my girl mates are very flirty but my gf has a problem with them what should i do?
2007-06-27 22:50:19 · 14 answers · asked by old school 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
personally i would b 2
if ur girl mates flirt a lot then she could think that ur not totally into her
sry but thats the truth about wat a girl thinks
2007-06-27 22:53:42 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends if you really love your girlfriend. If you do, respect what she feels and ask your mates to tone it down. On the other hand your girl should also give you the freedom to be with your mates sometimes too. Its often a bed move to combine the two groups (girlfriend and mates that is)
2007-06-27 23:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by BEVIEC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would tell your friends to tone down their behaviour towards you. Your gf should feel like all the attention you get should be from her. But make it clear why would you go out with your girl mates cos youre happy with your gf. She cannot stop you seeing them but it is suspicious if you went out with one of yor girl mates just the 2 of you. Make her get to know them a little bit more and so she feels comfortable knowing youre with her around them. Im sure no harms done. If not tell her you cant be with someone who cant trust you.
2007-06-27 22:56:58 · answer #3 · answered by a beautiful lie 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's totally normal of your girlfriend to be feeling a little jealous. Just let her know that she is the only girl you have feelings for, and the other girls are just friends, and she doesn't have to worry about them because you value your relationship with your girlfriend way more than your other mates. Good luck :]
2007-06-27 22:54:56 · answer #4 · answered by ReNeE 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
firstly, ask your mates to tone the flirting down a bit
secondly reassure your girl that she is the only one for you, have a little more respect for her feelings.
also how would you feel if the boot was on the other foot?
show some consideration and respect and you'll be fine, there is no need to dump either mates or girl, just adapt to the situation.
good luck x
2007-06-27 23:19:57 · answer #5 · answered by Missfit 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know any girls who would be okay with their boyfriend having girlie mates who are flirty with them.
Personally, if you want to keep this girl, I would ask your freinds to be more respectful and maybe see a bit less of them one on one.
It would be ideal if your girlfriend could also become friendly with these girls, but sounds like a situation which could turn bitchy. Good luck!
2007-06-27 22:56:51 · answer #6 · answered by Wafflebox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your girl "mates" should not be flirty with you.
If your girlfriend wants you to drop them, you should.
Your mates should be more friendly towards your gf, if they were, she wouldn't have a problem with them.
2007-06-27 22:54:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd assume that by mates you mean friends? Sorry, not used to that word. Anyway, I would just explain to your girlfriend that they are just your friends and that is how your relationship is. If she has a problem with it ask her what she would like you to do about it. Personally, I wouldn't give up friends because a girlfriend is unhappy about them, but that's just me.
2007-06-27 22:53:51 · answer #8 · answered by Aidan Connor 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your girlfriend that you don't want to do anything with your girl mates, and would never do anything with them. Reassure her that nothing would happen. And remind your friends that you have a girlfriend.
2007-06-27 22:54:18 · answer #9 · answered by Lana S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you have serious feelings for your girlfriend you will show her a little bit of respect in the way of not rubbing it in her face that these friends of yours are flirtatious.
reverse the roles, if it was her with loads of male friends that were always flirting with your GF, you certainly wouldn't like it.
if you cant have the decency to respect her feelings then you shouldn't be together............sorry
2007-06-27 23:07:39 · answer #10 · answered by AidyA 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How do you feel about her hanging out with her male mates?
2007-06-27 22:55:23 · answer #11 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋