how will i tell him am off cos we've been together for 4yrs.how do i say it?au will i cope,i love him but am just considering the future with him thats why i cant marry him
2007-06-25 22:21:13 · 7 answers · asked by topejewoola 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't think religion should be a problem.
My mum was a Muslim b4 she got married and it has never for one day being a case of her deciding or having pressure 4rm my dad, she decided on being a christian her self. Just like my friend Malo whose mum was christian she chose her husbands religion without qualms.
Now the main problem there is that he was married b4 - this doesn't mean he is not alright, what you have to ask your self is
what caused his break with the other woman?
If you do marry him will he still have that same problem with you?
2007-06-26 03:49:03 · answer #1 · answered by Soji S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just because he has a different religion and he was married, doesn't mean it can't work between you! if you love him, then that is all that matters, and if he loves you back, then you should be able to work things out! throwing it away because you might be scared of coping, is a waste. i would give it time and effort and really really try to make things work. if you cant cope, let him know, don't keep it a secret! talk about it to each other and if you both love each other as much as you say you do, then everything will work out fine! :]
2007-06-26 05:26:53 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldn't started at all, is wrong to be the 3rd party, u ever though how is his wife feel about it if u were in her position, if that guy told u he don't love his wife anymore, he only love u and care about you, ya, maybe is true, maybe is a lie, is not fair to his wife, and neither you, he only want sex with u and won't taking any responsibility, he is sellfish, dump him, since you know this relationship wont come out any good ending, u should nor hesitated anymore, don't waste your youth and time on him anymore, give it to someone deserve that.
i know is not easy to give up someone u been loved that much, but the points is he never think about u , your future, so u should make a quick decision.
2007-06-26 05:31:08 · answer #3 · answered by moonrider 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you ove hime, why does the fact that he once was married scare you, you must have a history i'm sure. As for difference in eligion keeping you apart, thats the excuse that starts wars, not a reason to reject your love.
2007-06-26 05:24:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tiger01204 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what was the past four years lilke? was he married and at the same time with you and he is now free?
If you are not sure of his love for you or how you feel about him,gather courage and tell him off,the earlier the better
2007-06-26 06:04:25 · answer #5 · answered by vanpuj 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
his religion made him marry not him, today they tend to marry as to please the family but after a few weeks of months they call it aday and go an get there own life.
if it were me i would go for it with him as it WAS his RELIGION that got him---- not him, if he is pure in heart then grab him....
2007-06-26 05:27:25 · answer #6 · answered by Robert. B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if hes still married, some people would give u the name "home wrecker" so stop
2007-06-26 05:31:36 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋