Family & Relationships - 27 June 2007

My ex finacee and I recently broke up and he left a lot of things at my parents house and I have a lot of things at his parents house, what can I do to get my stuff back and give him his because I dont want his stuff! Ive tried calling but his parents just hang up on me. Also he was sexually abusing me and now hes mentally abuseing me. What can I do about this. Im also scared I could be pregnant!

2007-06-27 13:09:02 · 11 answers · asked by renee_0102 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-27 13:06:31 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

today is da last day of school. i LOVE my guy friend 2 death! so today when he was leaving i hugged him good bye because he is leaving 2 another school. i tried 2 pull away because i fell so hut and i did not want him 2 see me hurt but he was holding on 2 me really hard. his eyes were closed as he hugged me. why is it tat he did not want 2 let me go?

2007-06-27 13:01:43 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-27 13:00:01 · 32 answers · asked by Alisha 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am personaly...
I wish him lots of luck!

2007-06-27 12:59:28 · 4 answers · asked by StephanieELITE 1 in Friends

I think its ok when he spanks me when we are just playing around but recently he's been spanking me with a belt when ive 'been bad'. I tried talking to him about it but he says i'll get over it. What should I do? Will I get over it? I really love him so breaking up isnt an option.

2007-06-27 12:56:19 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I sound ridiculous, probably because I am, but I absolutely adore this guy. I haven't had much experience in this department, being dating and flirting; I was always too focused on academics. Alright, here's the skinny. He always comes up and hugs me whenever he sees me. We talk a lot, and he's shared a lot of himself with me that I know he's never told anyone else. When he left for the summer, he told me I'd be the one person he'd miss most from this place, he even invited me to come to Cali with him, mildly jokingly, mostly seriously. While in California (we live in FL) he bought me a gift, which he knew I would love, and I did. He also tells me that I smell good. Haha. Often though, he sends mixed signals. Sure, you're saying, duh, girl, he likes you. I have my doubts...he talks about other girls to me a lot. Who he thinks he's going to date next (he never does) or what type of girl he'd like to date. Is he doing this to make me jealous or get a rise out of me? I am confused. Help?

2007-06-27 12:53:14 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm divorsed and thinking why get my heart broke or brake some poor woman's heart?

2007-06-27 12:52:10 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

its the dress thats similar to jessica simpsons wedding dress
if you can help please do
thanks in advance!!!

2007-06-27 12:51:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I looked up and called my old boyfriend that I dated on and off from the age of 14 to 19. He was shot in the leg when were sixteen and has since recovered. Now, he at 34, has nerve damage from the bullet wound and cannot walk well and his speech is slurred. He mind and memory is excellent, but he has slowed down alot. I have been talking to him on the phone and he has repeatedly asked me to be his girl and that he never stopped loving me. Now, I haven't seen him in 12 years and he lives in my hometown. I am going to visit him soon, but I am unsure if I would want to date him again. My feelings for him had never changed either but I am scared to see him and I am afraid that I am going to cry when I see him like that. Any suggestions?

2007-06-27 12:51:03 · 4 answers · asked by Girlwonder 2 in Singles & Dating

my friend is comming over tomorrow for a sleepover and i want to know what we should do to spy. like on my brother, for fun.. nothing mean. like in the middle of the night - just for the thrill of it .. any ideas.. but my bro gets mad if i spy on him so what should i do ? thanks! (=

2007-06-27 12:46:40 · 4 answers · asked by jayden_327 2 in Friends

2007-06-27 12:46:19 · 12 answers · asked by james brown 1 in Singles & Dating

me and my man meet on yahoo im in a chatroom and went from being friends and slid in2 a relationship hes from fairhope al im from pgh pa we broke up and now were going back out at least i think we r but sometimes i get mixed signals from him like one minute he says he loves me and the next he acts like were friends im confused i love him and want 2 be wit him but i dont really no what he wants [friends or more] and its starting 2 annoy me cause i dont no what he wants

2007-06-27 12:42:44 · 8 answers · asked by angelblackearth 1 in Singles & Dating

what part of a girl do guys like the most.

2007-06-27 12:40:23 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I need some serious advice please. I started dating my co-worker 2 months ago. He is super sweet, caring, smart...everything I have ever wanted in someone. Well 2 weeks after we started dating, my best friend and I planned a trip to Miami. At that time he was ultra supportive of the trip. Now, he tells me last night that he doesn't want to see me anymore if I go to Miami. He thinks it's a party place and that my best friend & I are going to be wild and out of control.

Mind you, I am 28 and he is 35. So, after about an hour or more, of trying to convince him that I had no intention of being wild..I told him I don't need this s$%t....and walked away.

So, today I am torn....do I call him and put and end to this..or think that he is being completely unreasonable and say F this. He is not at work today, he has the day off..

So someone that knows relationships...please help. Cause I really do like him.

2007-06-27 12:40:21 · 9 answers · asked by Sundance1 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok heres the deal. I am a 20 year old female. People tell me all the time I am beautiful and I should be a model, which I find very sweet and it makes me soo happy! But I have a hard time meeting/talking to men. I am extremely shy around everyone. Some people think I am stuck up, but thats not the case at all! I am just really shy. I believe being shy has ruined my life, I havent had many boyfriends because I dont have enough guts to talk! What do I do!? How do I overcome this shyness..WHAT THE HECK IS MY PROBLEM!

2007-06-27 12:38:08 · 20 answers · asked by Lil Lady 1 in Singles & Dating

This is something that should have an easy answer but its actually more complicated than it seems. Thankfully this doesn't pertain to me but this seems to be a big problem for a lot of people. The question on the table is, if one spouse totally loses all sex drive (for whatever reason) and only has sex with their spouse a few times a year or never, although its quite unfair to the other spouse is it a basis and "ok" if the spouse-going-without has affairs to satisfy their libido? This always seems to be the cheating man's mantra "I don't get it at home", and some women too, and although its unfair to withhold sexual favors, its not right to cheat either. So what's a person to do? The vows clearly state 'for better or for worse' and having completely opposite sex drives is definitely a bummer but is it an excuse for cheating? I'm kind've on the fence about it personally. I would go w/o or do for myself but if this were a permanent situation, then I just don't know.

2007-06-27 12:37:27 · 46 answers · asked by ? 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i have worked all my life

2007-06-27 12:33:57 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Guys if I gave you an open ticket to me, what would you do, Im blond, blue eyes,hot, nice boobs,

2007-06-27 12:33:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm trying to get ideas to surprise my boyfriend. We are in our 20s and we live in southern california if that helps. Thanks!

2007-06-27 12:29:08 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What I am asking is... When a person has had a few regular drinks at home or at a bar, how honest do you think they become. Example only: A husband has 5 beers and a wife has 4 beers at home. The night goes fine then the husband comments on a mutual "girl friend" about he wouldn't mind having sex with her. Obvious arguement. Other things are said....End of the night one on the couch and one in their bed.
I don't was comments on that specific situation, but on the honesty of the actual comment and being said while drinking. Also if people really are more honest about things they don't really want to let out, when they have been drinking.

2007-06-27 12:24:17 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Please give me answers

2007-06-27 12:23:16 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We were smitten.

2007-06-27 12:22:47 · 2 answers · asked by bethbaird1222 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I have a 21 year old sister who still lived at home with mom and dad she pays rent ok then they told her that she has to share a job with my 12 year old sister but still paid rent and she has to be home every night by 10 well to make a long stroy short she has to catch two buses to go to work and she didnt get off till 11pm one night and the buses stop running at 9 here so she called them and told them that she was going to spend the night with her boyfriend who lives nexts door from where she works so the next day she calls me crying cuz they threw all her stuff on the front pounch and told her that she had to move out now she has already paid them rent for next month and they are refuseing to give her the money back what should she do

2007-06-27 12:22:18 · 2 answers · asked by sara24 2 in Family

What turns you on when it comes to the other sex?

2007-06-27 12:12:42 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

All my coworkers received a wedding invite (ceremony only). One of them, who frequently backs out of many other social invitations I plan, told me (twice) she lost the invite i gave her, it's stuck somewhere in her paperwork, and wanted to know the date? Would you be annoyed?

2007-06-27 12:12:11 · 13 answers · asked by penelope 2 in Weddings

how can people get addicted to sex? makes no sense to me....

2007-06-27 12:10:19 · 18 answers · asked by RAWR 2 in Singles & Dating

And I wish I didnt. We split 6 months ago, well, he dumped me because he wanted to get back to his bachelor's life.... even if he's 41.....
I have been missing him terribly and I know from common sources he missed me too but we 've never been able to mend our fences. We lost touch ( phone touch) for 2 moths and we dont see each other since the day we split.
A few minutes ago I felt the urge to call him,because I will leave tomorrow for New Zealand and I will stay there for a long time. Well he was very cold, like I bugged him with my call ( actually I knew he was dining out with another woman and I had sort of " perverted pleasure" in bugging him....)
i was totally shocked at the way he treated me. After all, we shared 1 year and a half together,lived together, traveled together, we even had a child together ( but I had a miscarriage).
I feel desperate, please help,I need advice from you all.

2007-06-27 12:09:22 · 19 answers · asked by Charlenne 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Should I tell my guy friend that I want to be with him? I have the worst case of fear of rejection. Don't know why because many guys like me, but it's always toward the guy i like.

I like this guy a lot!! He knows I like him and he calls me all of the time. I'm just not sure if he likes me or not. We lives in different states so I know he can't be calling because he wants to just talk right? We've dated before too..so my question is should I lay it all out or just wait? I mean he's really shy but im running out of patience. What should I do? I'm liking him more and more each day but I don't want to waste my time either.

2007-06-27 12:02:08 · 11 answers · asked by Sweet Surrender 2 in Singles & Dating

I want a cathedral veil with lace and a few rhinestones... I can't find any good websites or pictures. If you know of anything that would be greatly appreciated!!! I am a very visual person so pictures and websites are what I'm looking for. Also, if you have any suggestions for a veil. Thanks again in advanced! :)

2007-06-27 12:00:58 · 9 answers · asked by Lovely Lady 3 in Weddings