my girlfriend is 27 and im 22 i smoke weed and she drinks ever since i met her she new i smoked it i used to smoke it allday every day now i have it once a fortnight if im luckey and iv just lost my job and am cant find one yet i am looking every day and she says all i want to do is get stoned i only smoke it when it suits her. i dont take it out on her and she says im selfish if i ever want to by myself something wether its a smoke or cloths how can i ever understand her.iv been wih her for 2 and a half years and nothing seemes to change try my best for her and her kids iv even stoped smoking it a few times for 5months each time all she tells me to go with her family cusan to smoke it .she does not now what she wants in my mind.got to go help me please
2007-06-15 02:54:41 · 13 answers · asked by nina h 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Women tend to stress out when there are financial problems. We feel that men are strong and that they should work just as hard, if not harder than we do and lose respect for men who do not work as hard or harder than we do. Step it up and get a job if you want to make this work. Slow down on the weed and get your act together.
2007-06-15 03:00:47 · answer #1 · answered by ♥Xty♥ 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Being a girl and everything i understand its sometimes hard to understand the female mind. There must be a few explainations for her behavour. 1) She is stressed out from the drugs effecting her 2) She might not be right for you or 3) Shes going through something thats upsetting her so in any of these cases you need to stand by her in her time of need. Stay strong!!!
2007-06-15 10:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Jazz 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think it's time for you both to drop weed and drink, have a cup of coffee and talk to each other! Make a point of talking calmly, and not blow up! Tell her what you've told us and see what she has to say. It may be a case where she will admit to cracks in the relationship and up to you both to decide where you go from there.
Best wishes
2007-06-15 10:33:29 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You that's the trouble with smoking weed. It haggles your brain I think you have smoked to much which has ruined your ability to write anything sensible..
id stay off it all together if i were you!. its doing you no good!
2007-06-15 10:46:09 · answer #4 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey man u gotta keep away from those alcohol drinkers,they r just as bad as other class a drug users
2007-06-15 10:29:47 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
darling first well done on the smoking weed thing and it aint easy as i used to do it but this girl im sorry but she's playing wid you mind get out of it and her kids get your self sorted find a job stop weed and enjoy your self
2007-06-15 10:00:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
she's anxious and worried about you
thats all
go get a new job and be more active and she'll be abck to noraml
you're probably miserable at home
2007-06-15 10:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by ~*tigger*~ ** 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gee.....illegal drugs are causing an issue in your life....I got an idea!!!! How about you stop smoking it altogether!!!! But then again that would make sense.
2007-06-15 10:03:24 · answer #8 · answered by Lookin-2-Talk 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
STOP smoking wacky and wake up.......tell her to stop drinking and wise up....
2007-06-15 10:26:28 · answer #9 · answered by Dazzlebox 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BAAAD baaaaddd bad
2007-06-15 09:58:29 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋