whats the reasons of inceresing divorce?

Question

why the divorce incerese in development country?

Answer 1

do you think it might have something to do with the declining morals in this country, the lack of personal responsibility and commitment?

Personal responsibility is an interesting concept, it is not stalking women on Y!A and then blaming the women, only sickos do that.

Answer 2

Well I think that most people don't know what they are doing then when they reilze that it is not pretend they don't like being tied down but then people are the ones who destroe there own relationships the never talk or say what they feel the just want the other to know like a mind reader but nobody can do that so solwly they grow apart.others get tied up in work and life and never take time to be there for each other cuz they are so busy and don't notices untill the other is cheating are something eles people needs to take time and have date night at least one a month and make that extra time to get the other something think about them for once. and go the extra mile for each other both sexes do the same thing so you really can't blme just men or women so if you really think about it people need to be more aware of what is going one nd what to do from time to time.ya i know how tried you can get and how stressed life can be but taking that time may just give you tha break that you need no fighting over notthing just sitting over dinner or some drinks or eaven a movie or just hangin out or what ever just be there listen to the other and things like this would not happen as much as they are now and not to turn to others but to there partners in time of need and the partners need to listen then the other way around so it equles out between the both of you and aprechat what the other does whether it is working or staing home with kids they are both and eqully hard and stress full so give each other a break and chill out for like an hour a day or whatever everything will be there when you come back off you time out.. they are not going to get to much worse that what it is like disher chloes or whatever it is you are doing...

Answer 3

the cause is a number of things.
it started during the World Wars I and II. in the early Twentieth Century. During this Era Many of the men were sent off to war, some returned years after they left, others died. Because of this, Children grew-up without a Father, also mothers had to leave the home and work in order to provide for their families. because of this Children were not raised by their Mothers but by hired stangers and older siblings or relatives. either way children spend less time with the two people who should have been guiding their lives.
Another Cause is that during the Baby boom people Got married young to a person they may have known for months instead of years. therefore years later when character traits that could not be seen earlier started to pop up and interfier with the relationship later on instead of trying to fix the character traits or liv with them, spouses decided to take the easy way out. divorce. thereby setting the example for the later generations.

But if the Baby Boomers had been raised by a generation that had been raised by there parents instead of stangers. perhaps there would have been less problems with the generations that came after. question is is it two late to fix it?

Answer 4

There are lots of reasons. I saw a lot of people while I was doing checkout work, and the three major categories I saw were as follows:
1. Women who gave up everything to provide the most they could for their children. I will always remember one woman telling me she had always wanted to do dance lessons, but couldn't afford to because she had to pay for after-school activities for her daughters. In the end these women end up colourless and sad because they aren't achieving any of their personal dreams. No wonder their marriages break down, they no longer the happy, fun woman their husband married.

2. Men who behave like helpless wimps. No one wants a domineering man, but there's nothing attractive about a wimp.

3. Husbands and wives don't spend enough time hanging out having fun. People work too much.

Answer 5

Developed countries, like the U.S., have a fast food mentality. They want everything now, they seem to think problems can be solved in a 1/2 hour sitcom, and young couples think they should immediately have a big new house with 2 expensive new cars parked in the driveway. No one seems to understand delaying gratification anymore, so lots of unhappiness and fighting and no personal skills to work it out.

Answer 6

Theres no down side for the people cheating. Most states don't acknowledge that as a cause of divorce. They are not held responsible for their actions. Cheating on a spouse should be a crime. This would keep it from being so common.

Answer 7

Lack of money:People expect to much for to little, instead of looking for the simple forms of life to make you happy, they get complicated and, expect to much.

This happens when one spouse slows down a little also, the other runs to anothers arms right away, to be satisfied, there's no faithfulness or, very little. No one takes their marriage vows to heart anymore.

Another is the kids. As soon as life tightens a little one spouse "can't take the pressure" and looks elsewhere for relief.

It all amounts to how much you want to put in your relationship, what are you willing to give?

Answer 8

cheating is the leading one right now, however, people just don't want to work it out - go through the hardships together. They are more concerned about their individualism and not the joining of 2 souls - they just give up

Answer 9

People give up too easy. Instead of working on a relationship to make it stronger and more loving, when something goes wrong, they just decide its too hard, and get divorced.

The old line. for better for worse, richer for poorer in sickness and in health means squat these days...

Just my humble opinion! :)

Answer 10

A lack of emotional maturity, compromise, sympathy and forgiveness.