I have a girl friend who is very open minded towards me...couple of days back she had called me...i was busy at that time and i gave the phone to one of my co-staff as she could talk to him while i was busy with a customer..later next day she told me that person had called her up and was speaking to her till 2:30 in the night..i was suprised to hear this as how could she even talk to a person whom she didn't even know...? and later she told me he wanted to meet her and i told her not to do so..she told me she will not go and i came to know that she went to meet him next day(came to know abt this from her cousin)but she had promised me she wiil not go to meet him...my co-staff is kind of flirty with all girls and i dont want her to meet him again...his character is not good though....how can i avoid this and bring her back to my good ol friend...now i think she doesn't even want to talk with me..If i say something she'll hung up the phone...i almost got tears in my eyes... plz help...
2007-06-29 21:31:47 · 10 answers · asked by kevin_blue_line 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Thank you all guys...i'll see wat to do next ....thanks all for you ....cutie bethany,souther princess,niki..thanks a lott..
2007-06-29 22:05:17 · update #1
I hate to tell you this, but she's not trustworthy. First, she met this guy after telling you she wouldn't. Then you say she'll hang up on her if you confront her about it. Sorry sweetie, she doesn't respect you if she treats you that way.
Let her know that you won't be lied to and disrespected. If she gets mad that's because she knows she's guilty of both.
Personally, I don't think she deserves you. You can do better than being with a girl who sneaks around behind your back.
(((Hugs)))
2007-06-29 21:38:19 · answer #1 · answered by 1M9 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to her. And explain how you feel. And see where you two stand. And maybe you messed up when you let her talk to him on the phone. You should have just told her you have to call her back in a few then you would be okay.
But you should talk to her. And if things go the wrong why for you then just move on. My mother use to tell me if you let them go & if they come back to you than they truely loved you but if they don't come back then they never really cared.
2007-06-29 21:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by MS_CANDYLICKER 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU SEEM LIKE A SWEET GUY THAT GOT INVOLVED WITH A GIRL THAT DOESN'T REALLY CARE FOR OR RESPECT YOU . IF YOU CARE THAT MUCH FOR HER AND SHE DOESN'T CARE FOR YOU , WHY PUT YOURSELF THROUGH THAT ? I WENT THROUGH THE SAME THING 2 YEARS AGO . IF YOUR CO-STAFF IS FLIRTY , MORE THAN LIKELY HE'LL FLIRT WITH SOMEONE ELSE INFRONT OF HER , AND SHE'LL WANT TO COME BACK TOB YOU . YOU HAVE TO ASK YOURSELF " DO I WANT TO BE WITH A PERSON I CAN'T TRUST ? " . THE ANSWER IS NO ; I DESERVE BETTER .
BEST WISHES !
2007-06-29 21:43:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell her your watching out for her because he flirts alot with alot of girls. but let her do what she wants. just be there for her. when she gets her heart broken after she gets over the crying part of it all tell her you told her so and she should listen next time. let her get her heart broken by him thats the only way she'll learn, and if she doesnt get her heart broken that means they worked out and shes happy so you shouldnt be upset about that either. im sorry about this if youd ilke to talk more you can always email me! im sorry again!
2007-06-29 21:40:24 · answer #4 · answered by Niki 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe bcoz she felt like as if you didnt have or you cant make enough time with her--that your co-staff was much better, coz he was able to talk to her than you do!
make things up to her if you want her back..
2007-06-29 21:35:45 · answer #5 · answered by paola 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Explain what you just said on here to her. If you can't call her show up at her house in person. If that don't work I'd beat that dudes ***.
2007-06-29 21:35:29 · answer #6 · answered by Pete 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should send her an email so you can get all your thoughts together and she will not be able to hang up. Also, you can tell her your side and how much she means to you
hope this helps
2007-06-29 21:36:44 · answer #7 · answered by rbrulesamanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know it may be hard, but you need to move on. This girlfriend is not worthy of you.
2007-06-29 21:38:27 · answer #8 · answered by Patti C 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
haha i say move on .. she isnt worth your time if she can just do that to you
2007-06-29 21:35:10 · answer #9 · answered by InSaNe 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ahh i'm confused
2007-06-29 21:35:52 · answer #10 · answered by yakitismak 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋