I love my husband dearly and I will do just everything to keep him happy. Unfortunately my skin is allergic for leather and I have proposed to get some tailor made black vinyl mini-skirts and strepless tops. My husband doesn't agree with this and now he has threatened to divorce me.
What 'r to do? i love him sooo much ...
2007-06-15 02:00:13 · 21 answers · asked by Mariska 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
If you love him with all your heart, wear the leather and make an appointment with a dermatologist.
2007-06-15 02:06:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 4⤋
If your husband threatens to divorce you over whether you wear leather or not, you're leaning on the wind. That is, the relationship isn't solid at all. If he uses that as an excuse for divorce, any old reason will do for him to leave you.
2007-06-15 02:04:57 · answer #2 · answered by DelK 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he is going to divorce you because you are allergic to leather and can't wear it for him, then let him go. You need someone that cares about your health and happiness and this is not someone that is loving and caring about you. I know it's hurtful, but have hope that there is someone out there that would insist you take care of yourself and not do things that would hurt you just for his own selfish interests.
2007-06-15 02:03:33 · answer #3 · answered by wellbeing 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Well if you're allergic then he's being unreasonable by insisting on leather when it causes skin irritations.
Sounds to me like you're in some sort of D/s relationship...but a good Dom wouldn't ever ever insist on something that would make their sub sick.
2007-06-15 02:05:28 · answer #4 · answered by gypsy g 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Get a divorce. The guy is obviously a real a*shole, and doesn't love you if he is not in the least bit concerned about your wellbeing. You shouldn't let him control your life. And your happiness should NOT depend on another person. He's obviously a real controlling man, and he doesn't deserve your loyalty.
You should be strong, and stand your ground. Don't let a sadistic jackass keep you down.
2007-06-15 02:05:23 · answer #5 · answered by WeirdMe 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
He is going to divorce you if you don't wear black leather, wrich you are allergic to? That is the biggest jerkoff in history, do yourself a favor and let him file for divorce, you'll be better off.
2007-06-15 02:04:13 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
What kind of reaction do you have to the leather? hives?
sneezing? Swelling? Some allergies leave you unable to breathe, and you could very well die for love of your husband. Which seems unreasonable.Maybe there is leather with a different kind of finish that you are not allergic to?
2007-06-15 02:04:33 · answer #7 · answered by M S 7 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Is this a joke? You must be kidding! You are "sooo in love" with a man who is intentionally trying to harm you? You need to either get into counseling immediately or check yourself into the nearest psyc ward at a hospital. Ask them what they think about you being madly in love with a man who doesn't give a rip about your health.
2007-06-15 02:09:04 · answer #8 · answered by Sondra 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He is so shallow that he thinks the marriage is based on what material your skirt is made of. He is so inconsiderate of you, not caring if you have allergic reactions. Maybe it is best that he find someone else.
You certainly would be better off.
2007-06-15 02:07:11 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
You need to make a compromise with your husband. You'll wear black leather if he wears a gimp outfit.
2007-06-15 02:03:52 · answer #10 · answered by civil_av8r 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Youre kidding, right? Number one, he's is NOT your boss/master.........wear what you want to. If he has threatened to divorce you over something so ignorant, that should be a huge sign to you. Get a life honey.
2007-06-15 02:12:58 · answer #11 · answered by Kit Kat 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋