Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

This morning at 4.15 he got a phonecall from his brother, who was havin a party at this time asked him to call up. I woke cas i heard him tlkn to a girl on the phone and he was saying very little. He went downstairs and rang his brother back, dunno whether it was that girl or his bro on the phone. anyway he said goodbye that he'd be back soon. I cudnt go bk asleep cas i kept worring wat he's doing. Rang him twice no answer. Eventually he came bk home at 6.30 so he was gone nearly 2 hrs. I wudnt tlk to him. he got up then at half 8 and i cud hear him in the shower. I confronted him and he said the girl i heard was tlkn in d bkround ;not to him an he doesnt know who she was. He said the only reason he went was cas he cudnt sleep anyway. Aggh its head wrecking........this has never happened before and i never got any other indication that he has cheated.

2007-06-15 23:48:20 · 20 answers · asked by Rebecca O 1 in Singles & Dating

Recently my fiance and I have been having a lot of problems and I don't feel like I want to be with him anymore, so I met and am dating someone else who I do love and I feel like this could actually last, now I haven't told my fiance yet but I already know how I am going to go about that its just I don't know how to tell my family especially since the wedding would have been in three weeks, the reason it is so hard is because a family member bought me the dress I was supposed to wear and I dont think that that person would care if I didnt want to get married anymore they would just be pissed that they bought the dress(of their own will I did not ask for that) and now I am not getting married.. so how do I tell my family?

2007-06-15 23:38:54 · 24 answers · asked by Jessi-Lyn Is Aleah's Mommy 2 in Weddings

Dont you think some people would get bored of their day to day lives,
like:
you get up in the morning,
get ready for work, then go to
go to work, go shopping for food,
come home, have dinner, and go to bed....
and then do it all again the next day...

dont you think it would be boring??

2007-06-15 23:29:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i was bored one night and daughter in law was lonely and so
we just ended up in bed ...it was a one time thing and we dont even look at one onother...is this too strange...son will never know.

2007-06-15 23:23:29 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi all. I am an NRI, currently residing in Australia.
I have been happily engaged for the last 6 months and my fiancee is residing mumbai but born in Kerela. I am currently applying for spouse visa's for her to migrate, but I need to be married to do that.

We are having a traditional style wedding early next year, but I need to get a registered marriage done to get visa applications underway so she can accompany me once we are traditionally married.

My dilemma is I can only leave my workplace for a max of 5 days, so I need to get a registered marriage done in a day or two max allowing for flying time.

-I have heard numerous stories so I seek your advice.

-I have been told:

- We cant have a valid registered marriage in Bombay as she is from Kerela and her passport details have her Kochin address.

-I need to be in Kerela for 30 days prior to lodging a registered wedding in Kochin , which means I need to be there for at least 6 weeks.

Can anyone advice??

2007-06-15 23:21:58 · 7 answers · asked by Rushabh S 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i madly fallen in love with a girl to whom i meet in dec2004
in may 2006 we stated meeting and going out very much to many romantic places
i under stand her very much
she knows how much i love her and i can do any thing for her
she also loves me very much in heart but i dont know why she dont say that she love me
i m always with her where ever she need me


please help me
and please tell me what should i do

2007-06-15 23:20:38 · 7 answers · asked by ravi s 2 in Singles & Dating

I went club with friends after graducated from College so we wanted to have some fun so we did. All my mates picked up girls around their age end of club but there was this lady 27yrs of old she hooked with me and im only 22 however main point is that night we had S*X but she wanted really so anything wrong with it ageing or shouldnt done dis kind stuff

2007-06-15 23:06:08 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my ex boyfriend still flirts with me he has a new girlfriend and has made it clear he has moved on we dont even talk like we used 2 hes changed alot since he's with his new girlfriend and he has even told my best friend that he has moved on and over me but he still flirts me and sometimes when we are in class he holds my hand and comes behind me and hugs me really tight we loved each other alot before so where dose that leave us now?

2007-06-15 22:59:40 · 16 answers · asked by bittersweet_love 2 in Singles & Dating

I've just been watching australia's funniest home video show and they just pass out, why do they do that? I never seem to see women doing it, are they just nervous as ****?

2007-06-15 22:58:07 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

I had to dump a guy because he was so unavialable all the time? He would call back promptly if I called but not initiate much contact. If I stopped calling all together he would send me flirty texts. But I'm not in high school to base my relationship on text msgs. He would ask me out without a concrete plan. There was a lot of mind play. Any thoughts?

2007-06-15 22:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by sara 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 22:56:54 · 26 answers · asked by maihob 1 in Family

2007-06-15 22:56:19 · 13 answers · asked by GunXXX 2 in Singles & Dating

I found my soulmate about 5 years ago, but he's my soulmate in the sense that we connect on both a spiritual & intellectual level. He's the one person in this world that I feel comfortable sharing everything w/. He understands me more than I understand myself & there has always been that connection there. He plays a very important role in my life in that he's my confidant for all the problems, troubles & questions that I have and he shares in my happiness as well. He had once approached me to consider starting a relationship and I had rejected him based on not wanting to ruin my friendship w/ him. I have since been in a few short-term relationships and he moved away after graduating from university. We still talk on the phone long distance etc. As of late, we've begun discussing about relationships, futures, ideals etc. and he's approached me w/ the same question again. I can honestly say that I love him, but it's not passion, not romance, what should I do w/o jeopordizing it?

2007-06-15 22:17:30 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 22:03:53 · 2 answers · asked by itsmeuguys 2 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 21:46:59 · 12 answers · asked by loveislike c 1 in Weddings

i dumped my ex and im starting to miss him, i totally still love him and im mad at my self for blowing it and i wish i could get back together with him but his mom and dad wont allow it......what should i do? this may sound funky to some but i love him and it matters that his parents know because we cant drive yet and i just totally miss him

2007-06-15 21:32:43 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Yeah I mean how do u actually ask a girl to dance with you in a night or dancing club. I mean do you guys have any special way or line to say... a goood one that work very well......

2007-06-15 21:10:45 · 13 answers · asked by TIIMM 1 in Singles & Dating

i want to have one with him so should i tell him? so we can try something new? will he be annoyed that i pretend i do have them? or will he accept the challenge....?!

2007-06-15 21:02:18 · 14 answers · asked by sophie k 1 in Singles & Dating

people say they don't dont know sometimes at the moment it feels good but then after it takes a while for them to go away....what do you think

2007-06-15 20:58:26 · 6 answers · asked by 1990gurl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

when my fiance asked me to marry him, he had already chosen my engagement and wedding rings.
we went and "visited" the wedding band each week in the store and i showed all my friends.
when crunch time came the jeweler confided in us that that sort of wedding band is the highest repair rate out of all wedding bands as it isn't actually designed for everyday use. the diamonds keep falling out.
they repair this type of ring all the time, some are bought locally others from other states, but all of that type of ring are suspect to the diamonds fallingout.
we decided not take the risk and we chose another gorgeous ring which i love.
i told my friend (who is also engaged) all about this.
today she called me up, she has just bought the exact wedding ring.

would it bother you if your friend bought the same ring you had previously had in mind?

btw i don't want that ring, i am happy with mine. but i feel kinda like she's copied me.. & hasn't taken my advice about the diamonds ..?

2007-06-15 20:58:12 · 19 answers · asked by chilly 5 in Weddings

2007-06-15 20:51:56 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 20:50:30 · 10 answers · asked by Becky 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Here lately, my boyfriend and I have been having problems. He wants to be out all night with his friends, while I'm at home waiting for him to call. He never calls me when he gets home, and when I finally get a hold of him, he's either too tired to talk, or he wants to leave with his friends again. He says that it shouldn't be a big deal, and that I should trust him. You see, the problem isn't that I don't trust him, it's that I barely talk to him for longer than 30-40 minutes a day now, and I'm starting to feel like I'm not important to him anymore. Usually, you couldn't pay him a million dollars to get off the phone with me, or to not see me. He never wants to spend time together anymore; i have to beg him to come to my house. He acts like he's annoyed when he's with me, but he says everything's okay, and that he loves me. But he doesn't even act like he loves me anymore, and he said hearing me say "I love you" is annoying now, and he hates it. Does he truly love me? What do I do?

2007-06-15 20:49:26 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my partner works nightshift and even if we see each other in afternoon he rings me at 6pm everynight and i am expected to answer. i used to find this sweet and even look forward to it but now i find it annoying most of the time cos i have to drop what i am doing and answer phone. i feel like..my life does not just stop at 6pm every night i am busy girl. so if i answer ..then cool. but i wont always. am i nasty?

2007-06-15 20:48:10 · 17 answers · asked by darkling 5 in Marriage & Divorce

My husband would never go along with paying someone to help in the house, but we both work full-time and I sure would appreciate just a couple or three hours of help a week.

I was thinking about having someone come over in the evenings while he's at work....

I guess I wouldn't want him hiding it from me....

what do you think?

2007-06-15 20:44:02 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 20:42:23 · 7 answers · asked by johns 1 in Singles & Dating

i got online today and that was the search history i found. How do i ask him? What do i do? should i say anything? we have a daughter weve been married for 8 yrs. Hes a manly man but we never have sex. Now I found this. I feel sick to my stomach...
HELP ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2007-06-15 20:41:52 · 11 answers · asked by lilistar 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Be specific.

2007-06-15 20:40:40 · 11 answers · asked by D Block 2 in Singles & Dating

by that i mean in bed

2007-06-15 20:36:32 · 22 answers · asked by Schoolboy 1 in Singles & Dating

did any of you ever have feelings for your brother's friends? my brother is 19 his "buddy" is too he was over today they were video-gaming,is it ok to like him, shoud i tell him?

2007-06-15 20:33:40 · 10 answers · asked by Sylvia 1 in Singles & Dating