Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

I caught my wife in bed and I had already filed the divorce papers...should I really send this in?

2007-06-27 23:55:38 · 25 answers · asked by dopefilmmaker33 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i or should i say we(hubby and i) have these pals! a couple! anyway she drives us mad by thinking she is going to better than any1!! they do not earn much ,have bought a house a yr ago and still live with mum rent free so they could gut it etc!! she tries to compete with all her friends and actually got very funny with my hubbs brother n wife as they bought a house 3 yrs ago and are still struggling to do it up as they moved straight in so they told her they are doing 1 room at a time which is the sensible thing to do! our friend said " they are w-----s! and our house will be better!!she is still having all her meals cooked by mummy and can't cook herself yet she now wants a range cooker! which will prob never get used!! My mum says we should give her a few home truths as she can be so rude! SHOULD WE??

2007-06-27 23:54:16 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

we are on for four years now.

2007-06-27 23:51:56 · 11 answers · asked by ebiyedinak 3 in Singles & Dating

help me!!!

2007-06-27 23:44:39 · 3 answers · asked by old school 2 in Friends

2007-06-27 23:43:28 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 23:35:24 · 8 answers · asked by sackallan 1 in Weddings

2007-06-27 23:26:06 · 13 answers · asked by Lucid Dream Weaver 1 in Marriage & Divorce

and i know in my heart there have been others. But' this last one I can't seem to shake and as hard as we try to get it back good its like we take 3 steps forward and 2 back. We argue all the time. How can we, or can we make it back to the way it was? I feel soooo depressed and just lost. I love him but even after his actions it seems the only time he is nice to me is when he wants to be intimate. I NEVER deny him, nor have I ever. Actually, he is very spoiled. I just can't get over the why? Was 5 minutes in a truck with trash (and she was...if she was a good nice girl i would say so) worth throwing away 13 years and destroying 2 innocent lives. And we actually have a GREAT sex life. I could use some advise. The only reson I'm still here is because of my 11 yr. old son. He looked me in the eye the other night crying and said "I just don't think I could go on living without the two of you together. Enough said. Sincerely, djm

2007-06-27 23:25:11 · 9 answers · asked by djm 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm triying so hard to ask this guy out but he always ignore me. I even tried talking to him but he stills ignore me and he even called me with the wrong name. What should I do cause i'm so desperate.

2007-06-27 23:23:09 · 8 answers · asked by aida 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 23:21:19 · 21 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Singles & Dating

Why do i make the same mistakes over and over again? i try so hard to stay clear of things that will hurt me,but for some reason im drawn to the pain...also,this is a really hard question to categorize!

2007-06-27 23:18:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok, i am getting married in a month and my theme of my wedding is light blue and white. and i dont know what kind of floweres i should get or how i should decorate for my reception please somebody out there please help me.

2007-06-27 23:17:19 · 6 answers · asked by navy girl 07 2 in Weddings

Other than flashing that thing around to everyone involved, how can I prove to everyone that she is a liar? I already told everyone all the nasty things she did in there, and they all believed it. However, I don't think they completely believe me about the last part.

2007-06-27 23:03:31 · 13 answers · asked by rusty 2 in Singles & Dating

i mean im just trying to help them free their inner woman like in the 60's and 70's and stuff. then they get mad when i tell them they should burn their bras too.

2007-06-27 23:01:09 · 14 answers · asked by poophead6282 2 in Singles & Dating

I JUST WANNA KNOW IF A PERSON ISTRULY IN LOVE AND IF HE/SHE LOOSE IT CAN HE R SHE FALL IN LOVE AGAIN IN LOVE WITH SOME OTHER PERSON.

2007-06-27 22:56:58 · 17 answers · asked by Amit 2 in Singles & Dating

If you love someone, you want to tell everybody about the person you love, right?
But when I asked him why he never tell his friends that I'm special for him, he said "cos it's private".

What does that mean? I never heard love someone is a private thing.

2007-06-27 22:55:36 · 14 answers · asked by Tatya 2 in Singles & Dating

i am really depressed i go on with everything but i have a hateful son and a husband who is an *** its almost like they want me to be sad what should i do

2007-06-27 22:53:02 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is it really better to have loved and lost than to never really love at all?

2007-06-27 22:52:44 · 7 answers · asked by Mike M. 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-27 22:51:20 · 16 answers · asked by lucy a 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my girl mates are very flirty but my gf has a problem with them what should i do?

2007-06-27 22:50:19 · 14 answers · asked by old school 2 in Singles & Dating

near his crotch..what do you do?

2007-06-27 22:43:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it says they are from your local area so you can join up but i think it's a bit dodgy

2007-06-27 22:42:46 · 2 answers · asked by mp01 5 in Singles & Dating

Okay my husband and I got married when we where only 17 and have been married for almost 10 years we have had ups and downs but things worked out until recently. In the last 3 years he has taken a job at a mill and taken on the atitude of the people he works with. He lies about little things and I always catch him but he won't quit doing it. He will say he has a saftey meeting after work and it is going to run late and he will really be golfing. he made plans to go to a football game out of state with four guys I didn't know and instead of telling me they were going to stay the night he made up a story about their car being broken into and needing to be fixed. Then he also started chewing and I knew he was. I found a can of chew here and there for over two years and whenever I asked him about it he would say it was someone elses. Then he finaly gets caught in his lie when we are out with some of his friends from work. These things are so dumb but I don't trust him what can I do?

2007-06-27 22:33:19 · 8 answers · asked by lovesty 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I turned on the TV while having sex with my girlfriend?
She changed into her clothes and drove away... somewhere...
How screwed am I? Should I call her?

2007-06-27 22:32:31 · 22 answers · asked by Curious about the World 3 in Singles & Dating

guys yearn for these 'hot' girls n get stressed and tensed and stuff.... they basically go thruogh mental pressure..
u know....they want to F them
it decreases their lifetime?

2007-06-27 22:27:32 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

But how does someone like an ex-wife have the right to ask for it when there has been a seperation for 4 years and she had gain all property, no children were involved, and to top it off, she has had to kids while still married, with someone else. The Husband had tried to file for a divorce in 2003 but the wife was considered as a run away, but now in present time wants the divorce, new boyfriend has joined the army and is in Iraq fighting as we speak. The soon to be ex- wife now wants the divorce and wants spousal support. The husband has no other children and had given at the time of the split all property. Taking nothing, Walking out empty handed. Tell me what you think on the situation. Put yourself in the husbands shoes and tell what you would do now since she has done the wrong.

2007-06-27 22:14:25 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

the feel is hard to describe...
when the penis is in me, i feel like something is coming out from from vagina and it's indeed making me wet and i would say the feeling is great but it doesnt last long, the feel is gone after 2-3 seconds.
what is this to be describe?
is this the orgasm ppl are referring to? or this is just a contraction to get me ready for sex? besides this, there is no more special feel, the "in"-"out" steps is actually "no feel" to me and it could be painful at times.

2007-06-27 22:12:10 · 7 answers · asked by overseas 2 in Singles & Dating

My dad is has always been a womanising beer swilling pig, and left my mum 8 years ago after 22 years of marriage. He had always been cheating on her, we since found out, but he left my mum for the woman who I now consider my step mum. He has been with her now for 8 years and has treated her like crap too. I really didn't like my step mum to begin with as I saw her as the person who wrecked my parents marriage, but as time healed she became a great friend. She has helped me and my sister out tons and is good to our kids. Even my mum and her speak now as she has been good to us and things have moved on. My dad works away at sea doing months on and months off. He hasn't been in touch with her for 2 weeks and his fancy tart phoned me last night to say they are in love and hes left my step mum. I think this was a crappy situation to put me in. So what do I do? I feel I can't drop my dad in it but I also feel that I owe it to my step mum to tell her. Please HELP!!

2007-06-27 22:08:37 · 11 answers · asked by ♥ Bettyb ♥ ™ 4 in Family

2007-06-27 22:07:44 · 10 answers · asked by Tyra 2 in Singles & Dating

I see it too often. He supposedly says he is going to leave his wife but this is just a ploy to stall for time-and some women fall for it and have meaningless relationships that contribute to the demise of a marriage with no respect for the other partner or themselves. Why settle being second fiddle?

2007-06-27 22:02:33 · 13 answers · asked by Lady Pink 2 in Marriage & Divorce