COS I REALLY WANNA KNOW
2007-06-25 23:49:06 · 16 answers · asked by boo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
no, let it go. do you think a man that took the time to cheat on you is going to take the time to tell you why? Move on.
Eventually? you will run into him somehwere and he will no doubtedly try to speak with you. If the issue still bothers you then, well?, in a very smiling face, mature way, ask him at that point. He'll be caught so off guard and probably never bother you again.
Don't call him, it makes you look nutty.
good luck
2007-06-25 23:52:44 · answer #1 · answered by jennifer p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No. Leave it alone. Move on. Why open old wounds? Move on with your life. Let him go. You deserve better and don't need to taint yourself with him anymore. Let it go. Why visit the awful past. He is the problem, not you. Leave it. Again- move on. He likely doesn't have an answer for you anyway, and even if he told you, it would just make you all upset. Life is too short to be wasting your time with a dog like that.
~ Jon
2007-06-26 12:15:57 · answer #2 · answered by Jonathan Rich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, he is your EX. I take that to mean that you didn't love each other enough to stay together. So ask yourself why he would be faithful if he didn't even love you. There's no need to call him. After four months, it's time to start focusing on your own life. You'll find someone new and better before too long.
2007-06-26 06:54:52 · answer #3 · answered by MJ3000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this is something you should get over especially if its been 4 months ago just move on and dont think of it as your fault some guys are just that way and have nothing to do with you just that they are loosers and if they do it once they will do it again so be glad it is over.
2007-06-26 06:52:55 · answer #4 · answered by faithfullyyours 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't. It is in the past now. It's been 4 months. Bringing it up will just hurt you in the end. Look toward the future. There is someone out there that will really love you.
2007-06-26 06:55:39 · answer #5 · answered by Joe S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No.
He will think you are obsessing.
He cheated on you cos he is a guy, men aren't biologically meant to stay with one person forever - and if they do it's because they have found "the one" who they think is worth giving up other people permanently for.
Don't stress over it.
2007-06-26 06:52:16 · answer #6 · answered by Cori 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
U apparently need to get closure from this past relationship, which means that u r ready to move on_4rm what though? Do u still have feelings 4 him?
2007-06-26 06:54:32 · answer #7 · answered by defile_steffie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After 4 months you still want to waste energy on someone who doesn't care how you feel? Move on with your life. Obviously he has.
2007-06-26 06:53:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO. it's too late. you've waited too long. You'll just look stupid. no offence. Just let it be and move on. He obviously wasn't right for you. Just remember that everything happens for a reason. he was just a step for you to find your soulmate.
Good luck
2007-06-26 07:01:14 · answer #9 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. You'll seem pathetic. Men rarely offer closure. You'll have to work on this yourself. Keep moving.
2007-06-26 06:51:50 · answer #10 · answered by amazingly intelligent 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋