Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

Last night my husband mentioned one of the ladies that he works with wasn't feeling well, that she had to leave work until her heart medication is figured out. He was able to go into the details of her medical problem. We have been married for 24 years and have two wonderful children, But my entire Life I have dealt with medical problems that he shunned off and never said a word to anyone about it. Even when I coded on a surgical table, the people he worked with never knew! So do you think it's unrealistic to let him know I didn't care to hear about a woman I have never met, who has a very minor health condition in comparison? Or should I just pretend I don't feel hurt and continue living as I have. Thinking and doing for others and try to ignore the physical and emotional pain of living with a terminal illness? I lost a brother 11 months ago due to this same heart condition., my husband never mentions it....Should I whine more like the women he works with?

2007-06-21 23:59:46 · 9 answers · asked by Mona Lisa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've bought my wedding dress for my wedding next year (it's a Maggie Sottero 'Grace') and now I've just seen three Alvina Valenta dresses that just took my breath away!!! What do I do!? Do I sell my Maggie and choose the AV one or what!??!

2007-06-21 23:49:28 · 48 answers · asked by Mrs Stevo 2 in Weddings

Getting married or just having a boyfriend that want's no obligations however my mom wants me to get married. I don't know how to tell her that we are happy this way with no obligations. What do you think? Thanks in advance!!!

2007-06-21 23:49:02 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

1 QUESTION
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Girls tell me pls -- when you see a cute guy, what do you feel and think?

May be you can think about guy sexually only after you to have got some personal relationship (friendship) --??

And why do girls usually wait the guy to make 1 move??

Or may be attraction for girls is not sexual thing (like for guys), -- but something close to desire to have money/car/house etc --??
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AND 2 QUESTION

I VE HEARD THAT GIRLS ARE NOT THE SAME AS GUYS ARE -- THAT THEY CAN FEEL STRONG SEX DESIRE ONLY AFTER THEY SEE A GUY LIKES THEM, WANTS THEM, TELL SEXUAL THINGS, SHOW CARE SO ON.

AND GIRLS ALMOUST NEVER FEEL DESIRE FOR A GUY IF THEY DONT SEE THAT GUY LIKES THAM BACK!!

IS IT TRUE????????

2007-06-21 23:39:55 · 3 answers · asked by larsen R 1 in Singles & Dating

to start it off, i hate when people have no conscience and dont feel sorry for hurting others. i also hate it when i want to be taken seriously and no one does or im asked the same question (by the same person) repeatedly.

***and dont be afraid to repeat an answer as long as its an original thought/feeling!


THANK YOU SO MUCH

2007-06-21 23:19:52 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-21 23:10:32 · 21 answers · asked by sbeanie1963 1 in Weddings

2007-06-21 23:05:19 · 19 answers · asked by larsen R 1 in Singles & Dating

i can't quite see it. it's behind the other thing.

2007-06-21 22:53:55 · 5 answers · asked by duffmcbeir 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a man, 35 years, haven't yet met a girl/woman in my life, I hope you understand what I mean. I would be happy to get a girl of my kind. I also would like to know if it would be ok to get married to a girl say 15 yrs younger than me? I will be happy for your advice. Thanks

2007-06-21 22:48:58 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

or just do something that would make her break up with you?

if he has a good reason to break up with her, that is...

2007-06-21 22:40:07 · 13 answers · asked by jammin 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I will be divorced next month from a woman that I was married with for 18 years. The reason for the divorce is that she cheated on me and brought the guy to our house while I was away at work. She would even have sex with him in the back seat of our car prior to picking up my girls. I have 3 daughters, 17, 13 and 8. It breaks my heart that they will never have a normal familly again. I had my suspisions about her affair so I put a voice activated recorder in the car. It was then that I found out out she was having sex with this man in my car and I would listen to all their conversations and even having sex. After they had sex the guy would ask my X if he could have sex with my oldest daughter and my wife just giggled. Of course I can't use those recordings in court and she ended up having custody of the kids and I'm left all alone. I want to tell my oldest two so they would know why I detest their mother. What should I do?

2007-06-21 22:36:19 · 16 answers · asked by Donq 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i am asking it because few girls r doing it to me , they even make me wear bra and panties

and they love dressing me, do all girls enjoy doing i

2007-06-21 22:35:16 · 18 answers · asked by suraj 1 in Friends

and everytime you see them you think back to all the awful memories and experiences...

2007-06-21 22:34:01 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I know several men that are "nice guys" and all of them are single and are making their way into their thirties. I hope to god I'm in a serious, committed relationship by that point in my life. I worry though, because I can be quite nice myself sometimes.

Why are most women not turned on by nice guys? Do women subconsciously see these men as... I dont know... socially inept?

2007-06-21 22:33:24 · 5 answers · asked by prestonwhitlow 1 in Singles & Dating

Why don't some like to shave ... their faces or even their legs... disgusting... yukkkk

2007-06-21 22:24:26 · 16 answers · asked by Lee's the man 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 22:23:34 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Growing up from middle school to college.. I've never been in a bf/gf relationship. I am now 22 years old, pursuing a bachelor's degree.. My singleness has gotten to me for the past 6 years. There have been many girls that I liked, but could not approach back then. But now I am beginning to approach, but with failure after I ask. I have made a few female friends, but my feelings grew more than just that, while my female friends' did not. What am I doing wrong?? Why could I not get a girlfriend when I was in High School? I'll admit I was a little nerdy in Middle and High School, but it is nerve recking for me. I feel like the "40 Year Old Virgin..." -__-U I've tried to rid my feelings of loneliness and heartbreak of girls' playing with my emotions, but they just won't go away. I was comfortable with my singleness after 9th grade.. now I've gone "love crazy" or something..

2007-06-21 22:22:58 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i neva get any sleep and i rebel against everyone aswell

2007-06-21 22:16:56 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-21 22:16:47 · 19 answers · asked by bobby.k 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Before someone jumps on my case, I know women play games too! I'm just talking about men in this case.

I've been practically drooling over this guy since last December. One of my friends told him in May that I liked him. I was mad at first, since I told her to say NOTHING, but I was relieved that he finally knew. He's been overly friendly and talkative to me ever since. HE told my friend he'd "talk to me" and granted he has, but its not the "talk" I was expecting. All of my friends see how he stares at me, comes to my job looking for me, etc and they are convinced that he likes me.

When I gave him my number on Tuesday, he just smiled and he seemed like he was on cloud 9. I saw him on Thursday morning and he was still nice to me. He held the door open for me, he walked behind me (maybe he likes my butt? I dunno lol) and we had a mini conversation, but nothing about the note and # I gave him.

It took me MONTHS to get the courage to give him my #.

2007-06-21 22:15:28 · 3 answers · asked by ..... 5 in Singles & Dating

i just wanna know. it's soooo typical that girls run away from the nerds. why is it so? and don't you think they can be great lovers?
if you think so, why?

2007-06-21 22:06:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 22:06:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

So theres this great girl and we went out yesterday for a meal and a drink, and we hugged at the end of it. we are meeting next week again. in the mean time, do i text her today or would that seem to needy? i dont wanna hassle her daily by text every day till then. but if i dont text her will she think im not interested?

advice?

thanks

2007-06-21 22:01:04 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What is considered too many..?

2007-06-21 21:58:58 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

everytime were in the mood sheand iam down there doing the bussiness my cellphone will ring it has a light so she covers herslef up and hides the cellphone i dont understand

i try to convince her that i could do alot more if i seen what i was doing but she still refuses plz help

2007-06-21 21:49:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

it used to be so passionate in the beginning... now it's just repetitive and boring. what gives?

2007-06-21 21:41:49 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

always known that for the girls it hurts e.t.c yet is so precious to them,whats it like for you guys? exciting or nerve wracking?

2007-06-21 21:39:33 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

enjoy teasing certain people[men] with naughty text msgs? or daring pictures online? i dont really know them. but i dont do it often either.. is it really perverted of me? they enjoy the exhibitionist part of me anyway... what say you?

2007-06-21 21:07:12 · 13 answers · asked by Ms. 10 2 in Singles & Dating

I've known my bf for 6 years and we've dating almost 9 months. He's always been a sweetheart and while we have our arguments, everything always works out. Or so I thought.

Yesterday my friend went through his email (dont ask me how she got his pw), and she found a convo between him and his ex who moved across the US. He was telling her how he wanted to marry her, make her the happiest woman, and he had a "licking" surprise for her. And I honestly couldn't blame her for egging him on, it was all him. This email is from Feb. and they haven't talked since.

When I asked him about it, he says that he knows he made a mistake, and he's telling me how much I mean to him, and he says that if he was really into her, he would've kept in touch. We had been dating for about 4 months at that point, so another excuse he threw out was that we weren't "serious" and so since I was emotionally distant (true), he wasn't sure where we were going.

If you were in my shoes, what would you think?

2007-06-21 20:36:07 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

one of my freinds told me when i am older and i join the military(marines) that you wont be able to find a gf? why is this?

2007-06-21 20:31:40 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating