I have an 8 year old and a 9 year old, both daughters. They can be naughty at times. A few days ago, one of my daughters broke a lamp after I told her specifically to be careful. Both girls stood near the wreckage and I asked who did it. The older one pointed at the other and the younger protested, but, in the moment, I grabbed her and gave her a spanking. I later found out that the older sister broke the lamp. Boy did she get a spanking after I found out... Has that ever happened to you?
2007-06-17 20:56:52 · 9 answers · asked by stmotherer 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
No, I don't have kids, but if I did, I don't believe in beating them, what is that going to teach them?
2007-06-17 20:59:17 · answer #1 · answered by ~~*Paradise Dreams*~~ 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
First of all I don't believe in hitting a child, it only teaches them violence and if they want to solve a problem you can hit someone. We have a standing joke between my daughter now 33 and my son who is 20. When he was about 4 and she was 17 or so, they were throwing a ball in the house and broke a knick knack off a shelf in my hallway. To this day they laugh and accuse each other. I wasn't home at the time. I told them on my deathbed, one of them will confess, lol.
2007-06-18 04:01:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems you have too many daughters.
8 year old
9 year old
14 year old -- who wears jeans all the time but sometimes skirts which get in the way of your spanking her.
Like one school-teacher many years ago, new to the school, took the strap and threw it in the wood-burning stove. To the applaud of the pupils. Then he said, if you misbehave you will wish I still had the strap.
Maybe it is time your kids find out there are ways of being punished without being corporally chastised!!
2007-06-19 08:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by Jim 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
goodness. no. i spanked my sons now 13 and 11 only twice in their young lifetime. and never on a reflex as you described. Im not bragging. you have to be careful with such matters, cuz if you have go about apologizing for your quick reactions to your kids folly...it could cause you more problems in the future. gotta have a clear head about dealings with kids.
2007-06-18 04:01:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I spanked monkey instead of the girl I liked.
2007-06-18 04:00:10 · answer #5 · answered by daboss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have 11 kids and I have never hit them
Its call putting them in time out or model of care you should look into it
2007-06-18 04:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i do not think that would ever happen to me, i would do a little more to find out the truth
2007-06-18 04:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Christina V 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i do it all the time .... i will the tell youngest one i am sorry and will do something special together ( like bake a cake etc )
2007-06-18 04:01:15 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No because I don't spank my kids.
2007-06-18 03:58:44 · answer #9 · answered by so Fresh 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋