Family & Relationships - 21 June 2007

???? im an uncle???

2007-06-21 17:21:56 · 22 answers · asked by MrSilent 1 in Family

Like reading minds or being a witch??????im confused

2007-06-21 17:20:02 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wanna be myself.How do I just be me..without caring what people think.I've been to a therapist, have tons of advice books..yet...alot people think I'm stuck up..especially women...I feel like I have to kiss people butt in order for people to like me..old friends, and people I used to hang with in high school and their friends be acting funny style...It seem that (not to be funny or anything) that we just don't have alot to talk about., they always seem to resort back to me having a master degree, I really don;'t see it as a big deal, but other people so How do I lossen up so people can like me...or think that I 'm not stuck up...PS. I'm really just shy..

2007-06-21 17:18:10 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

On a first date should you kiss on the cheek or tongue him down?

2007-06-21 17:16:04 · 10 answers · asked by octlibbra70 3 in Weddings

we had some bad conflicks with a virgo ladie friend

2007-06-21 17:07:44 · 1 answers · asked by hwstokes1 1 in Singles & Dating

when i need an answer and not someones retarded frieking rebuttle to my spelling. i i needed nonsense i would go look up my husband . why when someone sees they don't have viable advice do they not skip to the next question. shame on you i am speaking of since i am still talking

2007-06-21 17:07:27 · 18 answers · asked by lovelyaimeelee 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-21 17:06:52 · 9 answers · asked by Cass 1 in Singles & Dating

This past weekend, I went on vacation, and my sister and I got into a big blow-out argument, and she ended up saying, "This whole world would be a better place without you in it", and continued to berate me, and I started BAWLING uncontrollably...She's apologized, but I still feel AWFUL, and WOUNDED....She broke my heart....Now, question is....should I forgive her? I've had a really TOUGH life, and I feel like each day is a battle for me, I can NEVER comprehend how someone could talk to ANYONE that way, let alone their own sister!!!! How can I deal with this pain I feel from this situation...I need advice, b/c I don't want to ruminate in the negative...thank you!

2007-06-21 17:06:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

just wondering...and no im no gonna have sex yet im just wondering
but is it true that if ur a virgin and u use a condom it hurts more than if u weren't using one
and is it true its more pleasurable without one

2007-06-21 17:02:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 29, my husbands 34, we have a 3 yr old and a 2 yr old, and we bought a large house so my parents could live with us. My mother works and my father is handicapped and in a wheelchair and in severely bad health. We moved in together to help each other financially and because my father needs to be cared for when my mother works. Lately, my husband has been arguing with me about kicking them out, but I just don't know if I can. We bought the house we are in with the understanding that we would be splitting the bills. If they move out, not only will my father have no one to care for him (with the exception of hospice nurses which will cost my mother LOADS of $$), my husband and I will be under SEVERE financial stress. He doesn't seem to care about any of that. His main concern is being "In Charge" of his house. Is he right? Should I treat my parents as renters instead of partners? Should I kick them out if it is putting stress on my marriage?

2007-06-21 17:00:17 · 4 answers · asked by portiaraylee 2 in Family

some hot n attractive girl tells you that she likes you... what would u do? would u just ignore her? tell her that u already got a girl? would u b friends with her? how else would u react?

what would u do in this situation? THANKS :)

2007-06-21 16:58:30 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i want to go to Wentworth Military Accademy in Lexington Missouri but my parents wont let me they are making me go to the public school in my area!!! are they doing whats best for me ???

2007-06-21 16:57:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I just got hired at Jewel working as a service clerk and I was walking home...this guy says hi and I said hi quickly and kept walking...he figured I was young so I would be interested...asking me to stop and see if I want his number or if I drink - directly asked if I had a b/f to which I said yes (I do) and I walked off....he says oh you work here, I'll see you tomorrow.

I am worried he might start following me every night, I don't have a car and I don't want him bothering me, as nice as he was. What can I do to get out of this situation?

2007-06-21 16:56:36 · 2 answers · asked by tammylicious 1 in Singles & Dating

I think this guy is stalking me. I don't know what he looks like, but he knows me. Tonight he told me he was at my workplace watching me - so he could see what I looked like. He didn't approach me but called and told me about it later. Told me I was a "looker." Should I be scarred? I don't want to piss him off because now I am afraid he'll do something. Any suggestions?

2007-06-21 16:56:25 · 7 answers · asked by Ms. Gump 3 in Singles & Dating

My sister has done.... no wait does a lot of stupid things like doing drugs,stealing, giving up her baby kid for a car.Yup thats right she gave up the sweetest baby girl 4 a car (2 my mom, but still makes me sick).Now she's with this guy not 4 love but 4 money (he needs papers and so that he can look good n front of the courts he wants my sis 2 take back the baby and she says ok).I have taken care of Mia for almost a year me not her. I clean her ,play with her, give her food, spend all my money on her I do everything that my sis should do and u know what I'm ok with that because I love that baby.But I 'm so mad that my sis after all she has or hasn't done she thinks she can just walk in out of no where and think that she hasn't done anything wrong.I fear that the court system well give Mia back 2 my sis.I do love that baby with all my heart but there is only so much I can do what going 2 happen when she's older and ask why her mom doesn't want her I'm only 17 i don't know what 2 do.

2007-06-21 16:55:51 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

It has been two years and I've been in love with two people - my husband and his best friend (who is also a very good friend of mine). TWO YEARS. So day after day for the past two years, I sit around and dwell on my problem. Divorce is not an option. Cheating is obviously NOT something I'd consider. Is happiness possible though? Anyone else ever had a similar experience?

2007-06-21 16:54:46 · 15 answers · asked by SoccerWife 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I got married on June 2 and everything was great. However my wedding photographer who was paid $3500 lost a role of film from the reception, which included family photos of people that we don't see that often. The photographer seemed to show no remorse and still charged my mom full price, not to mention my poor mother cried because she was so upset about losing the family photos. Is there any way I should handle this or just do nothing until the wedding albums are finished so they at least do a decent job on those?

2007-06-21 16:53:10 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

2007-06-21 16:52:47 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

hi everyone, im hoping someone can help me. my fiance and i have been together for 3 years now and are spose to be getting married in 4mths but im really confused. he works away for 5 days a week so i only see him 2, i have a job waitressing, when he does come home all we do is fight. we have recently moved to a new town for his work and i have left every thing (my awsome job, family and friends). he doesnt like me going out and meeting new people and he expects me to sit at home and do nothing. i feel lost alone and confused i dont know who i am anymore and i feel like running away. i wish things could go back to how they used to be but we have both changed and want different things in life now. i love him and wish he and we could go back to how we used to be before he got this great paying job. i have now realised that money cant buy happyness, can someone help me please ??? :-(

2007-06-21 16:50:27 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

So I've been dating this guy for a while now. I really wanna please him without actually having sex or even participating in foreplay. Are there any certain spots like the back of the neck or something that really turns a guy on or is there anything I can do to get him stimulated?
Anyone know??

2007-06-21 16:48:42 · 23 answers · asked by Amanda 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 16:47:54 · 7 answers · asked by Tabitha E 1 in Singles & Dating

my question is how to i get him to change without breaking up with him since he gets mad at me all the time for no reason and i like him maybe love him but i just im out of breath and energy im tired of him yelling but i love it when he is not its hard for me to just say its over and i tried sayin if u dont stop were done and that didnt work so the question what else do i do about him yelling or getin mad easily with out me breakin up with him?

2007-06-21 16:46:04 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even if you don't really like her anymore. Or if you two don't really talk. What do you think about your ex?

2007-06-21 16:45:26 · 9 answers · asked by AJ 2 in Singles & Dating

My ex and I dated for 2 years and parted on ok terms but the thing is that we both didn't really want to break up but we were both being stubborn. Now it has been a few months and I am dating someone new and so is he. I get so jealous though of him and his new girlfriend and I don't know what to do. I am happy with my current guy. He doesn't treat me bad or anything. I like him a lot but don't want to hurt his feelings by telling him that I still have feelings for my ex. My ex and I are also still friends and everything. But I am having trouble being 'just friends.' I want more. And I just can't deal with the thought of him being with someone else. How can I move on? How can I accept just friendship? Should I tell my current bf? I don't want to mess anything up with him if I am going to stay with him. My ex seems to think that me not wanting to be friends is selfish. I just want some time to heal from our split but he won't give me the space. Help.

2007-06-21 16:43:07 · 11 answers · asked by Genkani 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-21 16:43:05 · 42 answers · asked by tweak548 2 in Singles & Dating

Although I am curious to do...and I do want to do it lol I'm scared cause all my girl friends tell me that it's going to hurt. and I'm also kinda embarrassed to be naked in front of him not that im ashamed of my body and what not but i just dont feel comfortable like that. do you have to be completely naked to have sex? what do I do?

2007-06-21 16:42:37 · 12 answers · asked by Jazi J 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I called this guy friend of mine, left a message and he called right back. I like him, and I'm sure he knows, and we've been wanting to hang out together soon. I asked him what he was doing and he said that he's going out with a friend for a lil bit but wouldn't make it a long night, and that he'd call me. Then he asked me what I was doing this weekend and I said I might go see a friend's band play, but didn't know for sure if I was going. He's a lil older than me, I'm 26 and he's 33 so he might think that's lame lol but didn't seem like it. Anyway, then he said "cool I guess I'll talk to you later then" I said ok cool, and we said bye. Now I might be looking too deep into this, but does he mean later as in that night or he thinks I'm too busy so he'll call at a later date? Because I didn't want to seem so busy that he wouldn't call!

2007-06-21 16:40:32 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband and I were fighting in the garage and he said "see that can of gas right there? Right now I could pour it on top of you and light a match, and laugh while I watch you burn!" I need a good come back if he ever says that again to me. Also any advice about this rotten marriage.

2007-06-21 16:35:39 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am the mother of 4 my first 2 were great no problems gratuated HS currently going to college.... bright futures ahead. My problem is the 2 younger kids. Boy 16 and girl 14. They talk back, disrespect us, throw things when angry, disappear for hours, lie about when and with whom they are with, grades keep getting worse and currently failing more than 2 subjects each. We tried talking to them explaining that we need to know where they are especailly since both of us parents work full time. Daughter recently embarrassed us by getting caught shoplifting while shopping with us- we gave her money to spend in the store but she still lifted a couple more items. I am at my wits end, everytime we try to punish them by taking away priviledges they seem to twist us into making an exception- they usually play the daddy or mommy game when they beg which ever one of us didn't set the punishment to get us to loosen up the reins for a day or night. Any suggestions.
boy into pot girl drinks help!

2007-06-21 16:28:59 · 5 answers · asked by NMR 1 in Family

I will not allow my children 2 boys and 2 girls stay at there grandparents house because of things running threw my mind of things that could happen to them. Not with there grandma jsut the male siblings. Even if my brothers there uncles sleep over at our house I stay up alllll night. Is that normal?

2007-06-21 16:28:14 · 10 answers · asked by Becky A 1 in Family