What should a man understand in a woman?

Question

I gave all the love i could to her, even in a long distance relationship (not exactly cause is only 2 hours away, and we spoke everyday and meet every weekend). I know she loved me back, she cherished about the relation, but recently she told me she doesnt feel the same, that we have not so many things in common, that she doesnt feel so happy, that she wanted space and so on.

I gave her space, i stoped arguing (we argued because i didnt felt she was focused on me during the last 4 months).

I dont understand this behaviour, but i know that we broke up, and later i got out she came back to her ex, before we broked up.
And i know these words of her telling her girl-friend about her and her ex "we have many things in common, he understands me, i feel myself when im with him" (this girl used to break with him before 2 years because she didnt love him anymore. Is this a rebound relation between them?

What should a man do to understand a woman, cause this question makes me crazy.

Answer 1

WERE INDIVIDUALS!!!!!!! Why do you people make life so hard on yourselves not understanding this..... ether way its her and you buddy, what you lacked to keep that relationship together comes down to you and her and the conversations and intimacy you shared. Also did you give her a future? Did you make it sound like forever? How easy did you let her go? Screw it just figure it out from this old chinese proverb, in it is what you did wrong "Friends can make great lovers, but lovers rarly every become friends" Seems you guys made decent lovers, but the friendship...... was to little to late, maybe just on her side, but next time understand thats whats at the core of and deep and meaningful relationship. Shoot I've got serious "girlfriends" and I can't get rid of them(not because they like my manhood unfornaturely buts its good to be loved for more then that), it doesn't mean we f like animals, although love-making happens. But there here for me..... learn the world, before you live it.....