my ex boyfriend still flirts with me he has a new girlfriend and has made it clear he has moved on we dont even talk like we used 2 hes changed alot since he's with his new girlfriend and he has even told my best friend that he has moved on and over me but he still flirts me and sometimes when we are in class he holds my hand and comes behind me and hugs me really tight we loved each other alot before so where dose that leave us now?
2007-06-15 22:59:40 · 16 answers · asked by bittersweet_love 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has not got over you yet and if your over him put your foot down because its not cool whats happening and if your not over him put your foot down and have him make a decision
2007-06-15 23:05:28 · answer #1 · answered by Jeremy H 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He made it clear that the 2 of you is over. so let it be over.
Unfortunately when he flirts with you, that is a player in the making. He has a girlfriend and he flirts with you because he KNOWS you still like him. Best of both worlds for a player.
2007-06-16 06:08:48 · answer #2 · answered by Lilkryptonite 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is NOT okay.
I would actually just tell him. Its a "hands off" policy for guys that are NOT your boyfriend. Including EX- boy friends.
How would you feel it some guy did that to your current girlfriend? That's just not respectful to me or your current girlfriend. [if you still care] Tell him, we are just friends now, so you need to just act like it.
FYI- flirting is actions, not touching. That's over the line.
2007-06-16 06:07:20 · answer #3 · answered by Denise W 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
EVERY guy wants a girl "just in case"; especially an ex-girlfriend. He wants to make sure there is someone there incase his current relationship doesn't work. It's goes with the whole control thing. Take it from a guy who knows and use to practice this.
2007-06-16 06:06:21 · answer #4 · answered by Jimmy Jr. 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He is an ex plain and simple and you need to separate yourself from him before this blows up and everyone gets hurt. Seems to me like he may be the cheating type(Is that what ended your relationship). Walk away cause this is by no means healthy.
2007-06-16 06:04:11 · answer #5 · answered by Sal1022 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him to leave you alone since he had a gf already, unless both of you wants to restart it again... think over it before u let him over what a ex should be,....
2007-06-16 06:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by doraemon11 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It should leave you the same.. ex's..If he is doing this to his current, what was he doing behind your back? He is a young romeo & it's mind games. He has someone else, so don't get wrapped up in to his games..You find someone better..& ignore him.
2007-06-16 06:07:16 · answer #7 · answered by Unique Soul 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Do not tolerate touching--make it clear --out loud--NO TOUCHING. Ignore the flirts and the contact--tell him one more time to grow up and leave you alone or you will handle it with the law--a restraining order--he is silly--stupid--immature and disrespectful--grow up and handle it!!!
2007-06-16 06:07:12 · answer #8 · answered by fire_inur_eyes 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why are you letting him hold your hand or give you hugs...tell him to stop it and get on with his life with his new woman.....he sounds very immature to me and is just getting a quick feel out of the whole thing.
2007-06-16 06:05:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he likes you and he's saying all that to make you jealous. Ask him straight up what is going on and tell him your feelings, then take it from there.
2007-06-16 06:05:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋