2007-06-15 22:56:54 · 26 answers · asked by maihob 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You should not beat a child. Sit them down, talk to them and when necessary give them a time out. and NEVER ever forget...........
VIOLENCE BEGETS VIOLENCE!
2007-06-15 22:59:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
How old are they? I suspect that if they are making lots of noises and throwing fits that they are probably very young. Beating kids in early stages of life is a terrible thing to do. Young children are very delicate, you could break their bones. Even if you aren't hitting them hard, it's still a horrible idea.
2007-06-15 22:59:49 · answer #2 · answered by Ixel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beating a child is easy, it requires little thinking, little creativity and it makes you feel a little better right? Well it sounds like you need to give your kids things to do to keep them busy like playdough, paste, beads, puzzles, magazines to cut out, get them in the kitchen, take them for nature walks, bike rides, a trip to the park...I do all these things with my kids. But kids need discipline too.
Yes it can be messy but you shouldn't have kids if you can't be bothered with them. Your kids will love it if you get involved too as I can imagine having these feelings and reactions is making a rift between you and your kids? They will come good if you give them ample attention...the good kind :)
And to whatever idiot gave me the thumbs down, giving kids things to do like the above mentioned - you can't say that's not healthy stuff to do with your kids ok. I was an abused child and it's no walk in the park. You feel like an unwanted possession and that horrible feeling stays with you for THE REST OF YOUR LIFE. So I don't want to beat my kids big deal. My kids are good, well adjusted, smart children with good common sense who come to me for everything they need, but they also know who's boss and I achieved all this without the use of violence thankyou.
2007-06-16 00:02:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
YES that is bad..... controling a child is always not easy. You need to control them by exersicing your authority as a parent. By saying that, it really means that they need know that you are being fair and to reward them if they are good and to take them to task when they are bad...
Some examples you can use is ask them to write 1,000 lines.. like " I will be responsible not make loud noises'.. Do that a couple of times by increasing the number of lines if you find that it does not help.. In time to come they know that you mean business and they will remember to quiet down, just by you staring at them. At that time you don't even need to raise a finger or speak any words...
take care
2007-06-16 00:15:26 · answer #4 · answered by trymejames 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I don't care how much your kids bother you it does not give you the right to beat them. Remember you chose to have them(planned or not). Be a responsible person for once and learn that children are children and from time to time they may irritate you but you have to be patient with them. Be firm if you have to but if you get physical then you need to step back and realize that you have problems.
2007-06-15 23:01:25 · answer #5 · answered by Sal1022 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well every child gets beaten up now and again but it doesn't make it right. Firstly you beating them up will definitely play a big role in the future because the begin to have flash backs and that will lead to them hating you...do you really want that????. Try something else maybe taking away something they really like this should do the trick
2007-06-15 23:04:08 · answer #6 · answered by abbey 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My son is nearly 11 and i have NEVER so much as poked him never mind beaten him, children don't need to be disciplined with violence, there are plenty of alternatives to it. It is also against the law to so much as smack your kids now and i think if you have to assert your authority through violence then you need help, they are not there for you to use as a punch bag when they are making "big noise".
2007-06-15 23:21:45 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 07:56:06 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beat the kids only if they have done something you consider very bad (like they set a fire-up in your bedroom), but not to the point they end up in hospital - and social services take them!
Talking to them always works, but if all hell breaks lose, do it!
2007-06-15 23:02:25 · answer #9 · answered by Dr. W 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Oh, it's bad all right. And just remember... one day your kids WILL be bigger and stronger than you. You'll want to watch your back then if you don't stop your behavior now. What goes around, comes around.
(This anger inside of you is all about you - don't take it out on your kids. Get help.)
2007-06-15 23:43:18 · answer #10 · answered by mJc 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
My dad use 2 beat me. It made me feel like I was worthless, like he didn't love me. In the end all it did was brake the family apart.
Do u want ur kids to feel like that and have ur family brake apart 4 something u can stop?
2007-06-15 23:02:46 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋