well me and my wife are from very strict families...so she was a virgin til marriage...and i was a virgin till we got married....
and she hasnt a clue...about sex....only beside that its to make babies...
she doesnt know what an orgasm is coz shes never had 1 before...
now coz i cant explain it to her....i just keep trying to give her 1...
but i cant seem to tell if shes had 1 yet...
can someone help me...
im new to this...and i cant seem to tell....
and she doesnt know her self...so how can i tell shes orgasmed...
i want to know when i get her there...and then i want to be able to tell her shes had an orgasm so she knows what it feels like...
shes very shy and i cant talk to her about it and explain it to her.
2007-07-03 00:42:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
and when we have sex....she just lies there the whole time...just looking at me...
and when she gets really wet she just smiles a little...and opens and shuts her eyes....and if im inside her...and i rub her clit...i feel rythamic movements of her vagia....and her lips sqeeze my penis...with rythamic motions for a few seconds...and she just smiles....a lot...and after her breathings faster at that time....then after a bit she just shuts her eyes...for about 5 minutes or so...and then she says shes very tired....
does that mean she had an orgasm....
she doesnt moan or anything... she just smiles a lot when shes really wet....and i begin to feel squeezes...and her breathing goes fast...and then she goes sore....her clit...
and she feels tired....and has to catch her breath a few minutes...and then just goest to sleep happy...
since i first felt the squeezes shes started to want sex more....is she having em then...
2007-07-03 00:48:13 · update #1
well coz were muslims its against our religious belives...
and shes very shy....if i try to show her porn shel just shut her eyes the whole way....through the movie....
or shes just get upset and go in other room....thinking i dont like her...
2007-07-03 00:50:10 · update #2
This is a FUN learning experience and one you can share together!! Get a good book, sit down with her and BOTH of you learn how to pleasure each other. Don't be afraid to talk to her, no matter how embarrassing it is, it is natural to have to learn about sex, it is not something that is taught in school! This is a great problem to have!!
2007-07-03 01:42:32 · answer #1 · answered by Lee B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it is not fair for her and you should consider her feelings to! Have you discussed this with her? You should. Maybe she has a medical problem that she needs to be seen for and that might be the trouble and then you and her can going on being together. What it really sounds like to me is that you do not have the feelings for her like you did when you first got married and maybe therapy is what you need. Don't hurt her like that it is not fair for either of you and you may just open up a can of worms that you don't want opened and may mess up the best thing that has ever happened to you. Think long and hard about it before you do something dumb and what you might regret later and then it will be too late.
2016-05-17 06:47:10 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seeing that she is shy why not ask a female friend to explain it to her maybe it will be easier for her and you, but you should feel it when she reach a orgasm as she will become well how do i put this to you ? wet , what country are you from where the men are still virgins, sorry just nosy. Good luck
2007-07-03 00:51:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chances are she is having an orgasim. Talk to her. She is your wife and you should not be ashamed of your sexuality because it is meant for both of you to have pleasure in both of you. Enjoy each other and try new things. Be easy with her and she will come around. Ask her what she wants in the bedroom and do it. It is about both of you.
2007-07-03 01:36:30 · answer #4 · answered by M 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be slow and patient and don't really worry about it. Just show her love and take your time. If you learn how to do the things that you need to do she will have one and she will definitely know when it happens. It may take a while so be patient. Oral may help her if you take your time doing it.
2007-07-03 00:50:52 · answer #5 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Jesus Christ!!...
If sex is something so sinful and disgusting, then why DID YOU AND YOUR WIFE GET MARRIED?
Wouldn't it have been better if your wife had entered a convent, or remained unmarried?...
2007-07-03 00:57:14 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
LOl, you got problems.
Watch porn movies, I guess!
2007-07-03 00:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Mom of 2 great boys 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
jist go toa doctor, and tell your problems
2007-07-03 00:45:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do either or both of you preform oral on the other?
2007-07-03 01:04:53 · answer #9 · answered by William S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋