Family & Relationships - 25 June 2007

hi, this is princess! well now a days i faced a serious problem!the guy who proposed to me continuously 3 years,& i refused him! but his mom knows everything about this mattar! & she doesn't react in this mattar!!!! even before 1 month his mom gave a proposal to my mom that he & i must get married soon!!!! my family doesn't listen to me about this mattar----as our family is too much conservative!!!!! i think they 'll fix our marrage!!! i don't want to get married with him!what should i do?how can i realise that if he is perfect for me or not??????????

2007-06-25 23:59:29 · 10 answers · asked by princess 1 in Singles & Dating

aside from the usual 'i like you' phase, how do i let a guy know that i am very interested in him?? like hints or something. i need subtle ways, and certainly something that'll NOT scare him off. im awefully shy so...help!

2007-06-25 23:55:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 23:55:19 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I was in a relationship for 4 years and when I told my boyfriend I was pregnant - he ran like hell. He denied being the father and I had to take a blood test to prove he is the father. I just want to ask all the guys out there why? Why do you run? Why not face the responsibility together?

2007-06-25 23:53:08 · 10 answers · asked by Rissiepit 2 in Singles & Dating

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2007-06-25 23:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by boo 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 23:47:01 · 71 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-25 23:46:04 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i got admission to the most prestigious institute but if i join my bf will leave me he is a pucca scorpion as due to some prob he cant join now he has to wait
he thinks during his weak time im leaving him
he emotionally made me weak sayin he loves me ,, cannot bear me leavin him or him loosin me
i tried my best but he fails to understand
please advise me i think im in a big mess
i have time till tom to decide..
what do i do in life?

2007-06-25 23:40:59 · 18 answers · asked by ladybird 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

how do I let him know I want tit later that night a get him ready in a PG 13 Way

2007-06-25 23:34:17 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What makes girl on girl action so sensual fora guy??? Look Im a girl and I also find it sensual and Ive experimented, but what is it that makes grl on grl sensual and guy on guy repulsive????

2007-06-25 23:29:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there are so many divorces and separations and adulterors out there,so why bother? dosent living together without papers accomplish the same thing?

2007-06-25 23:24:01 · 9 answers · asked by mojo569 4 in Marriage & Divorce

ok, long story short, there is this girl who hangs out with our group. lets call her sally. well sally is very cligny, not a very enjpyable person to be with, and VERYirritating!!! she always hangout with us, and then when she talks to a 'popular' person, she gets this "im too good for you ( as in us) " attitude!!! we have disliked her for quite a while, and we dont know what to do. we havent exactly considerd tell her how we feel... oh and also, to my friend who is an absolute sweetie, she is really mean! we dont know if she does it on purpose. she doesnt seem to, but that just makes it worst!! please help!

2007-06-25 23:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by TONKS 2 in Friends

My fiancee and I are in disagreement over DJ instructions. I think its appropiate to give a DJ a list of music types (modern rock, fifties rock), while he insists that you must give them a complete list of every song that's to be played over the course of the evening... HELP!! Who's right? and is there a way to compromise on this?

2007-06-25 23:15:28 · 15 answers · asked by Kimera S 2 in Weddings

hes been at mt home twice repairing my pc & made it obvoius he wants to have sex. however says he doesnt have money to take me out, he was at a stag nite last week which must have cost him. He does seem genuine at times but i cant help feeling hes seening other woman, most probably for sex, as ive not slept with him yet. i get the feeling sometimes he avoids talking to me on msn & then hes back chatting away quite the thing, im sure hes not married or anything , but has never invited me to his house whats goin on ?????? help, ive known him for around 10 months & only met twice, ps says he cant make pre arrangements cause he doesnt know what he'll be doin from day to day, and doesnt want to let anyone down.

2007-06-25 23:12:47 · 14 answers · asked by carly16 1 in Singles & Dating

I just turned 16 in May, but this birthday was not celebrated. Why ? Because my dad found out that i got a 'B+' instead of a 'A+' which he wanted from me in my exams. He was so furious that he cane me on my birthday. After the whole seneiro, only my older bro wished me a happy brithday and colsole me, they totaly forget thet it was my birthday, none of them wished me a happy belated birthady until now. Does my daddy loves me?

2007-06-25 22:58:09 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

We broke up and i been real emotional tellin her how hurt i am and how bad i want her back in my life and i will do anything for her to love me again and that i need 1 more chance i keep tellin her how love sick i am but she still doesnt seem to lissen she says she wants to be my friend cuz she doesnt believe in 2nd chances but she throws in clues about proven myself You think she wants to test me out see how bad i love her does she wanna see actions more than words?? You think its a turn off too her to see me really hooked on her now that she left me??? help me please im lost i dont wanna b just her friend i want it how it was soo bad

2007-06-25 22:54:08 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 22:52:08 · 7 answers · asked by braoshi2 1 in Friends

hi my 2 oldest kids are in foster care my son lives with my mum and my daughter lives with a foster carer i used to be a alcholic till 18 mnths ago i done a rehab programme im now trying to get my son back hes due to start over night stays next month and move in next year providing i meet there assesment requirements im with a new partner and hav a young baby now the worker has told my partner the reasons why my children were placed in care and shes also been trying to get her to not have my son living with us by saying that i will leave our baby son out and wont bother with him is this right is she aloud to discuss there records with my partner and shouldnt she be trying to bring familys together instead of tryin to stop it i need to no what grounds ive got if i was to complain and get her taking of as my kids social worker she also states shes got a soft spot for my daughter and does her best so i cant see her is this right sorry ive gone on a bit

2007-06-25 22:48:11 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ive known this guy for quite a while and i stay over his place in his bed when we are out together.

he does "try it on" to take things further than kissing but i refuse. i do like this guy but we are not dating.

this has gone on for ages.

if he was just after sex wouldnt he have given up on me by now???

2007-06-25 22:47:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

A friend of mine (used 2like me 4 yrs ago) asked me2 go with him to an event "as a friend",his ex was also there (i think they still have strong feelings4each other)- although that guy&i can talk4ages on msn, in that event we barely said more than a few words2each other.I felt like an idiot around them (mainly cuz theyve got a lot of chemistry still-i spoke much more2the ex. but i really did feel odd and like a third wheel).What shld i do? I don't think its fair that he treat me that way cuz when he asked me2go with him, I told him that i'm accepting cuz he couldnt think of any1 else2ask&if he decides he wants to go with her again he should give her my tickt(he asked her 1st bt they were on really bad terms that time so they decided against it)-she turned up anyway(he didnt tell me til last min.)&i think he shouldve done more effort in talking 2 me esp. since he was the one that 'invited' me.I hated how i felt&am thinking of not seeing him again cuz i feel like im being used2 replace.

2007-06-25 22:46:04 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

There's a girl at work that approaches me everytime she sees me and I pretty much blow her off everytime. She has a boyfriend, so i think she is only seeking me out for friendship, however Im not looking for her friendship so I try my best to avoid her. She's hot and taken so I don't really care to be her friend. Not becuz i'm a jerk but becuz I don't want to fall in love with a girl I can't have.

Finally I thought she got the hint the other day but then today she approached me to say hi to me. I just said what's up without looking at her and left it at that. Will she get the hint now? She's just a distraction at work that I don't need.

2007-06-25 22:45:13 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm am a 23 year old female who has been in a serious relationship for almost 3 years now. I am totally and completely in love with my boyfriend who has become a soulmate to me. He in turn feels the same way about me and makes that known. However, there is one serious, heart crushing issue with us. My boyfriend is completely scared to make love to me. We've tried once and he panicked and almost had an anxiety attack. Needless to say, we never tried again out of fear that he would make a nightmare out of the situation once again. The confusing part is: we are able to get intimate in other ways, he constantly wants to get intimate, and he is not a religious person, so this is not against his "religion." Plus, in his previous relationship he did have sex with his ex, twice and openly admits that to me. I just want to know if ANY female out there has encountered this heart breaking issue? I am currently in counseling because of this. Has any FEMALE dealt with this????

2007-06-25 22:40:51 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's obviously about sex. Doesn't it devalue marriage? When people say why get married when you're already having sex? Getting married solely for sexual purposes doesn't make sense to me! Besides, it's rather degrading when it comes to female sexuality, don't you think?

2007-06-25 22:31:23 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

a boy loves me very much.but he is not good looking....rather he is very bad in comaprison with the looks i want.but he has already sacrificed some very special issues of his life for me which i think nobody will do for me these days.(if i leave him, i will b guilty 4ever)he surely loves me..his family background,status,career.-everything is fine with me..but the looks which i don't like even a bit..what should i do???

2007-06-25 22:31:21 · 15 answers · asked by anamika 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

how will i tell him am off cos we've been together for 4yrs.how do i say it?au will i cope,i love him but am just considering the future with him thats why i cant marry him

2007-06-25 22:21:13 · 7 answers · asked by topejewoola 1 in Singles & Dating

Psysically
Dont say personality because it is so vast and individual.
Just What she would look like...

2007-06-25 22:17:53 · 13 answers · asked by Yohanna 1 in Singles & Dating

I know that you lose quality by going to mall jewelry stores... however, we visited a few private jewelers and we really couldn't find anything that we liked at the price range we're looking at (~$2000). I'm not into anything big and fancy and honestly, I just want a pretty looking ring. I don't care about having the best diamond out there so long as it's not COMPLETELY, obviously crappy. I don't want to spend 2 grand on tiny stones either... no matter how "spectacular" and "brilliant" they are. My dad got spent a ton on a tiny diamond pendant for my mom and it didn't even look like it was worth it, though supposedly it's got fantastic brilliance and clarity. It looks tiny.

Mall stores offer good financing deals, I've been seeing... like no interest for 12 months. Do private places offer any kind of financing?

We're not rich, but we're not dirt poor either. I'd rather put money away for a wedding, a future house and vacations than on a diamond ring... $2000 is fine with me.

2007-06-25 22:16:57 · 10 answers · asked by Cochy 6 in Weddings

I told him about a year ago that i like him and he hasnt done anything! we talk a lot and we are friends. when I speak to him and his friends together then he denies talking to me while im standing there. he also grabbed my arm and when I said he was hurting me he let go and held my hand and then afterwards when I said he was hurting me he said i hurt his heart? he always makes me feel bad when me and him fight. I dont think I stand a chance with him anymore what do you think? should i just forget about him?

2007-06-25 22:11:42 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-25 22:08:28 · 20 answers · asked by Peripatetic 2 in Family

ive known this guy for quite a while and i stay over his place in his bed when we are out together.

he does "try it on" to take things further than kissing but i refuse. i do like this guy but we are not dating.

this has gone on for ages.

if he was just after sex wouldnt he have given up on me by now???

2007-06-25 22:06:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating