just wondering...and no im no gonna have sex yet im just wondering
but is it true that if ur a virgin and u use a condom it hurts more than if u weren't using one
and is it true its more pleasurable without one
2007-06-21 17:02:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
im not planning to have sex till i get married
i least im hoping to
2007-06-21 17:08:58 · update #1
i don even have a boyfriend im single
and im not planning to have sex anytime soon
2007-06-21 17:09:54 · update #2
when i lost my virginity the guy wore a condom and it didn't feel that great. the next time i decided to see what it would be like without a condom and it felt soooo much better!! I definetly think condoms make it so its not as pleasureable but if ur gonna do it without one make sure u have another method for birth control like the pill.
2007-06-21 17:11:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't believe it hurt worse with him wearing a condom...just make sure you are well lubricated. Be it using KY or something else.
As for the second question... I believe it is more pleasurable without a condom. But ... if it's not monogamous... be sure to use some type of protection... well...use protection anyway. It'll hurt worse to get an STD than to be a virgin and have him wear a rubber.
2007-06-22 00:09:38 · answer #2 · answered by Pixie Dust 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's def. NOT true, go to the store, get some lube from the "personal" section of Wal Mart, and you will be fine. You DON'T want to end up pregnant or with an STD! Trust me, if this dude that your considering loosing your virginity to tries to convince you to NOT use one, RUN THE OTHER WAY!!! Honestly, how old are you? IF you really had to ask that, you shouldn't be having sex anyways... honestly, my best advice is to wait, I'm 20, and wish I would have waited until I was married, or older and in a serious commited relationship.
2007-06-22 00:09:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honestly, it's going to hurt just about no matter what. You're best off having your partner use a condom so that you're not having to risk disease and/or pregnancy so early on... either of those could really put a damper on the relationship. The best tip I can give you for avoiding pain would be to instruct him to take it slowly that first time, and let you get used to what is going on before things even can have the possibility of getting rough.
2007-06-22 00:14:06 · answer #4 · answered by Mad Mike 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
alright here's the thing... most of the time if you are a girl and you are a virgin the fact that he is wearing a condom will not even enter your mind and you wont realize it. however, though you may be a virgin you never know if he is and even if he is there are inherited diseases you should always use a condom until you are in a loving trusting relationship and are much older and both people have been tested.
2007-06-22 00:07:46 · answer #5 · answered by tinkerbell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most conversations I have had with women is that lubricated condoms are better, unless you are allergic to the the lubrication. The guys are the ones usually complaining about lack of sensitivity. When women complain about lack of sensitivity, she is usually referring to the guy, not the condom.
2007-06-22 00:09:46 · answer #6 · answered by Mr Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alot of condums have lubrication and alot of condoms are made to assist in pleasure.
Protection protection protection.
Baby, Baby, BABY
Be careful in your future endevors. Make sure things are right.
2007-06-22 00:07:57 · answer #7 · answered by curious6710 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
for women it dosnt really matter - with or without, condom is lubricated and slides better.
never have sex without condom - i have a few in all of my purses because men are sooooo irresponsible.
2007-06-22 00:16:29 · answer #8 · answered by Natalie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
STD or NO STD (sexual transmitted decease).
you never know is better to be safe than sorry.
if its going to hurt it will hurt with or without a condom.
its more pleasurable when both people know what they are doing. give it time
2007-06-22 00:15:23 · answer #9 · answered by ullie1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use a condom, pregnancy STDs do I need to say more.
2007-06-22 00:08:22 · answer #10 · answered by nina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋