How do you know that it's OK to say "I love you" for the first time?

Answer 1

When I first met my fiance, four years ago, we talked for hours on the first night and only moments after our first kiss it popped into my head and I thought to myself there is no way I can say that! But he simply looked at me and said he knew what I was going to say and he felt the same way so we both said it. Soppy I know but true! I suppose you both just know when to say it. Imagine saying it to someone and they don't feel the same way?? How awful that would be. Love is a funny emotion and I think some people confuse sex with love, especially when having affairs.

Answer 2

Saying I love you really has no specific time or place, Some people have such old fashion ways of how things happen. In the 21st century along with the fast pace of live, many people have not the time to prepare a romantic dinner for two, bringing Roses to an evening watching the TV. Love is spontaneous and a real feeling deep in the heart. When you have a stupendous kiss that curls your toes and sends your blood racing.

I told my love while we were walking hand in hand through a flower filled park in France, there were lots of people about and I stopped and told her I was in love with her, tears formed in her eyes and said that she felt the same and longed to hear those words from me, 3 years later we still walk in the park and still remember that day as if it was yesterday.

If you feel like telling someone you are In love with them, Its ok to say I love you when your heart feels right do it no matter where you are, no matter who is around you, it is the words that matter not the place or time.

Answer 3

No 1 - I dont think you truly know until youve had an argument and you feel bad and miss them and feel regret about it and it will hit you then , you may say it before just because it feels right but until an argument thats when it really hits you,as you dont really want to say goobye and didnt mean all the nasty things/ did, but asking this question is also questioning yourself. No 2 - I'd also say if hes waited and respected you in the bedroom area :0P and No 3 - When the tough times arnt really that tough as youve got each other x

Answer 4

Saying I love you wheather it for the first time or in reply to it being said to you - is something you feel in your heart & soul, and even if it goes wrong you never feel sorry for loving them, just sorry it didn't work out.
I suppose it is just a leap of faith. I am happily enegaged to a wonderful man, who for the fist few months of the relationship was convinced I was with him to get back at a relative whom I had a doomed relationship with not so long ago.
As much as I was the one to start the relationship he said I love you first and even though he had just gotten out of a bad relationship I believed him and hoped he did me.
Now we are so in love with each other we hate to be apart for any time at all. Love is something you feel and from experience when it happens you can't help it, stop it or change it.

Answer 5

me and my partner have been dating for about a couple of months.he lives in Essex and I'm in Glasgow,i thought that it may be a problem but i dont think it is and there have been times that i have wanted to say to him that i love him but i didn't want to make a fool of myself,so he flew up for my b/day on Friday and met the family and everyone was getting on great,we stepped outside for some fresh air and there was a song playing in the background from dirty dancing (will u still love me 2Moro) and he asked if i will still love him tomorrow,maybe i was being silly,but i thought that was romantic and i told him that i would love him tomorrow.there must be some thing between us cause he flys up every other w/end to visit me.so u will know urself when the times right.

Answer 6

When you can't hold it in any longer! It has to come out, you just have to declare your love to them.
I remember the first time I said it... I was sixteen, and at my parents house. And he'd come over and we'd been talking all night and eventually he fell asleep on the sofa and I was just gazing at him, then I kissed him on the cheek and said "I think I'm in love" and he murmered something and smiled. Then a few days later it was early in the morning and I was half asleep and he said "I'm in love with you too." That was only three years ago, but hey, we're still together!

Answer 7

When the tapestry of words are not a travesty they mean you have been floored and the fallacy has turned fact, love is no more a myth then you know its OK to say I love you.

Answer 8

When the feelings right. It took me over 5 months to say it to my boyfriend and now its like breathing. Your more at risk of getting hurt but if it feels right then say it. If not hold onto it for awhile. When you feel you can't live without them and your heart stops or races each tim ethey walk into a room.

Answer 9

Well i guess when you grow deep and intiamte feelings for one. That you feel great passion and a sense of longinging for that person. When that person makes you feel like you are on cloud nine, and they can accept you for who you truely are! There is no specific setup to say those three meaningful words, it could be at any point,moment day, time and situation!!!!!

Answer 10

You don't! Its about trust; when you feel you trust the person enough that they won't run away, you just gotta jump right in with the acid test and say it. That's just part of a relationship and there is no way to "know" before you say it.