Family & Relationships - 17 June 2007

is there some thing wrong with me?she knows i like her why does she try to make me jealous?and i have rarely talk to her

2007-06-17 21:56:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

About him. He is a Guardsman, oldest boy in his family, close to his family, 5 years older than me (23yrs old), goes to church twice a week, handsome, overall good with kids, has little control over his facial expressions (which I don't mind), basically likes everyone and a complete sweetheart. His personality. Caring, comforting, listens, funny, honest, sometimes shy (but not all the time), considerate, trustworthy, understanding, kind, respectful, and not puffed up. When he hugs me he hugs me tight. Says he loves me (atleast as a friend). He took me on a road trip to meet up with his brother and mom who absolutely loved me. Taking me out to breakfast when he knew we weren't gonna see each other for about a month. Keeps saying that I can pretty much read him which I don't think I can. I've been told we flirt and I don't realize that we are. Been calling me ever week when on military duty. Do these actions have any significance?

2007-06-17 21:55:24 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Been together 15 years and she said she used to have orgasms when we were younger, but now last 7 years they are more like mini-orgasms 3 kids later too. We have bought a rabbit, silver bullet, 3 %ildos of varying sizes, used them together and nothing....no big O. She doesn't even like the vibrators which I thought was going to be the lotto winner. She likes using her fingers during intercourse but still mini-orgasms. I'm more frustrated then her it seems..... she never brings it up. We still have sex frequently and she intiates and like many women says everything feels great the one thing I have noticed that alot of women post here is she says she gets super close "mini-orgasm" and can't let go she can't let it go further. That's girl talk to a man. She doesn't masturbate with any regularity says it feels different if I'm not there. Is the next step the doctor or should I just not worry about it because she doesn't seem to be? I just want that big O must be a guy thing

2007-06-17 21:53:08 · 10 answers · asked by Lovemykids 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my loser ex-fiance. He sent me all types of satanic messages. I look back now and seen all these signs. First, he didn't want a preacher to marry us, second his passwords on stuff is satan666, his email address ends with 666, he listens to acid rock, with songs that talk (scream) about "let the souls burn", and "your suffering makes me happy". His friends are into "DarkWorld" stuff. I asked him about his religion and he said he was athesist. So I figuired all that 666 stuff and music meant nothing to him. He even said when I broke up with him he wanted to go to my Church, I am a Christian. But he chose to run around with this crowd, over me, so I ended it. How could I have been so stupid and blind?

2007-06-17 21:51:49 · 13 answers · asked by kitty cat 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

You always hear people say, try and make your marriage work. But if you have married a woman for wrong reasons and even been stupid enough to have a baby together, does it make sense to try and make such a marriage work? If yes, then when have you tried enough?

2007-06-17 21:50:49 · 40 answers · asked by Ajay t 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I had a chance to blow up at this female because we had been mean to each other in the past,but ibstead i tried to be polite,maintain my temper to restrain from getting angry,focused on the good about her,,was gentle with her and gave her the space she needed.Shortly thereafter,she walked by me looking peaceful happy and with a bit of a smile on her face and was also more cordial.Did i behave properly?(we were in a public place,gym)and is her reaction a good thing?

2007-06-17 21:47:20 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

ok i have three guys that like me but yet its really hard to choose between them since there all different in many ways.
can someones please tell me what to do
;)

2007-06-17 21:47:02 · 11 answers · asked by dayidca 1 in Singles & Dating

I do not like the way he treats me?
NO he's not physically abusive! (He's very negative & pessimistic.)
However he treats me as if I am stupid. (I'M NOT!)
If I ask a question he thinks is obvious, he just tells me to look it up. When he wants me to see something on tv or the computer (or ?), I have to stop everything & go see right away, but when I want to share something it's always "quit bothering me"!
It seems it's only me he treats this way!
Don't get me wrong, he does have great qualities! & We do have commonalities. Otherwise I wouldn't still be married to him.
He has high blood pressure & so I try not to "rock the boat". But it really is bringing me down!
What do I do?
Oh, I can tell he could be clinically depressed, but if I were to mention it, he'd tell me to... well I won't repeat it.
What can I do to help him? (& help our marriage in the process!)
I know we can make it 'til we die, if we can minimize the stress!
Pls, no smart alec replies. I am being serious.

2007-06-17 21:46:09 · 16 answers · asked by Lady Harley99 4 in Marriage & Divorce

My bf's ex gf (actually they lived together for years) is trying to befriend me. Showing the whole world that she's too kind that she is still befriending me even I have her bf now. I am just scared to trust coz after all the bad words she told my bf's family, friends and officemates, (such as m a flirt...i have a kid etc.) It became too hard for me to get their approval for the relationship...it took me 2 years to finally make them believe that its not me that girl keeps on telling. they don't even talk to me before....slowly i got their trust...and make them like me....but i've gone through real hardships...and now she can see m ok with the family and friends,she's befriending me...what should i do...actually i can't
hide the fact that i wanted to close the issue but she keeps on going where we are and following us...befriending everyone close to me and to my bf...to show that she's better than me..

2007-06-17 21:40:27 · 5 answers · asked by prettyMe 1 in Singles & Dating

If there is mutual consent is there possibility of getting divorce soon even if it is so how many months will it take. 4 yrsof marriage have been completed. Harrassment by husband / physical abuse, can be the reasons for getting divorce soon. What is meant by family court. Can this be dealt in the family court. Maximum how many months it will take.

2007-06-17 21:36:34 · 13 answers · asked by janu 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i used to work with this guy sometimes back,i used to admire him buti thought he was too smart for me, so i told my big sister and turned out she was interested,they used to talk over the phone and were great buddies, but when they met their friendship ended, i think he was not impressed,but now this guy just told me he wants me, and i think he is great but i worry about my sister, she wouldnt understand,what should i do and i dont want to choose between them cz obvious its my sister,is it possible she can understand,please help.

2007-06-17 21:30:59 · 15 answers · asked by p.s 2 in Singles & Dating

My girlfriend Sherri found a post that my ex put on here asking why he cant be with me. He is just the oddest, I have told him so many times that he has anxiety and he still just acts like he has no clue what the problem is. He is upset that I date, but he told me to. I asked if we would get back together and he said he did not know. Now, he makes it sound as if its me moving on. He comes over to see me, phones and says he loves me... He is all over the board! Why is he being so thick?

2007-06-17 21:27:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

thing to them I was told there were true hearted woman out there.I do not believe it to be true.I believe its too good to be true

2007-06-17 21:24:24 · 14 answers · asked by lovely soul with insite 3 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 21:24:21 · 7 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

he always seen to disturb us , he hide out things , he is just annoying

we r having party at weekend , my parents wont be at home , so we can do anything

what should we do to him

2007-06-17 21:23:29 · 17 answers · asked by S 2 in Friends

I am getting close to my ex again, having split 4 mths ago.

She was honest from the start, telling me she had depression as a teenager along with anorexia/bulimia. She also told me early on that she suffers from chronic fatigue syndrome which gets her down, makes her unwell, tired etc

We broke up 4 mths ago as she said her feelings had changed. This coincided with her being down. Initially, she went to her dr who said she was depressed, she then said to me she wasn't, but was unhappy with the relationship & ended things.

We are back in touch now & are clearly very close still & there is something there. We have met twice in the last 2 wks & chatted generally but not about the relationship.

She mentioned to me that her dr has said she doesn't need to take prozac anymore which she was put on at the time things went wrong with us.

Now she is better should I raise us & also talk about her dealing with the depression??

What should I do? I do love her.

2007-06-17 21:19:04 · 2 answers · asked by bepositive1976 1 in Singles & Dating

On saturday night my hubby when out for dinner at his friends house 2 see football (Like he normally does when they is football). He is very shy when talking to girls & he don't like 2 go 2 nightclubs or drink. so i when to sleep early cause he'll b coming home late. Around 1am my mom call 2 ask why he always go out & come back late. She ask many ??? like "is he really going 2 see football or 2 see other girls". She think that since we don't have kids yet. she ask 2 many time like this ? that i really don't like it & get headach & couldn't sleep well again. I trust him fully & i even told her that if he really do have girl outside then i also can have men outside. And 2day morning i.e. monday she tells me that when she call me yesterday 2 talk 2 me my hubby pick up the phone & he said "I shall call it ... it is upstairs" now should i believe her words!! I don't like third person to break us up..my mom don't trust people that much... even though they r telling the true.

2007-06-17 21:03:29 · 4 answers · asked by love_rescue 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have an 8 year old and a 9 year old, both daughters. They can be naughty at times. A few days ago, one of my daughters broke a lamp after I told her specifically to be careful. Both girls stood near the wreckage and I asked who did it. The older one pointed at the other and the younger protested, but, in the moment, I grabbed her and gave her a spanking. I later found out that the older sister broke the lamp. Boy did she get a spanking after I found out... Has that ever happened to you?

2007-06-17 20:56:52 · 9 answers · asked by stmotherer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My daughter is a brat, to tell you the truth. When she was younger, her attitude was solved with a proper spanking across mom's knee. But now she's 14 and my spankings don't seem to get through. A friend told me to spank her on her bare bottom, which is a good idea. But the problem is, she wears jeans a lot and it's hard for me to pull them down since she just avoids me, and it's too hard when she's already over my lap. How can I effectively pull down her pants to spank her?

2007-06-17 20:52:22 · 8 answers · asked by stmotherer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2007-06-17 20:49:42 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i like to know what does it really mean?

2007-06-17 20:43:38 · 21 answers · asked by J G 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend's bf is starting to be moody on her and irretable but the guy claims it's a natural thing for him. My friend is starting to get suspicious because she feels that her bf is giving her a cold shoulder and starting to show less sweetness unlike before. I told her that it's natural because they're only in their 5 months but she loves the guy so much and it's starting to worry her alot..

2007-06-17 20:27:34 · 13 answers · asked by lostsoulprincess 1 in Singles & Dating

10 days back i had a fight with my husband over two sms from a person from a investment firm who had writen in simple language that he was sorry to disrtub his one of most cooperative client and in the next sms he worte rahaam from gurgaon as i told him that i was in gurgaon and i have the form there .my husband got enraged on this that by these two sms it means that i have relation with this man .he was not ready to listen to anything .he was leaving far from us from last six months due to his professional commitments .he left the house .he had hit me on my head and i was bleeding even then he left .he has not sent any money till yet .not called up to inquire for his daughter also.his parents are away in cnada will be back in august .wat should i do .i cant leave him becoz of my daughter moreover i love him .i dont want to call him as if he doesnt pick up my call it will be unbearable for me.without divorce can i seek maintance for my daughter upbringing?plz advice hope u undstnd .

2007-06-17 20:21:11 · 16 answers · asked by DIVYA N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ok well im engaged to a guy but b4 we got together i had this fling with another man who i really liked but he was all messed up but hes ok now and we still keep in contact (the fianc'e dosnt know about him cause he hates him) my problem is that i still really like this guy and the last time we caught up he told me to leave my fiance, but never indicated it was for him (i just told him tht i was unhappy and wanted to leave) however he was and has been making continual advances like "im still waiting for the right girl to come along and you know ill always like you" and "he'll never appericate you for who you are" and so on........ so should i stay with my fiance or seperate with him??? i dont want to hurt my fiance and will not cheat on him.

2007-06-17 20:15:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Heart just pumps blood to various organs of our body...it has nothing to do with Love...whatever we think comes from the Brain...nothing comes from the heart...If there is anyone to contradict my views...please let me know.

2007-06-17 20:08:46 · 11 answers · asked by Naga 2 in Singles & Dating

Do guys like girls more when there really girly or sort of a tom boy? Please asnwere! and also do the like them when they wear girly clothes or baggy clothes? cheers! xox

2007-06-17 20:04:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

he's a vet who takes care of my dog. he's made small talk about people we may commonly know. he pays attention to things i say, and eavesdrops on my conversations with my daughter. does this mean anything at all? how will i know he's available? how can i possibly get him to make a move?

2007-06-17 20:03:55 · 11 answers · asked by Estela R 1 in Singles & Dating

i really like this girl, and i think she knows. her friend has said that she just likes me as a friend, but she always flirts with me like she likes me more. she was kinda avoiding me, but then she suddenly started acting more attached. she gave me her number right before we got out of school, and said maybe we should hang out. but then she made a bet with her freind to see how many guys they could kiss this summer. but she told my brother that she didnt want to kiss me, cuz she thinks i'd get too attached. she's not the hottest girl out there, but i just like her. what should i do?

2007-06-17 20:02:47 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-17 19:59:48 · 4 answers · asked by jagodastrebska 1 in Singles & Dating

This is business math. Please help and explain a little. I cant seem to get the equasion.

1) rusty reft who lives in territory 5, carried 10/20/5 compulsory liability insurance along with optional collision that has a $300 deductible. rust was at fault in an accident that caused $3600 damage to the other car and $900 damage to his own. Also, the couts awarded $15,000 and $7000, respecitively, to the other 2 passengers in the other car for personal injuries.

How much will the insurance company pay?

and what is rusty's share of the responsibility?

2007-06-17 19:59:41 · 3 answers · asked by mistista07 6 in Marriage & Divorce