Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

I am having a bit of trouble with my mum at the moment...i think she is jelous of me.my dad is smart and i love to be around him, i try to be with my mum as well but all she does is watch tely.we'll watch the t.v altogether talking about the programme then mum will say 'oh, are you talking to be?' making out that she is neglected and left out.i am sick of her and as time goes on i want to spend less and less time with her. my dad said that he will pay for me to go to university, so me being excited kept on chatting about uni and my mum was like, 'when i wanted plastic surgury, you(dad) didnt pay that for me!' i was shocked that she thinks her plastic surgery is more important than me getting a decent education...she does't work, spends money like there's no tomorrow and moans at me when i ask dad to buy me a new top. she says im spoilt but i get all my clothes from asda etc so that i dont spend too much.
can any1 give me some advice on how 2 cope?does any1 have same problem?

2007-06-17 02:27:09 · 4 answers · asked by retro cupcake 3 in Family

My son loves his sister very much, she is a Sgt. in the army, two trips to Iraq and is not home alot. To me I dont care who does what as long as the wedding turns out happy for may son and new daughter. Now my wife is wanting to have my daughter wear a Tux???? Ever heard of this????
Any advise of info needed...

2007-06-17 02:24:55 · 31 answers · asked by Oldguy 3 in Weddings

Is this statement only said by unfortunately endowed men and the women that are with them?

2007-06-17 02:23:41 · 27 answers · asked by Saccharin 3 in Singles & Dating

I went on vacation and then made out with this guy we have been emailing because we live far away from each other.
The last time he wrote me 3 months ago!!!!!!!!!!!
I want to say its over but I can’t reach him what should I do?

2007-06-17 02:23:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok, so we were going to backpack round Europe, and he cancelled on me fairly last minute, so I was annoyed and shouted a bit. He ignored me and last night I was like, whats up?
He told me all these things like how the cons of knowing me are outweighing the pros, and how unaware I am of how many people actually hate me.
So I gave him an ultimatum, and this was his final line -

x says:
you're an arrogant, over-confident show off who makes jokes at the expense of other people. you're oblivious to the hurt you cause and you always take things too far. so, in answer to you're question, no, i do not want to be associated with you anymore.

I don't really know what to do. This person was my best friend, I knew pretty much everything about him and I thought we got on really well.
Advice would be appreciated

If this appears twice its because I accidentally posted it on Yahoo Canada

Thanks

2007-06-17 02:19:39 · 16 answers · asked by Typhonius 2 in Friends

easily satisfied anymore, you hear things like he or she doesn't do this for me, should I leave her, where is patience and commitment gone?...

2007-06-17 02:01:30 · 11 answers · asked by happydial 3 in Marriage & Divorce

My partner and i have been together for 5 years and have a two and a half year old daughter. We live seperately but of late he has been wanting me to move in to his house. He comes over to my place every night after work for a couple of hours and goes home again and sleeps over on weekends. I am quite happy living on my own as I am at present financially independant and don't have to ask for anything. The only way I will move in with him is if we got married because to me marriage is more of a committment than defacto but my partner refuses. He said not to take it personally but he would not marry anyone. He has never been married. I feel he wants me to give up my independence for half a committment. Because of his fears i interpret this as in the event that the relationship fails in a defacto relationships I would have no entiltlements to the property and would end up in not a nice situation or even worse - homeless. Would really appreciate some advise..

2007-06-17 01:58:14 · 14 answers · asked by julie j 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I want to know what different kinds of people think about this. So with your answer state your age and level of education and gender

2007-06-17 01:55:58 · 26 answers · asked by Love the Leaf 1 in Singles & Dating

log aakhir jhooth kyo bolte hai

2007-06-17 01:52:17 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

For me that is the best gift a person can get , when you got married!!

2007-06-17 01:52:03 · 12 answers · asked by ACID 1 in Singles & Dating

we both just want a civil wedding, so what documents are needed, how long time does it take until we can actually get married and will she be allowed to live in england with me straight after we are married? would it be easier if i was to get married in portugal? does anyone knows the answer to this questions?

2007-06-17 01:47:28 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

My son and the groom have been friends since kindergarten. Since I have known the groom for most of his life, does anyone know if there is anything that I can hang on his wrist or ankle? LOL .. Strange question I know, but I have never heard of anything.

2007-06-17 01:44:31 · 6 answers · asked by ladylaklak 1 in Weddings

You're in a better place, I've heard a thousand times
And at least a thousand times I've rejoiced for you
But the reason why I'm broken, the reason why I cry
Is how long must I wait to be with you

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

Help me Lord cause I don't understand your ways
The reason why I wonder if I'll ever know
But, even if you showed me, the hurt would be the same
Cause I'm still here so far away from home

I close my eyes and I see your face
If home's where my heart is then I'm out of place
Lord, won't you give me strength to make it through somehow
I've never been more homesick than now

In Christ, there are no goodbye
And in Christ, there is no end
So I'll hold onto Jesus with all that I have
To see you again
To see you again

2007-06-17 01:41:40 · 7 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Family

HE MY HUSBAND CAN NOT REMBER MY BIRTHDAY OR THE DAY WE WERE MARRYED

2007-06-17 01:39:56 · 22 answers · asked by october_4_2001 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Custody battle gone bad. New court appointed shrink says I am selfish for not moving closer. Rich neighborhood and I can't afford it. Have good paying job here. Says I'm justifying my selfish ways by saying I can't because of financial reasons. If I do I could go totally bankrupt and be really in the hole. I can afford to visit every other month of fly kids here if I stay with job and location.

2007-06-17 01:39:25 · 6 answers · asked by mauiniki 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My Dad died a a few years ago, but I still miss him. I am happy he is with Jesus, but I still miss him.

2007-06-17 01:39:18 · 7 answers · asked by Knight-of-God 3 in Family

my mum has a real problem with arguing....my dad didn't make it clear earlier that he wanted to go to his parents house and now my mum is fighting because its too late to go. I know it sounds totally stupid but my mum has a problem...she is now going on and on and on and on about how 'powerless, stupid and idiotic' my dad is. Now my dad has started fighting and i hate it when this happens but my mum just wont shut up!!! how do i get her to stop saying things....she does this all the time, sometimes she can go on at someone for a whole weekend NON-STOP!

2007-06-17 01:31:51 · 3 answers · asked by le_miserable 2 in Family

I like a girl at work very much, but she is seeing someone else. I'm okay with this, but I just don't want to be her friend. She continues to try to talk to me when she sees me at work I have been trying to ignore her, and I thought she got the hint the other day, but then she called me yesterday to go out for drinks with a few friends from work. I have tried to be rude and avoid her but she continues to try to be my friend. It's impossible for me to only want a friendship therefore I just avoid her. What do I do? Oh and I pretty sure she knows I like her

2007-06-17 01:26:55 · 6 answers · asked by Nasty Boy 2 in Singles & Dating

Especially when we're single, why does it matter so much about our appearence? If we're looking for a boyfriend/girlfriend, shouldn't we prefer them to like how we look without trying to make ourselves look better?

2007-06-17 00:56:33 · 13 answers · asked by captainjacksparrow12_12 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 00:40:44 · 29 answers · asked by 2sweet4u 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok,
this is my problem
I love a nerdy girl in my school
but she think i'm a idiot
i always being playful in the school
but she doesn't know how i love thinking
theology, food chemistry, Slavic languages.......
but in her eyes
i always think of fashions, NBA, and blonde
I don't know how to start a word with her
can someone help me?

2007-06-17 00:25:38 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am confused about whether this boy likes me. We have only known each other 3 weeks and on wed he kissed me for the first time, we saw each other again on thursday and he was cooler but he still held myhand while walking and put his arm around me at the nightclub but he was definietly cooler. Didnt kiss me but was attentive ish.

Then friday he turned up at my work just to kiss me before he went away with the lads for a weekend away in scotland. He texted me once on sat nothing exciting no kisses etc.. I replied and since then not heard anything.

Am i over reacting at the lack of texts and coolness on thursday, is it posible he is just busy with the boys and i shld chill and that thursday he was feeling awkward as didnt know how i felt.

Or is he having second thoughts

An objective opinion about what is going on in his head would be good.

2007-06-17 00:22:07 · 10 answers · asked by confused 2 in Singles & Dating

this is clearly not a hard and fast rule.....being that a significant amount of guys still do approach women without even thinking...

but overall.....it seems like guys (including myself) are a big bunch of insecure pus sies anymore....

like what is the big deal???? look at alll the questions on here about guys freakin out over how to approach a girl???? it really shouldn't be that hard should it???

people used to do it all the time...so what has happened??

2007-06-17 00:21:15 · 11 answers · asked by justin 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey Guys, I plan on proposing to my girlfriend next month on her birthday. But for her birthday we always end up goin on vacation. So I know she was telling me she wished she could get a surprise birthday party but since were not gonna be around here I figure maybe when we go on vacation (were going with her family) I could throw a little surprise party in the hotel room with food for everyone and all the good stuff. The proposal idea is this.. Its her bday next month and she accidentally already saw one of her gifts. So i told her I would get her a little surprise gift nothing big though cuz vacation is going to be expensive.. I thought maybe I could get a Big box with that popcorn stuff in it. and put a romantic letter in it saying a bunch of sweet things and at the end up the letter it wil say turn around and I will be behind her on one knee in front of the whole family.. She very family oriented. What do you guys think? to simple? Just need a few opinions. I wanna do it a good way.

2007-06-17 00:14:12 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I met a man 6 years ago from the USA. We fell in love over the internet and he asked me to move to the USA because his Daughter was there also from a previous marriage. I moved with my children and we married not long after. I was told I would still recieve payments for 3 years but the payments stopped after 26 weeks. I was lucky and gained employment and helped to pay household expenses and bills that we incurred we setting up the family. My husband still to this day holds this over my head everytime we argue.Even though I found employment and had money from the sale of my home that was used prior to moving on visits to the USA - One xmas gifts for him and his child and motel and expenses when he visited me. Oh must I also add attorney bills to relocate the children. To this day we still have heated conversations and even though I do 99% of everything in the house I dont do it fast enough or he says things like I am embarraced to have people stay.(Just because I dont rinse the plates)

2007-06-17 00:12:17 · 13 answers · asked by SEL 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I've just moved to Chicago, and I'm trying to find some new girlfriends, but I have no idea where to start. It's not as simple as finding people with common interests - I'm looking for people I'm similar to in personality. I've tried looking for people on Myspace and Craigslist, and struck out there. Is there anything like speed dating for friendships?

2007-06-17 00:10:09 · 9 answers · asked by KazaKu 2 in Friends

He left me a long time back.That was just an abusive and sexual relationship. I have never been into any affair after that. But he recently had a love marriage. I still think abt him. Wat should i do?

2007-06-17 00:07:59 · 14 answers · asked by mini verma 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I've recently started seeing a very nice man, loads of sexual chemistry and we also get on emotionally and are intellectual equals. The other day he suggested doing some rather strange things with food during our 'playtimes'. Not sure what to make of this request, I don't mind obliging but I'm a little concerned he could get kinkier. What should I do? Shall I go along with his ideas but tell him how I feel or should I just say no?

2007-06-17 00:00:31 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after two days that he lie on me, i plan to leave and go back to my place, i go on half day and go to the church to ask god if its the right decision for me. after that i stay on my place until 4 hours and wating him to get my things to his place.after an hour we reach home and i packed my things and i left i didnt even say goodbye to him.when i was waiting for the taxi he saw me, and he told me dont be silly,i really want to go home... he told me ok i will take u,and when we are on the way,i cry so much,i cannot control myself,and i ask him can u pause for a while and give me your last hug... and then we pass by in the station and he told me to go back...i refuse and i told him it would get more worst if stay w/u.now im still w/ him but the doubt is still w/me.he told me before that he will not marry me.... im asking myself why i have to do everything for him...... if its nothing?

2007-06-17 00:00:15 · 3 answers · asked by lenny 1 in Singles & Dating