07-05 22:14:14 · answer #9 · answered by ♥KiYa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of course he's not worth it. you have to deal with the pain until you get over him.
2007-07-05 22:15:14 · answer #10 · answered by suzi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋