Crying During S ex?

Question

Ok so males and females, if your partner started crying while you were doing the business so to speak. Wat would you feel/do/say?

No I didn't make anyone cry before you start reporting me.

And again no i havent had anyone cry on me!!!!

Ok I'll be honest. Last night I creid. Not because he was too big, although the whole experience was uncomfortable. But because he came round, immediatly said 'I'm gonna f uck you.' took me upstairs and just did it, didn't spend any time whatsoever getting me ready for it. And when I said it hurt he just said 'good' I cried because he wasn't the gentle caring man anymore, he had just come round for that. All I wanted was a hug and some intimacy, all he wanted was that. I felt last night I had lost the man I love. And when he smacked my arm against the metal headboard again I said it hurt and to stop. he said 'no. pain is good.' It wasn't needless to say. So I just went along with it and even pretended to enjoy it to get it over with.

Answer 1

well (hopefully I'd be in a position where I was already facing him)...I'd be concerned...I would not pull away nor would I remove him from inside me however I would stop any humping motion...I'd pretend that he wasn't still inside me and I'd ask him what was wrong

to be honest...I feel closer to my fiance when his manhood is deep within me so sometimes when we've been working all week and haven't seen each other and I'm just having a really bad day or I miss him what we'll do is we'll strip naked and in either the missionary or the cowgirl we'll get into the position to have sex but we won't have sex, we'll just wrap our arms around each other and kiss and sometimes cry and talk...when you're voulnerable like that with a person it can really make you closer...sometimes this method of "holding" each other leads to passionate sex and other times it just leads to cuddling with his d*ck inside me
although neither of us has ever cried during sex...we have both cried while holding each other this way

edit: I find it funny that most of the men answering this question think that a woman would cry because he was too big-HA-have none of you seen a baby coming out a uterus before...is your d*ck anything like the size of a baby?! and FYI the guys who think they're penis are huge are usually the guys who are at best only average sized...and even the biggest human penis in the world would not hurt her to the point where she was cring...I will admit that getting your cherry popped hurts like hell and some women might cry the first time however after that then there really is no penis large enough to make a woman cry
this really is a testament to how different most men and women are: for women sex can be a love thing, a spiritual connection that might be so beautiful and so loving that they cry from happiness! For men this is rarely the case, instead it's usually just a fleshy thing
and god your egos aggravate me "I assume this is because I'm too big?" no buddy-this is because you don't know how to work it---you are a clueless, egotistical, freak if you think your d*ck is so big we can't handle it
theres a reason women carry the kids and not men: women can handle more pain with out crying than a man can, plain and simple
HA I'm still laughing : get over yourself losers

2nd edit: hon, don't pretend you like it rough to make him happy...if you need alittle romance that's fine and that's your right and if he hurt you then you need to say "no"
stand up for yourself: too many women have their sexualities taken away from them by men and that's what you let happen last night...girl if I was there I would have kicked his @$$ (I may be tiny but I've taken every woman's self-defense course offered and I lift weights/jog three times a week) go look your self in the mirror and say out loud "I am a beautiful sexual being and I deserve a beautiful sexual experience everytime I am intimate with a man." then say it until you believe it -he had no right to hurt you and you need to to let it known to him that you will NOT have sex unless both parties are comfortable with whats going on! if you're not in the mood then he has to work for it because YOU ARE A BEAUTIFUL SEXUAL BEING WHO DESERVES A BEAUTIFUL SEXUAL EXPERIENCE period and end of story---he doesn't throw you up against things and he doesn't demand sex without foreplay---if he does ANYTHING then it needs to be something you BOTH want. stand up for your self and take back your sexuality as a woman!

Answer 2

I would feel confused, I would have to stop because I couldnt continue. I would say something like " what's the matter" and then after that was over, I'd think twice before having sex with them again. But then, if they had a good enough reason and we came to an understanding that we both were comfortable with , maybe things would be ok to continue. THIS WOULD HAVE TO BE A GIRL BECAUSE GUYS JUST DONT CRY DURING SEX.

Answer 3

if my partner were to start to cry i would feel sort of of bad and good at the same time because if you are a gifted man then you could just be cuasing some pain that is causing her to cry but on the other hand you could be smalll and she could be crying trying to hold back the laughter that would make me sad and want to cry

Answer 4

I had someone cry on me once.

She was not raped at all.
(for you report happy people that don't even know whats really going on)

It still made me feel terrible. I had to stop. We talked about it, naked and laying next to each other. She couldn't explain much. Just said it hurt because it was her first time. Found out later that she was cheating on her boyfriend. that she already had sex with.

But still, tried to make it happen between us.

Not good.

That was the only time I ever had that issue.

It devistated me.
ok, maybe not THAT bad, but it still sat on my mind for about 8 years.

Answer 5

man.. i read ur other post too
like i sed

u dont need to put urself through this

if u think u love him
well try to tell him about it
and if u guys dont get anywhere
with that..
try asking family or friends..might be serious

i dont think thats right for what he did
if he loved you he wouldnt have done any of that

Answer 6

This HAS happened to me. He said he was overcome with emotion because our connection- physical, emotional, spiritual- was so intense. It sounds nuts but it was such a deep, meaningful moment for us.

Answer 7

dude one time my ex started crying in the middle of sex. It freaked me out, she said it was just because she was in love with me and really happy. i didnt know how to react at all.

Answer 8

I'd be surprised and feel awkward and ask what's wrong and just hug him.

Answer 9

I would say "hey I cant help that Im so big, just take it like a champ"

Answer 10

I think I would feel very surprised and ask him why he was crying.