ive known this guy for quite a while and i stay over his place in his bed when we are out together.
he does "try it on" to take things further than kissing but i refuse. i do like this guy but we are not dating.
this has gone on for ages.
if he was just after sex wouldnt he have given up on me by now???
2007-06-25 22:06:56 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it depends. he might see you as a challange, and so will persevere, but it is mroe likely that he is really into you
2007-06-25 22:10:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
for some guys the chase is all part of the fun. you need to talk to him and see what he has to say. if you don't want to take things further with him , don't stay in his bed
2007-06-26 05:49:52 · answer #2 · answered by Vix 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It's not the kill, it's the thrill of the of chase."
I've seen guys carry on like that for a long time and once they've gotten the girl in bed, they take off down the road and leave her sitting there scratching her head.
Not saying he'll do it to you, but there's always that chance and you should be careful.
2007-06-26 05:18:06 · answer #3 · answered by Lucianna 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people won't "quit it 'till they hit it"....so maybe he just has a lot of patience. However you could ask him straight up..."what if i don't want to have sex with you untill after a year of seeing you" and see what he says lol.
2007-06-26 05:15:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes. I know I wouldn't put up with a woman sleeping in the bed with me if we weren't sexually active. You could have the sofa or the bed, but I'm sleeping elsewhere!
2007-06-26 05:10:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that depends.. Does or has he had any other girls in all this time that he's been interested in? Are you extremely hot?
But it just might mean that he does really like you and sex is a way of expressing that and enjoying your time together..
He might want more then just sex.. He might also want you...
2007-06-26 05:12:36 · answer #6 · answered by LokoLobo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gone on for ages?
You just using this guy for your own 'emotional' benefit?
Don't **** around with a guy in his own bed. That **** is weak and can be very confusing and frustrating for a guy.
Don't piss around with the guys emotions.
2007-06-26 05:28:08 · answer #7 · answered by Ben 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is probably not just after u for sex, but I know in the back of his mind he probably wouldn't mind going there with u though.
2007-06-26 05:12:11 · answer #8 · answered by Mz.??? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure, you need to speak to him. One reason he could be tyring it on is because he is drunk and you are a woman lying next to him in bed... He is bound to try his chances again and again.
2007-06-26 05:09:58 · answer #9 · answered by smudge 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not necessarily.Some guys will stick around till they get what they want.Are you sure he aint creeping elsewhere?
2007-06-26 05:28:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds respectful.
2007-06-26 05:10:14 · answer #11 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋