Family & Relationships - 29 June 2007

I have a girl friend who is very open minded towards me...couple of days back she had called me...i was busy at that time and i gave the phone to one of my co-staff as she could talk to him while i was busy with a customer..later next day she told me that person had called her up and was speaking to her till 2:30 in the night..i was suprised to hear this as how could she even talk to a person whom she didn't even know...? and later she told me he wanted to meet her and i told her not to do so..she told me she will not go and i came to know that she went to meet him next day(came to know abt this from her cousin)but she had promised me she wiil not go to meet him...my co-staff is kind of flirty with all girls and i dont want her to meet him again...his character is not good though....how can i avoid this and bring her back to my good ol friend...now i think she doesn't even want to talk with me..If i say something she'll hung up the phone...i almost got tears in my eyes... plz help...

2007-06-29 21:31:47 · 10 answers · asked by kevin_blue_line 3 in Friends

i met this guy & we really hit it off.Now its a year &1/2 later. we have a 4 month old son together. in my last trimester of my pregnancy i discovered that he had a girl friend of 4 years before we met. he provides for my son & i very well. i really love him & want a family but there is this other woman. Recently she broke it off with him &he seems to be heart broken.he really loves her & now he wants 2 marry her. some people tell me that i should just go with the flow because he does so much for me but money sometimes just isnt enough. i've never been the other woman 2 anyone. i would leave him but my child needs him. what should i do?

2007-06-29 21:24:48 · 12 answers · asked by Enacent H 1 in Singles & Dating

seriously all she does is sleep all ****** g day and nag about my lil sis still living at home at 21yrs old. but my dad cant do nothing about it cause hes affraid of her nagging now my grand mother just moved in shes 86 years old starting to loose it she goes on herself when you go to my sis room it smell foul and whos taking care of her is my sis she cant move in with me cause im only 1 year older and im in college. now she moving out with her soon to be husband and she doesnt wanna tell them because they never supported her for nothing but im afraid of whom is going to take care of granny cause i know my devil step mother will not.

2007-06-29 21:23:56 · 3 answers · asked by john c 1 in Family

i don't really want to but he's being very cold with me whenever I try and put it off. I don't understand why he wants some, its not as though he's never seen me naked before, so why does he want a picture. am I being stupid, should I just give in?

2007-06-29 21:09:39 · 25 answers · asked by lydia d 3 in Singles & Dating

A person having 60 years going to old age home with the pressure of his family for whom he sacrifice in his young age. Can you think it is fair?

2007-06-29 21:06:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

A person having 60 years going to old age home with the pressure of his family for whom he sacrifice in his young age. Can you think it is fair?

2007-06-29 21:05:57 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Is it a good sign when a guy puts a smiley face in a msg after saying he's going to see you a certain day. ex: then imma c u 2moro :) ...he kept askin me if i was gonna be able to go and then in a previous conversation he was askin me a lot of questions about myself...even where i live (he walks home sometimes...iono if that helps)...then he would try to make as many attempts to touch my hand (like he was showimg me some trick he learned) and my arm too...are these good signs that he might like me...i mean he even payed attention when i was talking...and if he does like me then how do i flirt back in a cute way to show that i like him too...help me please...

2007-06-29 20:31:14 · 5 answers · asked by Sweety 4 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 20:30:32 · 13 answers · asked by kajal m 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've been living with my boyfriend for like 4 yrs now but the past 10months have been a nightmare because he made friends with another gal and she started calling him late in the night and he the same then he started going to her place without me even though I wanted to. I asked him to stop flirting with her but no, he'll chat with her call her baby,pussy and tell her how much he loves her n she'll write to say how much she needs him. Like 2 months ago I met this guy he's a friend but we've become really close n in a way i feel my bf doesnt appreciate me n people r laughing at me coz of what he's doing. I think I should end my r/ship with him but am afraid to make a mistake but I feel he's really pushed me to the edge. My bf says am flirting too but when I asked with whom? he said he'd not tell me. Am confused and I need to make a decision bout him n the new guy. He is a nice person and i stayed in the hope he'll see am hurting but its not happening, am in a dilema HELP ME PLS!

2007-06-29 20:29:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Guys, please help me. I'm 23 and have been sleeping with this guy I really like for two years. He knows how much I like him, and, while I realize his interest does not seem as great as mine, he says he likes me too. We don't go out on dates or sleep with other people, but we don't call each other boyfriend/ girlfriend either, but he does call me "his girl." He doesn't want me to sleep with other guys and I don't want him to sleep with other girls. We have never actually been out on a date. We do our own thing and have our own friends, and while we enjoy each others' company, he knows I would like to deepen our relationship. Please tell me, especially if you are a guy who has been in a similar situation, have I just been this guy's f*ck buddy for the last two years? Is there any hope that we might be more in the future or am I just destined to be nothing more than a snuggle buddy? Thanks!

2007-06-29 20:22:24 · 13 answers · asked by ~~LaLaLa~~~ 2 in Singles & Dating

He guilts me into doing his homework for him (we are in college), including essays and projects. He complains and tells me that I'm "not a good writer" when these essays don't get high grades (I am not in the same classes as him and he asks me to do papers at the very last minute, of course they aren't going to be A papers). He is afraid of going to the bathroom by himself sometimes. He once yelled at me, flipped me off, told me "**** you," told me he didn't love me anymore and made me cry because I didn't borrow *enough* toilet paper from our next door neighbor for him
Once, he was having a disagreement with one of our friends and he said I "sided with her" instead of him (even though I don't really think I sided with anyone). He was so angry about this he said the only way he could trust me again was if I cut my hand a little bit and make it bleed show that I was loyal to him.
He gets mad at me if I to go to my own house because one of my housemates' friends has a crush on me. HELP!

2007-06-29 20:21:23 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

LOVE PROBLEM

2007-06-29 20:18:25 · 3 answers · asked by Fawad aryan 1 in Friends

2007-06-29 20:04:08 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-29 20:00:26 · 18 answers · asked by anish s 1 in Marriage & Divorce

My mother has always told me that my sister should be my maid of honor no matter what, because it is just what people do. Is this true? I do not even like my sister very much to be honest (you'd have to know her, so please don't think I am being rude?) I would really like for my best friend to be my MOH, but I know that my mom and sister would both be very upset. How do I explain this to my mother and sister??

2007-06-29 19:54:17 · 31 answers · asked by Kaylin 4 in Weddings

2007-06-29 19:53:47 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She honestly comes to my face and tells me that she has an interest in guys even up to 35. She's turning 15 and she does get those wowie-wa-wa glares and I personally hate it. People think it's her clothing and the fact that she looks a bit older. But she cant throw on a baggy t-shirt with jeans and sneakers and it's the same. I know she's going to get hurt one day, and honestly I don't know what to do, I've considered counselling.

Also, she has a thing for firefighters and police officers. She has gotten caught following officers once.

2007-06-29 19:44:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm home with the kids while he's out drinking and having a good time. I guess I'm not worth enough to be taken along.

2007-06-29 19:41:51 · 9 answers · asked by SugarFreeRedBull 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 19:31:39 · 13 answers · asked by E-350 2 in Singles & Dating

My fiance loves to dance and i have tried many times but i just have no rhythm. At this 35+ club, he likes to dance with close friends. I know there is no way that he would cheat on me, but the fact that he wants to touch other women like that bothers me INCREDIBLY. Am i wrong? Please be honest.

2007-06-29 19:24:20 · 13 answers · asked by shanleywins 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm blushing as red as can be!! Running as fast as I can to get this over with!!

oh my goodness...i'm NAKED!!!...i don't even have any socks on!!!...could you PLEASE not look?

2007-06-29 19:18:07 · 10 answers · asked by James 1 in Friends

How do you ask a guy about his feelings for you, without pressuring him? I am getting signals from him that he likes me, he has said that he does "like me" (not sure if just as friends or not) and he wouldnt have come out for coffee "if he wasnt interested" But then he just treats me like he did before i told him i like him alot. So im just confused. And i want to ask him how he really feels...is this a good idea or do i give him more time? Its been a week since i said i like u alot. (For more details on what he said in response please see my other questions) Thanks for your comments...they mean alot.

2007-06-29 19:11:40 · 6 answers · asked by tied together with a smile 2 in Singles & Dating

He goes everynight with his guy friends, i have a feeling he is cheating on me, or maybe doing drugs behind my back, he keeps coming home with all red eyes and just wants to go to sleep. How do i ask him if he is cheating or doing drugs without him getting mad at me. I dont want to hear "let him do drugs", he stopped when we got together and he seemed really proud of himself, now i dont know if i shoudl be proud or pissed off, if he still is doing them.

2007-06-29 19:08:09 · 14 answers · asked by wavemaster1821 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My girlfriend is selfish ,she's also a taker more than a giver, she has the worst mood swings, and she's never wrong. I now ,break up with her right. She just told me she's pregnant. Any advice on how i should with handle this or maybe the best way to handle a situation like this one. Should i stay or should i go?

2007-06-29 19:06:31 · 17 answers · asked by Nas 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-29 19:05:22 · 21 answers · asked by ericaasberry 1 in Marriage & Divorce

well i have a song called run away by bubba sparxxx..thats me and my bf's song but i wanna new song for my myspace and i cant seem to find a perfect song...maybe these things will help , i LOVE him ofcourse i wish we could spend more time together, i dont want him to ever leave, i hope we grow old together lol k find a song plz! lol

2007-06-29 19:03:13 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, her name is Anne. Anne's been going out with this dude named Ray. They seem pretty happy and have been going out for the past 4 months....well until....Anne found out she was related to Ray. It ended up Anne's grandpa was Ray's mom's second cousin. They broke up already but Ray wants to get back together. Anne still loves Ray but doesn't know if she should go out with Ray because they're related.....so should she?? (Personally, I want them to end up together because Ray and Anne really do seem great together, they get along and everything, and...they're just perfect, it's just Ray's and Anne's family don't want them together...because you know....)
She's asking me for advice soo.....help

2007-06-29 19:02:41 · 2 answers · asked by Angel 1 in Singles & Dating

.. if you have a best friend yo've known for 5 years and you were trying to get her and her ex fience (whoz had a lot of problems) back together because they both wanted you to, and he somehow gets a hold of your number without you or the friend knowing, and starts talking to you.. one day leads to 2, 2 to 3 , and so on.. and you guys start to talk and stuff.. and he becomes "supposedly" interested.. and tells her that YOU fell for him and wanted to be with him. n it kills you and your best friends rellationship for good.. wat now? was it a bad thing ever answering his calls to begin with? what do u do n say to that??
*heLp!!*

2007-06-29 18:59:27 · 2 answers · asked by *r0yAlty piMp* 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-29 18:57:47 · 18 answers · asked by aquamoon 2 in Singles & Dating

why do i get so furious when i know he's been "playing" cribbage with the town whore. our sex life is all but over. it was great but i cannot bring myself to enjoy him or the act because of all the emotional abuse and because he is with a whore once or twice a month. why do i get mad. i don't want to be with him and when i am i wish it would end quickly. he pleasures me mostly. i can't even stomach the thought of doing anything for him, he has her, why should i. why can't i just let it be. who cares. anything but this dumb whore and i go off the deep end.

2007-06-29 18:57:04 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce