Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

There's too many for me to choose from all of a sudden...But I like it...

2007-06-15 03:00:39 · 25 answers · asked by ░▒▓► Aqua Fires 6 in Singles & Dating

I'm considering buying from the website... based on price, quality, bang for your buck, is this a good idea???

2007-06-15 02:59:01 · 12 answers · asked by bostredsox33 1 in Weddings

The other day my boyfriend told me that he might change colleges and that is was probably going to be out of state. I got sad because I really love him, we have been together for 6 months. I ended up crying and stuff but the next day I was fine and apologized for crying. Then he told me I freaked him out, but I think that that is a natural reaction to what he told me.
SO the other day I went to lunch with him and his mom for her birthday, she invited me to her birthday party but she didn't know what time it was going to be yet and told me that she would have my boyfriend tell me the details. And usually after we go to lunch or something we hang out after or something but he just sad goodbye. Well the day of her party my boyfriend never told me the details, and I was talking to him on the phone, and then he was like "I have to get ready for my moms party, I will talk to you later."
So I was just wondering why he was acting wierd and if I really freaked him out when I cried?

2007-06-15 02:55:02 · 15 answers · asked by pickles8 1 in Singles & Dating

my girlfriend is 27 and im 22 i smoke weed and she drinks ever since i met her she new i smoked it i used to smoke it allday every day now i have it once a fortnight if im luckey and iv just lost my job and am cant find one yet i am looking every day and she says all i want to do is get stoned i only smoke it when it suits her. i dont take it out on her and she says im selfish if i ever want to by myself something wether its a smoke or cloths how can i ever understand her.iv been wih her for 2 and a half years and nothing seemes to change try my best for her and her kids iv even stoped smoking it a few times for 5months each time all she tells me to go with her family cusan to smoke it .she does not now what she wants in my mind.got to go help me please

2007-06-15 02:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by nina h 1 in Singles & Dating

And the signs that it may be worth trying to make it work?

2007-06-15 02:53:37 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

She always picks on me because I never leave Long Island and that I live a shelterd life.

2007-06-15 02:50:31 · 6 answers · asked by sweetascandy9282 1 in Friends

Has it always been that way, or did it come about gradually? (Like my relationship with my husband - it used to be a democracy, we used to talk about things and compromise, now everything is his way "or else"... I don't know why I didn't pick up him changing so slowly, but now I'm neck-deep. You know?) How does it make you feel when you basically have someone else running your life?

2007-06-15 02:40:41 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 02:40:36 · 13 answers · asked by cardsmoney07 1 in Weddings

My b/f and i got engaged...he gave me the ring and later bought the band to match. Further in the relationship i find out he was cheating, and now we are broken up. He has not mentioned the rings, but should i give them back, or keep them?

The way i see it is...he is the one that cheated and caused the relationship to go sour, so don't i deserve to keep the ring on the pretence that i held up my part of the deal in this? I dont want the rings to continue to wear them though, I just dont think he should get them back. what do you think?

2007-06-15 02:35:44 · 62 answers · asked by knk724 3 in Marriage & Divorce

i get picked on alot.even though school is out.I still get name called and beat up. i want to tell my mom but i am afraid that she will get these kids in troble and then i get hurt even worse.

2007-06-15 02:26:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

i started this diary at 11 and I was very depressed back then so i wrote down every little detail...about my sister (we never got a long), my fathers death, dreams I had of my father (after he died), boyfriends, ex-boyfriends, ect...Anyway my boyfriend found it and started reading it and now he wants me to burn it because he thinks it is going to make me depressed again but the problem is that i don't want to because i have a bad memory and if i do burn it I'm scared i might forget everything..my memory loss is pretty bad sometimes i forget my sons name...so what do i do??

2007-06-15 02:18:12 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I am a 23 yr old ,married woman with six yr old daughter. About a month ago I let my mother come and live with me. My step father died in August and times have been hard on her since. The problem is my mother is driving me and my husband crazy. There is no smoking in my house so she is constantly going in and out. She is on the phone till all hours at night and she is constantly asking for money. I let her come live with me so she could find a job and save so she could get back on her feet. She goes job hunting one day a week (if that). What can I do light a fire under her so that we can all put this difficult situation behind us??? Because if this keeps going the way it is my might lose my mind!!!!

2007-06-15 02:16:13 · 11 answers · asked by DEBBY'S BABY 4 in Family

2007-06-15 02:08:07 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

Has anyone ever said 'go play outside??'

2007-06-15 02:01:42 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2007-06-15 02:00:49 · 5 answers · asked by Kona Hawaii 2006 1 in Weddings

I love my husband dearly and I will do just everything to keep him happy. Unfortunately my skin is allergic for leather and I have proposed to get some tailor made black vinyl mini-skirts and strepless tops. My husband doesn't agree with this and now he has threatened to divorce me.
What 'r to do? i love him sooo much ...

2007-06-15 02:00:13 · 21 answers · asked by Mariska 5 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you content with your pay?

2007-06-15 01:58:08 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

is there any think eles i can do to stop her sudden out bursts as i have 3 other kids at home, whom when she kicks of get scared,

2007-06-15 01:58:06 · 4 answers · asked by rdw 1 in Family

i hv this guy in ma iffice i really adore..i am leaving this job in 15 days. before that i want him to ask me for a date.
we had this really great chemistry til he got engaged.
i am not looking for any relationship with him, just want to date him and cant ask directly as ego issue..tell me what to do or how to act to get his attention?

2007-06-15 01:56:36 · 16 answers · asked by aint_i_hoot_madonna 1 in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 01:55:50 · 8 answers · asked by Sandy M 3 in Singles & Dating

i luv mi dad soooooo much! i am taking him to a movie but i need a real presant........

2007-06-15 01:53:06 · 10 answers · asked by . 2 in Family

Someone likes me. Actually, two people used to like me. But now the one person is going out with someone else, and the other person seems to like other people along with me, more TeenVoque material girls. The person going out with someone else is going out with this tall, willowy, almost perfect-looking girl. I think I'm pretty, my height is about average, but I'm not into all the common trends around now. I'm more of a country girl at heart, and I dress in jeans and T-shirts from places like Old Navy. They aren't ugly, but they are nothing like Abercrombie. I guess u could say I'm shy and awkward. I can never find just the right thing to say. So is there something wrong with me? Is there something wrong with being quiet and different with brown eyes and dirty blonde hair in a suburban shallow middle school? Is there a single person on earth who prefers brown eyes over blue?

2007-06-15 01:51:50 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

the other night there was a party. i went off in the dark with my boyfriend and another couple. we sat in the woods and talked. everything was going fine... my bf had his arm around me, we were happy and laughing. we got up to leave and while the otehr couple were leaving my bf took my hand and held me back. we kissed, which this is not the first time we have, but when he kissed me i pulled away. the first time we kissed, i did not do this. i could tell he wanted it to be longer, but i wasnt sure what to do... please help, what do i do next time, did i do something wrong by pulling away?.. and plz be serious.

P.S. i am only 13

2007-06-15 01:51:04 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 01:51:03 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 01:50:05 · 20 answers · asked by Seshan 2 in Marriage & Divorce

When I first discovered my husband of 19 years was cheating, I took it very badly to say the least. 18 months later, we are still together although he stays in our house 4 days a week and 3 days in his apartment to be near to his work. I should in a way be pleased that he didn't leave me for the other woman as such. He has never said much about the affair except that it is over and that he is not willing to commit to anyone, although he is married to me. When he comes over we carry on as if nothing has happened, but he has never said he is staying because he loves me. If I ask him he answers, if you can't work it out then I can't help you. The problem now is that I am finding it difficult to respond to him and to take the initiative with him. I seem to have gone very quiet and hardly ever make a first move with him. Whenever he shows affection, I tend to think that he is pretending. Why am I behaving like a fool when I wanted him to stay? Is it his motives I am wary of

2007-06-15 01:49:18 · 20 answers · asked by Angela O 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I am bipolar, and a little paranoid so i look at things on the net and relate them to myself but i am recently thinking that im codependent on my spouse. Not really sure could anyone help me out a little...please? =)

2007-06-15 01:46:47 · 3 answers · asked by tamuriilanaclime 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Silly situation, really.
On a group IM discussion one person who I hadn't spoken to in ages said 'Oh, I bought you a present'. It was my birthday coming up so I assumed he was talking to me, and said thank you that's really kind!
Everyone on the IM kind of went 'quiet' and I thought what is going on? Turns out he was talking to his girlfriend (also on IM) whose birthday is just before mine, he didn't even know it was mine!!
Now I have to go stay with some friends next week and him and his girlfriend will be there. I'm soo embarrassed because they both know I used to have a BIG crush on him and it was really stupid of me to think he had got me a present, after we lost touch for so long! What if he thinks I was looking desperate or hopeful?

2007-06-15 01:45:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2007-06-15 01:44:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im everything anyone can ever want!

2007-06-15 01:41:57 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating