Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

Okay a girl at work that I like tries to talk to me every now and then even though I don't really make an effort to speak to her. When she talks to me I keep it as short and proffesional as possilbe because I really like her alot but she has a boyfriend and I feel it's pointless to get close to a girl that I like if she has a man. Anyway, she came up to me the other day asking me how i'm doing and telling me that she missed me the other night when everyone from work went out together. I just gave a very short response and left the room. Without getting into details the next day she intentionally screwed me over at work, i'm guessing becuz I didn't really pay much attention to her the previous day. I like this girl alot but I'd rather keep my distance from her becuz I know she has a man, and work relationships are trouble anyway. Are her actions justified and am I being a jackazz?

2007-06-17 23:59:23 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i b with my fella nearlly 6 years and we have 2 daughters who are 4 and 2, he does nothing at all, does not help with the kids, or housework, does not want to work, yet before kids he was working till he got sacked, and he was more excitin,

2007-06-17 23:54:43 · 19 answers · asked by gemma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

this is continuing on from my "does he like me?" section.

whenever i go to his house he's so nice and he never takes his eyes of me. he makes a couple of stupid jokes but they make me laugh all the same. whenever we watch movies, he tends to slowly get closer to me and i don't know what to do. i like him but i don't know if he likes me in the same way!

anyone that comments a huge thank you! :)

2007-06-17 23:53:11 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 23:51:52 · 18 answers · asked by Nora C 4 in Family

She must really like her convertable.

2007-06-17 23:48:06 · 11 answers · asked by Reo 5 in Singles & Dating

For the past few years, whether at parties, bars, online, etc. it always seems as though it's cool for two straight girls to hook-up or "experiment". Girls who label themselves as straight are always talking about hooking up with other girls just for fun. It seems as though any straight girl is o.k hooking up with other girls. Are all women nowadays wired to be bisexual? Or do they adhere to the bi-curious bs? Or is it an attention thing?

2007-06-17 23:48:05 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 23:48:03 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I dont say on every field or moment. but it happens in life
whether he lover/husband, father and brother. his proudness comes. I dont say that woman are not but they yield for their love & else reasons, but man not they always want to show down the woman.

2007-06-17 23:45:59 · 6 answers · asked by radhaanu 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

married 3 years. together for 6. Husband and I havent slept together in over a year. We have 1 child together and 1from his first marriage and 2 from my 1st marriage. He is mentally abusive to me and my kids, and is starting on our youngest who is only 5. Anyway, I finally put my foot down and told him to get out. He is still here. He says legally I cant put him out. I am tired of this marriage, I want my kids and I to be happy again. I have no family or friends here for support. I can do it alone I guess. I am currently disabled and cannot work at this time. I am a full time mom and part time student. My house is falling apart, and I am unable to get a loan. Any advice or suggestions would be greatful! thanks so much

2007-06-17 23:38:51 · 9 answers · asked by kim d 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Walking along the edge of the water at the beach at night, -OR- sitting on the sand at the beach at night and talking softly.

2007-06-17 23:36:17 · 18 answers · asked by ? 6 in Singles & Dating

Whats the point?

2007-06-17 23:33:07 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We are military and live far from our parents. I am heartbroken my children don't get to see my husband and my parents or cousins often enough. We constantly move and each time we move I find it harder and harder to adjust. I have told my husband I cannot move again, but we are moving after just 18 months now. We have 8 more years until retirement. I don't know if I will make it.

2007-06-17 23:32:12 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I've been set a task by my boyfriends mother (she is getting married on the 30th June).

She wants me to find a professional make up artist to do her make up on the big day but I don't know where to start! I've asked a few colleagues that I know have connections with the beauty industry but apart from that I don't know where to look.

Can anyone point me in the right direction?

She wants someone to actually go to her house on the morning of the wedding to do it and she lives in Addlestone, Surrey.

Thanks

2007-06-17 23:29:55 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

we have a great relationship in most ways until it comes to the bedroom, i know he works a lot, 6 days a week and is very tired. but he never makes time for me. we try to make time at the weekend, but he has no interest in giving me any sort of pleasure, it is all very robotic and then he gets his 'release' which is me doing it for him and expects me to finish myself as he cant be bothered, and oral is completely out though he loves me doing it. he does not see why this is a problem, and thinks i should just be grateful for what i have got. i am 23 and he is 36.

am i wrong for asking for more of him, or should he be willing to compromise if he really loves me?

2007-06-17 23:26:11 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-17 23:23:50 · 17 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Friends

2007-06-17 23:23:34 · 3 answers · asked by blackboi 2 in Singles & Dating

Like does any one of you already have it..how does it feel..wat if u break-up??

2007-06-17 23:21:36 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If you live with your sister who does not get along with your newly wed wife, who would you keep if you had to get rid of one of them to have peace in your home. Wife or sister?

2007-06-17 23:17:40 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

There's this really jerky guy at my schook who writes rap songs about killing ppl and always goes on about how he's all that. He claims to "bear overwhelming intelligence", but yet he butt me, a girl a year younger than him in the caf line when I was all alone and he was with a group of guys. He also threw a full milk-carton at a girl whose supposed to be his friend and always pushes around ppl smaller than him. He's really getting on my nerves. How can I put him in his place?

2007-06-17 23:15:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 23:13:27 · 6 answers · asked by salim a 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 23:00:56 · 18 answers · asked by LadyLike 2 in Singles & Dating

well... im just sorta usin this as a way to vent my feelings... so its free points basically... but...

im extremely happy with my gf and we love eachother i rarely was told that a girl liked me before we started dating but now all kinds of girls are telling me they like me and stuff... the most unnerving case though was when this girl i barely know started sayin she loves me... and i honestly dont know the first thing about her... and now shes trying to break me and my gf up... it just makes me angry that people would be so selfish.... and why do people only like other people when theyre taken?

2007-06-17 22:52:30 · 6 answers · asked by skitz 3 in Singles & Dating

0) What do I need to lookout for if I need to date a serious girl? a girl who don't have the time for bullsh*t. I don't want a woman that's not serious of long term relationship.

1) How can I tell if a women is good for marriage (Long term or "Forever") (marriage material)?

2) Is it wise to date your long-term friend? (A women friend who you rate like your own sister)

4) If I were to propose to a woman (marriage), What's the best and memorable way to do it?

2007-06-17 22:43:38 · 2 answers · asked by The Elite Gentleman 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has dumped me but i want him back. We still love each other, its complicated but he wont talk to me, i've tried telling him how i feel but he wont reply. I dont want to lose him, i cant live without him. How can i win him round? xx

2007-06-17 22:16:42 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok i have know this guy for years but never had feelings for him, but than one night we stayed up talking all night and this continued for weeks just talking no kissing. Than the kissing came than we slept togther. Now feelings are involed I asked him what he wanted adn he said he dose not know right now! We ar etlaking tonight any tips? I know he care but not sure how to not sound like i ma forcing him into a relationship. I just do not want to get hurt. thanks for the help.

2007-06-17 22:14:46 · 6 answers · asked by sweetness 2 in Singles & Dating

Me and this girl really like each other. She says she wants to date but she won't date me because she is too scared she'll get hurt. I tell her she won't know unless we date and she says she knows that but a part of her won't let her date me. And tonight she even said that we're practically dating, just haven't actually became bf gf. And she calls me baby, tells me she wants me every way possible which includes being able to call me hers, being to touch me whenever wherever, and just being together, but then she says she doesn't know if she wants to date. She has a history of cheating. Last night after not talking for about 5 hours she texts me just to say she's horny and what I would do if I was there. I was mad because she can talk dirty to me, but can't decide if she wants to date. I really need your opinion on what she's doing and what I should do.

2007-06-17 22:12:27 · 6 answers · asked by Harhar2930902 2 in Singles & Dating

My 18 years son always infront of computer playing games. Now we made him to join BCA course according to his wish by paying donation becuase he scored 51% in puc ii. If I take off the computer, he needs it for his "C PROGRAMMING" for his BCA. So how to tackle this problem?

2007-06-17 22:12:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

As I mentioned I am going through a very ugly divorce from my estranged and abusive husband and the last thing I was anticipating was to start seeing someone. But he makes me happy and he makes me laugh and he loves the most trivial things about me: my smile and my laughter, my sense of humor and my sarcasm, my openness and my compassion. My honesty. And does not care about my mistakes in the past. Why? He is a great guy with a fantastic personality and a great job. And here I come with all my problems and worries and all he says is - ah, do not worry, we shall work it out, you are very special, what would you like me to make for dinner? Am I just lucky or have I simply forgotten what it is to be and feel special and be loved regardless of what mistakes you might have made?

2007-06-17 22:04:49 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

i hear some people say its because ot the way teenagers dress this days. is that true?

2007-06-17 21:59:56 · 31 answers · asked by sophy4wisdom s 1 in Singles & Dating

18 months ago I got chatting to this guy over a chat room. We waited for about 6 months before we met. We chat most days on MSN, send text messages, ring each other regularly. Over the past year we have met about 10 times. We are what we call close friends. When we are together we are great. Just on a friends basis. He calls me "an angel sent from heaven" and "One of the nicest gems"

Yesterday he wrote me an e-mail saying that he has met another lady friend. He wants to mention me to this lady? Why? I don`t bare any grudges if he wants to date someone else. Friendship is just as important.

I am left very confused, and I have to admit I have feelings for him. I have done for a long time.

It was just when he said that he was going to mention my name to this other lady....is he hiding his true feelings for me?

We are both in our 30s.

2007-06-17 21:57:29 · 1 answers · asked by Only Me 7 in Singles & Dating