ok, long story short, there is this girl who hangs out with our group. lets call her sally. well sally is very cligny, not a very enjpyable person to be with, and VERYirritating!!! she always hangout with us, and then when she talks to a 'popular' person, she gets this "im too good for you ( as in us) " attitude!!! we have disliked her for quite a while, and we dont know what to do. we havent exactly considerd tell her how we feel... oh and also, to my friend who is an absolute sweetie, she is really mean! we dont know if she does it on purpose. she doesnt seem to, but that just makes it worst!! please help!
2007-06-25 23:19:24 · 13 answers · asked by TONKS 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
this is reall ymean, but she also really smells,
like really really
like she has a rotten egg aura and grandma breath around her ALL THE TIME
this doesnt help!!!!!!!!!!!!
2007-06-25 23:34:47 · update #1
just ignore her, that's the best way to get her attention. when it does and she asks you about it, start telling her about the mean things she's done. if she's not apologetic, drop the bomb. tell her about her stench.
2007-06-25 23:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by Ann 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey there,
I went through the same thing with my friends at school here is what you do.....
You can do it the nice way that is have a group meeting and let her know that there is a few probs with the friendship and that she can not hang out with you all then you can do it the nasty way....
This way is gonna hurt get a note sent round with all your thoughts on her each one of the gang writes something and then get someone to give it to her then she will not hang around with you after that and then she will have an attitude adjustment
2007-06-25 23:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by pegasus20391 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow u r making it worse 4 u and everyone else. Tell her hey, when ever u talk to ???? u become this ?XO&% and being that way we don't care for. So hey quit r don't come around us cuz it sucks when u do that.... :) And for the other person being mean. That maybe the way she is... But it sounds as if u don't speak much only to the ones u trust... so that may be a BIG problem cuz u don't tell anyone how u feel....
2007-06-25 23:26:22 · answer #3 · answered by ames1love 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aww seems like she just wants attention and that's the only way to express herself. It sounds like she doesn't mean any harm to you or your friends. She wants to fit in and not out. I wouldn't suggest to stop hanging around her, just tell her how you feel when she comments or is being rude with someone. Hopefully she will stop being this way and realize that you and your friends are doing your best to befriend her but if she doesnt want to oblige then I would suggest ...less gatherings with her. Its not very polite to hate on others, that wont get you no where in life and try your best to socialize with her and be patient...she will come around, hopefully. Good Luck ; )
2007-06-26 04:22:00 · answer #4 · answered by Veronique O 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my word, seems as if this happens to every group! If she's really that mean and all of ya'll don't feel comfortable being around her..just start excluding her from conersations and activities that ya'll (incl. her) usually do together. She'll get the hint eventually! It may not be totally right - morally - but i mean if she's the one being obnoxious, can't help her out there!
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2007-06-25 23:26:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sistr P* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everyone get together and tell Sally that she is being snotty, abravise, and abusive with everyone. Tell her that if she does not quit it, she will have to find a new group to hang with.
2007-06-25 23:25:21 · answer #6 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She cautioned your mom? what's she, like, 2??? Ugh. make sparkling on your mom all that's been occurring. and additionally you call this female your pal? She makes relaxing of you reason she has now no longer some thing extra effective effective to do along with her life. do now no longer project. quicker or later you will see her on a highway corner and additionally you will experience sorry for her.
2016-11-07 11:26:32 · answer #7 · answered by deily 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you call this person a friend??
Ditch her or have a word to let her know how you all feel, that way you know you are a true friend.
2007-06-25 23:24:16 · answer #8 · answered by Shaz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just stop hanging out with 'sally'. if she is annoying you and you aren't having a good time, just don't include her in things. it sounds harsh, but if she isn't one of your best friends, odds are she won't always be your friend.
2007-06-25 23:24:04 · answer #9 · answered by debo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you should talk to her about it. But it seems as if she is try to climb the ladder in the social hierarchy at school.
2007-06-25 23:23:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋