Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

Okay I have two best-friends, named "S" and "M." So "S" was dating this girl (N) for about two months and then they broke up. Now, prior to their breaking up "M" started talking with "N" on Myspace and AIM. I've talked with "M" and he says that he talked with "N" about her relationship with "S." "M" was trying to help them with their relationship. So ater about 1 week "M" and "N" start talking more and eventually start dating. I've known "M" since about elementary school so I am 90% sure that he wouldn't purposely hurt "S" by dating "N."(I say 90% sure because "S" and "M" haven't had that good of a friendship, even though they've known each other since Kindergarten...BTW all of us are in high school (yea i know stupid drama). My main point for this is: Was "M" wrong for starting to date "N" ? Even though "S" and her had broken up. Their still dating and "M" tells me that he loves "N" and I believe him. What's worse is that I feel like I have an obligation to be either "S" or "N" friend

2007-06-21 15:26:16 · 17 answers · asked by senor_philosopher90 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and my buddies were talking about porn. We've all watched it at some point in our lives. Some more than others.

First, do many girls watch porn and enjoy it?

Second, I guess for mostly the guys, do you prefer the normal porn star look(big boobs, blonde hair) or the girl next door look?

Third, do you guys get bored with porn at all? Seems like the same set-ups, same kind of sex, etc. Any changes you'd make to porn?

Because we were talking about it, and we were wondering if those normal looking women don't get involved in porn. Maybe there's just that certain look that lends itself to porn. But, not all of us have the same taste. I'd just like to see women who you might see out at a bar or at the store. I think it's the whole fantasy of a girl you actually might be able to pick up. Not some fake, plastic, silicone, Pamela Anderson wanna-be.

2007-06-21 15:25:34 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is a "one horse town" and how long is a "country mile"?

2007-06-21 15:25:27 · 10 answers · asked by redneck girl 1 in Singles & Dating

the woman i love is from the philippine==i only know here thrue the magic of a cam + phone+ e mail =here age is 44

2007-06-21 15:24:40 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 15:24:14 · 43 answers · asked by Lynnsme 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 15:23:59 · 8 answers · asked by Kevin 6 in Singles & Dating

on his days off. and constantly tells me he's just waiting for me to invite him 'back home'. i have been open about the fact that i like being by myself. though the seperation is only 2 weeks along, i know him coming back is not what i want. at this point, i am wanting to file simply because i feel such a weight off of my shoulders (we fought a LOT and bad...and it has definitely mellowed out since seperating.) is it too soon to know? and how do i break the final news to him, with him wanting so much more than me?

2007-06-21 15:23:51 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

OK, so my wife quit her perfectly good job because she said her boss was an ***. Now we are late on all our bills. Everytime I come home she is sitting down and the apartment if filthy. Laundry hasn't been done, dishes are piling up. She says shes looking for a job but hasn't done anything. It angers me so much to know that she just sits at home and lives off my hard work. We have no kids, so she absolutley does nothing all day. She sleeps untill 1 or 2pm every day and WILL NOT go out and get a job. Everytime I ask her about it she gets all defensive and complains about how hard it is to get a job around here, but in all reality, she hasn't been trying. Is she just using me for my money or is she just plain lazy?

2007-06-21 15:22:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i'm a 21 year old female who has always dated guys but have always considered myself bicurious in the least.
I'm extremely interested in trying to meet girls, but have never had close relationships with many female friends...will this affect me if i try to have a relationship with a girl? and also, are there any bi girls/lesbians that are patient enough to go slow so I can decide if it's really right for me? I've made out with girls before and enjoyed it a lot, but I'm worried I'd be uncomfortable with sex. Really any experiences about meeting girls and starting out would help, thanks!

2007-06-21 15:21:35 · 8 answers · asked by riobio 1 in Singles & Dating

i'm in a relationship for about 3 years. i kind of knew that he is emotionally and mentally abusing me. i felt he was only friend of mine, i just moved to toronto about 3 years ago from other province, i felt like i don't anything beside him. i feel it's so hard to make any friends. he always ask me to buy something for him. the relationship started was fine, we had fun, we used to go out do stuff together, rightnow we just lost it. he aslo critcize everything i do, everything i say or wear, i'm just no good enough, i used to be beautiful in his eyes, rightnow i m just nothing. i bought him XboX, playstation, and much so much i don't even remember. i don't even spend any money on me , i will buy whatever he wanted. some times i feel like i deserve better. but i don't know how to leave , where i should go, i feel so alone. rightnow we fight all the time just about everything. i'm afraid loosing the only friend i have. i felt hopeless.

2007-06-21 15:18:04 · 5 answers · asked by moon dancer 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 15:17:43 · 14 answers · asked by Optimistic 6 in Marriage & Divorce

various reasons?

2007-06-21 15:17:24 · 8 answers · asked by hmm 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

ok well its been 3 years that i've been seeing this married guy, we see each other when either one of us wants to etc..etc.. There will be times when we will last MONTHS without seeing each other, and times where we will spend months seeing each other as well. I have come to learn that its just sex between us but what confuses me is his behavior.. Yes he's married, but he doesn't act married.. We call each other up to go party, he even picks me up from my apartment.. he calls me from his cell and home phone.. he doesnt mind going out in public and showing affection.. is he trying to gt caught????
what do you all think??

2007-06-21 15:16:53 · 66 answers · asked by jena 1 in Marriage & Divorce

And I'm talking about any type of braces.

2007-06-21 15:14:14 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what is this levels stuff all about? what are the benefits of making it to higher levels? do i win a new car or something if I make it to level 7?

2007-06-21 15:12:52 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

do guys not see a problem with not talking to their gf for days? or seeing them? b/c i saw my bf on monday night and i havent seen him since then or talked to him since then - except for last night a bit after i left a message that i needed to talk to him b/c i got in an accident. i just need a guys perspective lol b/c i dont know if i should call him or not tonight or wait till tomorrow night because i dont want to see annoying or obsessive.... lol, i just miss him :\

2007-06-21 15:11:59 · 19 answers · asked by S20x07E 1 in Singles & Dating

Come during sex, can u feel it and what, exactly does it feel like?

2007-06-21 15:11:27 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because i was told it wasn't my place to be pride and happy for my step son by his mother...i really hurt my feeling. Do you think i'm over reacting?

2007-06-21 15:10:02 · 21 answers · asked by Brandy J 1 in Family

Anybody... i wanna hear a detailed story or your best se*, or wildest... describe it... I doesn't have to be long...... just descriptive. This'll be fun, and i'lll choose the best story as my best answer!
Hurry! I'm fighting some temptations, so I can go for it when i read a mouth-watering story!

2007-06-21 15:09:33 · 6 answers · asked by Moosic 1 in Singles & Dating

Whoud it be strange to create a myspace for my brother who just passed so all of his friends can share memories they had with/of him and stuff?

2007-06-21 15:06:54 · 28 answers · asked by ErinRae 3 in Family

deep personality...searching...

2007-06-21 15:00:26 · 8 answers · asked by 214? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 14:57:46 · 39 answers · asked by Sunset 7 in Marriage & Divorce

A guyfriend of mine stated: A guy that loves a girl and is going to marry her never lets her give him oral sex because that is the lips that will be kissing their children. And that is how one can tell if a guy loves you or is just using you as an object.

I was wondering if guys really feel that way???

2007-06-21 14:57:40 · 30 answers · asked by somethingaboutjane 1 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend of a little over a year and a half just got a job playing guitar on a cruise ship, he left on Sun Jun 17th, we have never been apart for more then a week, I'm keeping busy with work and social events, reluctantly at times, but when i'm by myself I miss him so much that all I want to do is cry. Can someone suggest something that will help ease the pain?

2007-06-21 14:57:01 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What exaactly goes through your mind when you are watching airbrushed,painted, and nice looking women engaging in sexual activites...I am not interested in porn but I want to know exactly what a guy thinks when he is watching these other girls...I recently found porn on my bf computer and it hurt me because I believe I am not enough for him. I KNOW MOST OF YOU ARE GOING TO SAY: ALL GUYS LOOK AT PORN- I do not think this is true but I am still curious...am I not enough for him???? and I am not watching it with him at all....I find it degrading..and I was not snooping on his computer...this is the first time I found it also...and it has not been on there since we have dated for 2yrs. I know about his past porn watching but this is the first time finding it...should I expect more even though this was the first time it was actually viewed???? Thanks. Positive answers please..no smart *** comments...

2007-06-21 14:55:30 · 9 answers · asked by caysay d 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm having a beach wedding next month in the morning and the reception is that evening closer to our hometown. My parents are paying for the reception that evening, however they're not going to the wedding. My dad says he has to work. He's missed my graduations before. My mom said she won't go since my dad isn't going. My bro in law says I'm being inconsiderate for having the wedding so far away-2 hours away. So they're not going to it. So I will have no family at the wedding. Some friends from church are throwing me a bridal shower this Friday and my mom said she can't go because she can't drive that far-30 min.The day after she told me that, I told her that I'll be willing to pick her up to take her and then drive her back home. She then said no because she would be too tired from work. The shower is 3 hrs after she is off work. I have gotten upset about the wedding and bridal shower isssues.My family says they love my fiance and are happy for us, but why are they acting this way?

2007-06-21 14:52:19 · 39 answers · asked by ? 2 in Weddings

What would she say that would do it for you???
Please be as honest as possible.

2007-06-21 14:50:15 · 13 answers · asked by Cori 4 in Singles & Dating

take my door off my room cuase they dont think i deserve privacy? lol its crazy!

2007-06-21 14:48:03 · 11 answers · asked by erica d 3 in Family

i really like this guy,
his names brian (if your wondering) lol.
Hes super cute, funny, nice, but lately he hasnt been any of those things.
I went out with him 2 years back, we were young, but i could still tell i really liked him. after we broke, i began to realize i loved him. its sounds funny to even say that, but i did, and still do. Only he got really strange, stopped talking to me, calling, replying to my messages, things he would normally do ALL the time. His brother, who is my age, was always trying to break us up, and i could never figure out why, but now all of a sudden his brothers coming up to me trying to console me about the breakup and make me feel better. I bagan wondering if his brother is maybe the reason for the sudden strangeness. Next year we would finally be in the same school again cause hes 3 years older, but im going to a different school, so i dont know whether to let it go, or try to figure out what to do. I like him to much to just forget about it. Help!=]

2007-06-21 14:44:02 · 4 answers · asked by liveitup 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 14:43:55 · 14 answers · asked by amber h 2 in Marriage & Divorce