Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

This guy I met who happens to be (twenty years old times my senior) worked on my car about three years ago.He grew to like me romantically, and we ultimately, became friends.He became aggressive, and started sending me money, and doing other nice things for me, like helping me with my car without charging me, giving me advice, he even rented a room out to me, and he said I do not owe him anything except my body which equals sex.I've told him several times that I am attracted to him in that way, but will always be there for him as a friend, because I do care about him a great deal, but I do not want him in that way, but he tells me he's not leaving, he's not going nowhere, the thing that I'm worried about is that I gave him money to buy a car for me, I paid for it in cash, paid for the parts, and the paint job, that hasn't been done, I paid for this car almost nine months ago to start the body job, but he keeps bs me, telling me it will be done on a certain date, and then when that day

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comes he tell me something different, it;s getting to be very frustrating, so he told me he's going to sell the car,and I went into a fury, and over a month ago, he said that he would pay a paint shop to do the job, but everytime, I call him about it. he just gives me the same ol song, ...oh next week, and it just keep proloning it, I don;t know what to do? And do you think he's playing games

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I also want to add that I've told him from the get go that i am not intrested in having a sexual relationship with him period, but all he says is.."I'm not giving up" I won't slack off" I even told him I was a lesbian..just so he would get ...I do care about him, and I just want to be his friend what's wrong with that?

2007-06-15 17:22:30 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I didnt have enought room to put on that last question, the long question about the guy avoiding the girl. Well i was also wondering if this guy would ever come back around and would the girl just have to be patient?

2007-06-15 17:10:14 · 1 answers · asked by shortyT 1 in Singles & Dating

she sat by me in english and always flirted with me, gave me her #in my notebook, but i never called, later her friends said that she wanted to go to prom with me, i didn't ask her
now its the end of the school year and i try talking to her but i can never get a convo. started

then i left a note in her year book saying that we should do something over the summer

now i relize i don't really like her but she is one of the hottest people in the schoool

should i just blow it off and don't think about it or what

and i like this other girl but she doesn't like me

so what do i do?

pete

2007-06-15 17:10:09 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My husband just recently got a new young pretty co-worker that he has trained at the deli he works at. About the same time she started working there, she broke up with her boyfriend. He's starting to come home really late and lately has been acting like so much as giving me a hug is a chore. Any ideas as to what could be going on?

2007-06-15 17:09:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 17:06:42 · 11 answers · asked by Beth 1 in Friends

Is it right and proper for women to openly show and tell their feelings to men?

2007-06-15 17:01:06 · 6 answers · asked by blue 1 in Singles & Dating

Mine was while I was working in New York as a nannie for some one famous. And after a night out we were waiting for a train my friend at the time well we met two janitors at the empire state building and two men took us on a tour of the building anyways - long story short we walked around the top of the building !!!!!!!! No rails just schooching. Good lord later we thought they could have killed us !!!!! Just one push eh?? But it was exhilerating at the time!!

2007-06-15 16:58:24 · 8 answers · asked by fr.canadianyankee 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

After being told by one of my female friends that I am ugly, and she found me annoying, but still thought that I was an OK friend, I was wondering, are all females my age (15-16) shallow? Or just some? All the females that I know are only interested in looks, "does he have a 6-pack" "does he have blue eyes", yet none of them even dare to ask "is he funny" "is he fun to be with" "does he care about you?"....... Are all females this way? Or just ones that have not mentally matured yet?

2007-06-15 16:57:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-15 16:56:41 · 19 answers · asked by tantrik 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 16:54:31 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I (step-Mom) have been the one raising my husband's son since he was 6. We have had physical custody the entire time and his bio-Mom moved out of state about the same time. My husband was working ft and going to school ft for most of the 5 yrs he has been with us. So I'm the one who feeds him, clothes him, gives him emotional support, helps him w/his homework, etc. She goes months w/o calling, has lied to him over and over again, only saw him three times in the last 5 years. She is a horrible mother. Now she has moved back into the same state about 3 hours away and wants to start seeing him on a regular basis. Of course my son is so excited he can barely stand it. Which I don't totally understand from the above things she has/hasn't done. I'm not so selfish that I would deny my son his seeing his bio-Mom but, I feel like I've been used and thrown out like a stinky can of fish. Any words of wisdom to help w/my heartache?

2007-06-15 16:53:08 · 16 answers · asked by blacksun 2 in Family

(17)i recently got engaged to, my now fiance, who is about to turn 19 and is currently in the air force, i just graduated high school and now attending college, we have been together for going on 4 yrs., my family is happy with it, he was living with me and my family for about a yr, because his father kicked him out for not going to church every week?!?! but he hasnt really told his family idk why, i have been dying to tell them, ...do you think they'll freak?

2007-06-15 16:50:58 · 16 answers · asked by LoLa 2 in Weddings

Be as open and detailed as you wish.

2007-06-15 16:45:05 · 6 answers · asked by yogi 4 in Family

Just a humble U.S. sailor that finally got stationed back where my child is. Went to court and only got 10%, do all the transportation on picking up and dropping off (gas is so expensive), and with an extremely high support payment. Why do I have to pay so much? If she needs help, why not give me more time with my son, NOT more money from me.

2007-06-15 16:40:20 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am currently pregnant, and I would like to get married to my boyfriend of seven years so that our baby has the same last name and has both parents. We can make it financially on our own. We have no loans, I have a health insurance, and I have enough savings for a year.
My boyfriend has two more semesters of college to complete.
His mother thinks that we should get married next year after the delivery, meanwhile I should live with my parents because "baby would interfere with my boyfriends studies and he is not ready for the responsibility while at school". She said that in America there is no shame to carry somebody's baby and be unmarried.
My boyfriend does not want to chose between me and his mother, and wants to satisfy both of us. He says it is up to me if we get married right now, but he will stay with me no matter what.
I want another perspective. Is his mother right and I am just being paranoid?

2007-06-15 16:37:51 · 18 answers · asked by sweetundina 4 in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 16:23:45 · 12 answers · asked by LoLa 2 in Weddings

2007-06-15 16:23:03 · 23 answers · asked by everreckless 2 in Singles & Dating

i messed up big time. not cheating or anything but i need to ask him back out because i know he'll say yes and we're good now so how do i do it so it's sweet but not cheesey?

2007-06-15 16:20:34 · 5 answers · asked by duh face 2 in Singles & Dating

I'd known a guy all school year and just 10 days ago we started texting. I like him a lot, and I know he likes me back a LOT. Last Saturday night he finally asked me out in a text, and I turned him down because I'm not ready to have a boyfriend. He blamed the text on his friend, but I really think it was actually him. We texted for 3 days after that, but one night our conversation ended, and that was 3 days ago, and we haven't texted since. He's usually the one to start the conversation...is something wrong? Did he lose interest because I turned him down? I want to let him know I'm still interested, what do you recommend I say to him so we can start talking again?

2007-06-15 16:20:30 · 7 answers · asked by †StrongAsDeath† 3 in Singles & Dating

I will try to be as brief as possible. I have been with my wife for 7 years, married for 4. For the 1st 6 years everything was great!!! She is beautiful, kind, caring, and feminine. She pushed me the last 3 years to have a baby, and to be more open to her, and show her the affection she diserves. I have had medical and financial issues and really did not give her the attention she deserved. I am finally in a better place with my medical problems and money. So, now, I am looking for her love, and guess what... it is not there. To make matters worse, now she says she does not want to have a baby, because she says she is too old, she is 32. She used to cater too me every step of the way, now it seems like she does not care at all, I asked her about it, she says everything is fine. How do I believe her though? She has been the same person everyday basically for 6 years and then all of a sudden there is this feeling that she just does not care!!! Help, any ideas?

2007-06-15 16:14:58 · 21 answers · asked by bosco_industries 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have had 2 girlfriends in the past few years that i have been with regularly. This second one I have been dating since mid march and the thing is I really really like her. But I just get bored hanging around with the same person all the time and like when we just talk i already know everything about her and she me. I had this happen with my last gf to. I just need some more excitement ( I don;t mean this in a sexual way) I feel like these women just become someone for me to hang out with when im lonely and I constantly seek them out, I don;t look forward to seeing them, they just stop me form being lonely. I am very young and this scares me because when im single i enjoy the excitment of meeting new people but i get lonely and when Im with someone I get bored but not lonely. I dont think a "when you find the right perosn you will know" answer would me any good, like i said I really like this girl, Im just bored.

2007-06-15 16:14:20 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am getting married next year, but my fiance and I have been living together for almost 2 years now. I personally think that living together first is a great idea because then you can REALLY get to know the person before you commit for life. I was raised in a Christian home and I have had many people tell me that I should not wear white at my wedding because I am not a virgin and we have been living together. I will still be wearing white because it's my wedding and I do what I want, but I just wanted to get some other opinions. =)

2007-06-15 16:12:38 · 45 answers · asked by RHL592 2 in Weddings

How do i help my friend, who has been seeing this man for 8 years. Ok, they have some problems, but a major one is that his three kids (18, 15, 12) do not like her. It is because she is very forward and says her opinion. And this was the first woman after Mom. She is not mean to them at all, she just does not sugar coat all of her interactions with them to get in good with them. Man has a second girlfriend now, who is sugar-coating everything. I really thinks he loves the first woman, but cannot stand the bad feelings in his house with his kids. I need advice for the first woman, my friend. She really loves him. She has had kids of her own, so it's not like she can't handle kids.

2007-06-15 16:12:06 · 18 answers · asked by csi7472 3 in Singles & Dating

she talks to me good , replies my email, its been only like couple of weeks that i have met her

2007-06-15 16:03:27 · 3 answers · asked by desperate 1 in Singles & Dating

can i get any kind of stds from eating a girl out, this girl hasnt done anythin with anyone though.
please answer.

2007-06-15 16:03:22 · 2 answers · asked by sportygirl. 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, well this may sound like a crazy question but here it goes...

If someone asks you to marry them, and they give you the engagement ring and everything... do you use it for the wedding ring or what? Or do you buy a wedding ring set and use 1/2 for the engagement and the other 1/2 for the wedding?

2007-06-15 16:00:48 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

It has nothing to do with her. She is great. I love her with all of my heart. I just don't like sex. I don't see the point in getting naked and sticking your dick in someone. It was cool for the first few times I had sex. It's just not my thing though. I'd rather spend the time watching a movie together or going for a walk in the park together instead of having sex. I just don't know how to tell her though that I don't want to have sex anymore. I might be able to deal with it once every few months or something. It just seems like she thinks that we should be doing it at least once a week or something. If I act like I don't want to then she gets upset, and thinks that it has something to do with her. I've tried to tell her that it's not her, and that I just don't like sex. She doesn't believe me though. Can someone please tell me what to do about this situation.

2007-06-15 15:59:57 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My late father. Re-arraged a family reunion so I could play in a little leuage all star game.

2007-06-15 15:57:30 · 17 answers · asked by Love the west 4 in Family

My neighbors are having an affair! The girl has a man and daughters 2 and 3 years old. He has a woman and an 8 month old son. They creep back and forth while their mates are at work but both claim they dont care for the other. I am friends with everyone and feel bad about having to keep their secret. Should I tell.

2007-06-15 15:54:30 · 23 answers · asked by natosha c 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im in the 10th grade is it too late to raise up my grades from b's and c's to straight a's? or am i doomed for life and universities will not accept me because of my 2.6 gpa this year?

2007-06-15 15:53:44 · 3 answers · asked by californiadudette1991 2 in Other - Family & Relationships