i like this girl but i don't know waht to do?

Question

she sat by me in english and always flirted with me, gave me her #in my notebook, but i never called, later her friends said that she wanted to go to prom with me, i didn't ask her
now its the end of the school year and i try talking to her but i can never get a convo. started

then i left a note in her year book saying that we should do something over the summer

now i relize i don't really like her but she is one of the hottest people in the schoool

should i just blow it off and don't think about it or what

and i like this other girl but she doesn't like me

so what do i do?

pete

Answer 1

Good grief, the problem is that you are completely undecided...You have blown off the girl in English class so that's done. About the girl who doesn't like you: how do you know you will still like her if she changes her mind?...I say fish in a different pond.

Answer 2

Don't know what grade you are in, but dude whatever grade you were in you totally blew that year out of the water.

Better luck in the coming school year.

If you still have her number, you may still be in luck. Be a MAN or BOY whichever it is and suck it up! You are a male, don't think to much. Say hi, want to get together sometime? Go for a walk, have McD's or whatever lunch or something. Don't go to a movie... you'll be doing nothing but staring at a screen for two hours, which is pointless if you want to start something with this poor neglected girl.

Oh APOLOGISE for being so stupid during the last few months of school. And find some funny way to do it. When you call her up you can add: "You'd make my year if you'd say yes to allow me to apologise to you in person..."

Blah blah... when you see her do something special for her as atonment for your idiot scared thoughts and feelings for the last few months.

Darn... win one for the team dude!
Good luck... and good luck to all of us males who thought the same way and lost the chance to some dumb jock or older guy with more suave.

Answer 3

Woah, long Q. I would try to hang with both girls, if possible. You don't have to commit to a relationship or anything. Flirt with the one who gave you her # and hang out with her, but since you said you don't really like her, don't get involved in a relationship - just be friends. See if that gets the other girl you really like more interested in you - hanging out with one of the hottest people in school might make her jealous or think you're hotter, too. Then persue her.

Answer 4

First thing you need to do is sit down and really think about these girls. So what if she's "the hottest girl in school," if you don't have feelings for her, there's no point to the relationship. You sound a bit young.. don't go chasing after all these girls.. it sounds like you're just seeing girls that interest you or that you're lusting for. You need to figure out if you actually have honest, real feelings for a girl and then pursue her, even if she doesn't like you at first, you never know what could happen. But you really sound like you need to first clear your head about all these girls.

Answer 5

how is it the "end" of the school year school has been out for quite a while and your in what eleventh grade?
even though i find this hard to belive...
whatever you choose to do which i cant tell you what to do just DONT mess around with her feelings she may be here on yahoo answers asking the saaame thing with "what should i do" about you-you never know so i say go for it, what can you loose? NOTHING what can you gain? A GIRLFRIEND THAT YOU LIKE=HAPPY GUY!
hope i helped mann

Answer 6

How are your grade's theis should be first,then the girls.What your concerned about now won't matter in college.Be yourself and live in the moment.The important things will fall into place,not for just this wink in your life,but all the blinks to come.You need to be successful to enjoy this kind of living tomorrow.Life is really short.Once I went to a club,this girl came to me asked if I wanted to dance,she then told me she had the biggest crush on me from middle school to 12th grade,I never,ever noticed her,or could remember her walking to classes,I went home and looked in the year book and there she was,it took ten years for our paths to cross,we connected.

Answer 7

just because shes hot doesnt mean that you have to get together with her
now that you realize that what you felt before was lust, congradulations, cuz you just saved yourself a handful of relationship problems
if you dont like her, then it would be stupid to be with her

now, about the girl you like
are you sure she doesnt like you?
or is she just neutral?
if youre going to see her next year, then you shouldnt rush into anything now, unless you'll see her over the summer

all in all, its the end of the year, and to start a relationship which will obviously not last is stupid
just go with the flo and see what happens next year

Answer 8

Stuff the hottest girl in school. If you can't have a conversation with her then what's the point?

Maybe the girl you like does you but doesn't feel she can compete with the one that openly flirts with you.

Answer 9

I think you have blown it with the girl who liked you and you have no prayer at present anyway with the girl who doesn't like you.

Consider becoming a monk. Or figure out how you want to relate to women and learn from your past mistakes, of which you gave identified at least two.

Answer 10

You should like the other girl who you really like, not the one you think is super hot but you don't really have feelings for. Even though she does like you back, if you dont really like her, it's not going to work in the end. Pursue the girl you really like.