Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

spend on a wedding ring/eng. ring and can someone pplz explain the difference and ya im totally lost on all this stuff

thanks

2007-06-29 23:59:41 · 16 answers · asked by eggbcn 1 in Weddings

First,I need to explain,I am in a poor,developing country,so we are traditional,we worship chastity from old ancient to now in the bone. In our country,at least 99% men still have the thick virgin bond,so have I.
The diva is 18 years old now,I am 24,and she was born in the same village with me,a poor,backward,inconvenient mountainous area,The distance between her blighty and mine is not over 500 metres. Her prarents and mine are all simpleminded farmers in one smeede(an administrant unit under village),of course they are very familiar in an old original rural village. Though my family is poor,I am fortunate,I am clever and diligent in study,later I entered the university and gained a diploma,because of high education,I found a nice occupation,white collar,with a nice income. But she is not so lucky,she educated after junior high school,then went to a plant of far city for manual working,with low wage.

2007-06-29 23:54:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to have a affair with a married woman because my wife well not give me sex,it has been three years,just because i am married does not mean i lost all my needs,i have tryed to talk with her about it,any ideas??help,i am horney

2007-06-29 23:47:58 · 33 answers · asked by notsohardtofigure 3 in Marriage & Divorce

Tell me what it was like

2007-06-29 23:45:34 · 14 answers · asked by ChocolateDrop13 1 in Singles & Dating

I was unpacking some things at my boyfriends last night and came across some of my old wedding pictures. I showed them to my boyfriend because he wanted to see them awhile ago.

A couple of minutes later, I went back into the same room as him and asked if he could see us getting married. We used to talk about it when we first met but haven't in a long time. I then asked if he ever wanted to get married again. (He's been divorced 2 times). He said "To the right person."

This offended me and I asked him what I am to him then. He asked if I think I'm the right person and I said no. He then said "why do you say that?"

He said I read into things too much, I'm insecure and he loves me. I don't know what to think by his comments though. And honestly, I don't know if I ever want to get married again.

2007-06-29 23:36:56 · 12 answers · asked by torn 3 in Marriage & Divorce

There is this boy in my neighborhood and I think he likes me but i'm not sure he chases me all the time and talks to me alot.

2007-06-29 23:34:52 · 13 answers · asked by ChocolateDrop13 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-29 23:29:53 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 23:26:24 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we have been together 3 years and i love her and she love me but somtimes i think its not working there is too many problems .to start i love sex but she is not that intersted i like romance and eating out or go to the move and she is not that botherd ,she is 23 and i am 33.

2007-06-29 23:25:46 · 27 answers · asked by will edward m 1 in Singles & Dating

my present marraige is not siccessful, can i gor for a another affair pls suggest me

2007-06-29 23:21:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband-to-be is not keen on inlaws being at wedding either but we are wondering with something as special as a wedding, should we invite them? They hate me and say so to my face and constantly tell my partner he should break it off with me. we've been together 7 years & have 3 kids but I'm not good enough according to them because I came from a family with no money. We are thinking more of the aunts & uncles on partners side who we definately want to invite and have a lot of respect for. They would like to see us invite the inlaws. We thought about marrying while on holidays then coming back for a BBQ, but still have the dilema of who and who not to invite. Also, partner has a brother & sister-in -law who are not nice people, definately not invited to the wedding. The inlaws would put the pressure on us to invite them as all the other brothers & sisters will be invited. MESSY! any helpful advice appreciated- thanks. dustmud.

2007-06-29 23:20:10 · 9 answers · asked by ? 1 in Weddings

what were the consiquences?do you regret it?are you having one now?

2007-06-29 23:15:44 · 15 answers · asked by hunniiuk 5 in Marriage & Divorce

why the divorce incerese in development country?

2007-06-29 23:01:01 · 14 answers · asked by ilnaz_nia 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 22:55:35 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I HAVE A 17 YEAR OLD STEP SON AND A 19 YEAR OLD THEY BOTH WILL DO NOTHING FOR ME AROUND THE HOUSE UNLESS THEY GET SOMETHING THEY LIVE HERE FOR FREE. I CHARGE THEM 20 DOLLARS A WEEK FOR GAS TO TAKE THEM TO AND FROM WORK . THE 17 YEAR OLD WANTS HIS DRIVERS PERMIT I TOLD HIM NO UNTIL HE CHANGES HE GOT MAD I JUST HAD KNEE SURGEY AND THEY WILL DO NOTHING SO I TOLD THEM THEY ARE GOING TO PAY RENT HERE 20 DOLLARS A WEEK AND THEY BOTH QUIT THERE JOBS SO I TOLD THEM YOU HAVE 7 DAYS TO GET A JOB OR YOU ARE OUT THIS CAUSES ALL FIGHTING WITH THE WIFE I PAY ALL THE BILLS HERE I PUT THE GAS IN THE CARS AND I OWN THE CARS PLUS I PAY THE INSURANCE, AND THE 19 YEAR OLD JUST WANTS TO SIT AROUND AND WATCH TV WITH MOMMY. AND EATS US OUT OF HOUSE AND HOME HE EATS A FULL 16" PITZA BY HIMSELF AND WASTES SODA OPENS A CAN TAKES A SIP AND LETS IT SIT SO NOW NO SODA AND NOW HE DOES THAT TO MY WATER! IAM READY TO THROW THEM ALL OUT AND GET A DIVORCE!

2007-06-29 22:54:40 · 6 answers · asked by allan l 2 in Family

2007-06-29 22:52:35 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

my husband 56.i 44 married 4 years. he never admired me in anything. i am a piano teacher. this morning,he said i think your students never stay with you long. actually,i am a very popular teacher whom all kids like very much. i hate to be despised all the time. he always forces me to do things i hate,for example,you would say you put too much food in your bowl and forces me to put the food back. how embarrassing. he will say you are very fat. i am 135 pound but i have been like this all my life.i am 5 feet 4.or many times wants me to do things i dont like . if i argue,he will be very mad but i feel so painful in my heart. we have no kid,of course,i dont want kids with him at all.

2007-06-29 22:43:24 · 17 answers · asked by Carol H 3 in Family

ok we were dating/having sex etc... like four years ago. we had a fight and within a month he already moved in with another girl. this is his current wife. i tried to get ahold of him and get him back an dhe ignored me. when i finally got ahold of him he bragged about his new woman and how happy he was. he called again to brag that he got her pregnatn. he even called and aksed me to sleep w/ him whlie she was in the hospital over night after she had his kid. i said NO. i got sick ofh im and chewed him out and did not talk to him for four years. years later we ran into each other on a web site. talked on email and such both admitting we miss each other and he said im his soul mate the one who got away. and also during our 3 years of not talking he has married the mother of his child. he kept talking how much he loves me and she is horrible to him , bla bla bla. then says he cant dump her cuase he will have to pay child support. he still wants to talk to me on the side but ONLY when s

2007-06-29 22:33:15 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my son has seen his dad on off since he was born.weve been apart for 5years(hes a drug addict). Recently i split from a partner of 2 yrs. i got on with life and bumped into my sons dad at his sis.he wanted to see his son and i ok'd this as long as he behaved around my son .one day i gave him a lift home and went in, it was a state , i knew he was suffering depression and cleaned up got him some food which he payed me back and did some laundry for him.just to help him out as i would anyone i knew.ive kept him at arms length as i dont want anything other than the fact he is my sons dad, but i feel by the way hes talking that he thinks something else and i want to stress i not done anything to encourage him i done for him what i do for anyone. anyway my recent x has been in touch and wants to sort things out the last time this happened my x x wanted to tell my partner wed slept together ,untrue and turned aggressive in front of my son and since my x has an issue about this and i stuck

2007-06-29 22:28:31 · 9 answers · asked by julie s 2 in Family

Do you prefer
-bad girls too
or
- good girls

2007-06-29 22:21:19 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my husband does not have sex with me for the past 9 mons, he left 3 mos ago, i have not seen him since, before he left i would ask him if he had someone else, he said no, now please explain to me how can a man, my husband sleep next to me and have no intrest in me, he would not touch me or kiss me while we were in bed. but the weirdest thing is this, when we not in a bedroom setting let say when we go out or even around the house he was very loving with me, he carress me , he will hug and always ask me to sit beside him, he was caring. but i can not explain how he just stopped having sex or making love to me, he would simply fall asleep in bed and towards the end fall asleep in the sofa, I am a very confuse wife and my self-esteem is in the bottom of the ocean,if someone is going thru this please let me know, thank you

2007-06-29 22:18:20 · 8 answers · asked by karen c 2 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend and i have been dating 4 about 8 months i love him sooo much i want us to get married one day have kids and a really good future together but i have secong thought because he treats me bad.....he will hit me sometimes call me a ***** and whore but i still love hom and want to be with him...stupid i know but i cant help who i love...he tells me he loves me but this isnt love its lust i know he has a problem and i have tried to change him but i cant im soooo scared to loose him but i dont want to d this naymore i cant b treated bad he physically and verbally abuses me my friends and family call me stupid but i guess his words and sexual intercourses get me loving him more. i just dont know what to do..i cry when we argue and when he treats me bad but im soo tired of bein treated bad and hurting but i love him sooo much what should i do????

2007-06-29 22:17:40 · 21 answers · asked by 1989star 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My husband cheated on me emotionally, not sexually, two years ago. I found out when his girlfriend tried to blackmale him. He confessed and called the police. We went through counciling and later decided to try to have a baby. Now, I have a month old baby and found out that he has been cheating for the past year and even proposed to her! I want to work it out. I love him and want our family to stay together! What can I do?

2007-06-29 22:08:31 · 22 answers · asked by Mandy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 22:07:51 · 2 answers · asked by Mercury 2010 7 in Friends

I think you know what I'm refering to lol

2007-06-29 22:00:59 · 14 answers · asked by wilo_chick 4 in Singles & Dating

my two kids are four now and dont look anything like me , they actually look like two of my coworkers:( everyone can see it:(

2007-06-29 21:53:02 · 11 answers · asked by franco blanco 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 21:51:43 · 26 answers · asked by A True Gentleman 5 in Singles & Dating

i m 17 male.i have raped by my fathers business partners son ron who is 22 few days later.in a family party he said that he loves me but i said no.then he was so angry and..........he froced me.........so much pain through all my body.i went 2 bed with my gf yestarday but couldnt find any pleasure of sex but i have lots of pleasure with her before.my family is very rich and i m only son of my parents.they expect lots from me as they are giving everythings i want.ron said me sorry and said he loves me very much.my parents belive me so much and i cant break their dreams.but i could forget ron now.what is happening 2 me.m i goind 2 mad?..i dont know what 2 do.is there any way that i can foget him.by the way rons family is richest family in the state so i cant take any actions and my fathers business share is joined with his family.

2007-06-29 21:50:59 · 4 answers · asked by shahedhero 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so males and females, if your partner started crying while you were doing the business so to speak. Wat would you feel/do/say?

No I didn't make anyone cry before you start reporting me.

2007-06-29 21:42:19 · 14 answers · asked by UniBeauty 5 in Singles & Dating

im not sure?

2007-06-29 21:41:36 · 13 answers · asked by verbal kent 1 in Marriage & Divorce