2007-06-17 23:23:50 · 17 answers · asked by Say It Like You Mean It 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
She 's insured, she'll be fine. tell her life could be much worse, she could have had an accident in the car and be injured, but she wasn't. The car can be fixed, get a nice bottle of wine and go over and try and laugh about it.
2007-06-17 23:27:35 · answer #1 · answered by Nickynackynoo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well..you cannot expect her to jump to you level, thats impossible, infact it defies law. To be the greatest friend to her then you should see her as you know shes wanting to be seen. In other words...see her happy and over the situation and enjoying life. At the same time..gently try to guide her thoughts in that direction. Thoughts like " atleast the car wasnt stolen", " imagine how great you will feel when you get it fixed!" - because of what happened..she would have never had the opportunity to feel releif when her car is fixed. good luck.
2007-06-17 23:29:34 · answer #2 · answered by Keith 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try and joke about it... she probs feels a little unsafe ( i know i would, being targeted like that) so joking about it may help her. I hope she had insurance...
She'll feel better in a couple of weeks or so, but there's really nothing she can do about the car now, except get it fixed. try and distract her from the car and cars in general. It's best she tries not to think about it.
hope that helps!
2007-06-17 23:35:51 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friend that what is most important is that she made it out of that god forsaken smash and she is fine, tell her you will help her sort her insurance out with her and go out for a girlie lunch and reminisce on something you have done bad to lighten the situation.
2007-06-17 23:30:17 · answer #4 · answered by Buffy 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aww...you are a good friend to thing of cheering her up! How about throw a party in her honour, like a birthday party, but "My-car-was-vandalized" party..the theme could be car based, or car security based...have fun!
2007-06-17 23:36:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to her, take her out somewhere cheerful, Help her with the insurance, auto repair appts etc. ASK her what can you do, she may just tell you.
You sound like a good friend;-)
2007-06-17 23:27:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think shes going to be pretty peed of for a while i know i would be, tell her to look forwards to the insurance money, and its not the end of the world, worst things could have happened!
2007-06-18 05:44:44 · answer #7 · answered by superstar 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be there for her, its been an invasion of her space, it'll take a while for her to feel better about it but honestly, give her the time and support and you'll soon see her smile again
2007-06-17 23:53:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take her out for a drink to calm her down. Tell her that her insurance will cover it all.
2007-06-17 23:46:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
tell her its her car which can be repaired, and at-least she is not hurt.. insurance would take care of her losses.. she now has an opportunity to buy a new car if she wants
2007-06-17 23:32:37 · answer #10 · answered by sylvester 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋