Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

Me and my boyfriend have been together gor 2 years and have a 5 month of son together. Before my baby was born every thing was going so good, we was so in love. Since the baby has been born my boyrfiend is not ever really home, I take care of the baby most of the time as well as work a full time job. I feel like I do everything and that I am taking care of him too! Im not sure if this is a stage that he is going through because everything is so new with a baby around or maybe he just does not want me anymore because I gained weight when I was prgnant. Please help me im not sure if i should wait around to see if he is going to change or leave, or how should i talk to him to see whats going on because i do not want to leave him i love him soo soo much and it will hurt so bad!

2007-06-15 04:15:45 · 17 answers · asked by dgaodg 2 in Singles & Dating

This is a silly question, but I was just wondering why some guys like small boobs, because I read that on an answer once. Do you prefer big or small?
-Ana

2007-06-15 04:15:25 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

what would you do if I bit you?

2007-06-15 04:11:53 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Just curious. I had a "no head, no wed" policy when I was dating -- I wouldn't even consider a LTR with a woman unless she was willing to meet my criteria. Before I found my wife (who met the criteria) I had dated a woman briefly who wouldn't. Ran into her recently and she gushed about how perfect we would have been together if I only didn't have this silly rule. She's still single, lonely, and bitter, considers me "the one that got away", but still hasn't mended her ways. Was I unfair to exclude her from consideration, or was it proper to stick to my guns?

2007-06-15 04:10:48 · 30 answers · asked by terry m 3 in Marriage & Divorce

do my ashely machgee wanna continue to be my girlfriend and will she tell me some good new's about us? or are she seeing someone else?

2007-06-15 04:10:26 · 2 answers · asked by morteze_mitchell 1 in Singles & Dating

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2007-06-15 04:09:04 · 31 answers · asked by sailorjupiter172003 2 in Weddings

He calls me lazy and stupid sometimes, and that I act like my mother. He tells me the house should be spotless, but I'm taking care of him, our two small children and HIS three dogs. I have to clean multiple times a day to pick up the small mess my children make ( they pick up the big mess) He says hurtful things like "maybe you should just leave" or " go ahead and cheat I want you to" He is very bi polar and refuses to take medication. He comes from a broken family because his dad's family killed his mom. he is really stressed out from work, and I sort of add to the stress a little bit. When he puts me down I feel depressed and detached from my children. Other days he is good and treats me well. He has this guy friend where he works and when the friend is happy my husband is happy, when the friend is mad he takes it out on everyone including my husband and my husband brings it home.

2007-06-15 04:07:32 · 12 answers · asked by Barbie Girl 1 in Marriage & Divorce

oh my gosh. tomoorrow is my wedding and i was trying on my dress, and i spilled my fiances black shoe polish on it. thismust be a sign. oh my gosh. WHAT DO I DO?

2007-06-15 04:06:09 · 13 answers · asked by 0 1 in Weddings

I am 26 going on 27 and I have no prospects for marriage? If I am unmarried by 30 do my chances go down? How do I cope and be happy? My boyfriend just walked out on me and I cry everyday. Advice please?

2007-06-15 04:04:30 · 22 answers · asked by mdaneshrsenior9990272 2 in Singles & Dating

My sons 20 and 15 both have emotional/behavioral (largely due to their father whom I kicked out 7 months ago) problems and were a handful to raise.
I spoiled them without realizing it. Now I want to lay down the 'law'.
My 20 year old has his friends over every night (which I enjoy because they have harmless fun, include my friendless 15 year old and i enjoy hearing the laughter in the house).
The problem is they make such a mess.
What steps can I take to get them to clean up after themselves without shouting or yelling ?(which i made the mistake of doing once) I already have them pitching in food and supplies for the house. it's like they just don't get it.
Any advice?

2007-06-15 04:03:59 · 12 answers · asked by Bethany I 3 in Family

my parents wouldn't let me to since i never been to work before..sigh..

2007-06-15 04:02:10 · 11 answers · asked by tarareese 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so we are finally married... Yeah!!!! Not without the nick picking MIL Though... Thought it would calm down after the wedding but now she is nick picking the wedding annoucements? She wants us to send all her personal friends that we don't know an annoucement. I personally think she is on a gift chase if you ask me (which I think is totally tacky!! I want to be given a gift from the heart rather then well I had to do it...) I mean do we send annoucements to friends of the MIL that neither the bride or groom know? If I got a annoucement of someone I didn't know I would throw it in the trash!!! We had a very small wedding (which she made very clear she was unhappy about - but she didn't pay for it so she doesn't get to choose.... bottom line hubby and I paid for every thing and I think it is just really tacky to send annoucements to people we dont' know... she said if I didn't do them she would do the herself? What do you think????? Thanks....

2007-06-15 03:59:38 · 13 answers · asked by Lizzie 2 in Weddings

Okay....so my friend bought her daughter a dress a few months back to be used as a flower girl dress..(I was really disapointed because I wanted to do that together). It's really pretty, but sort of creamy white next to my stark white dress. She said if I want the FG in another dress then it's fine and she can use this dress (which was on clearence for $15 anyway) for something else. Should I take her up on that offer, or let it be? Do you think creamy white looks okay with stark white? Not to mention I made her headpiece and it doesnt look good with the dress she bought......

2007-06-15 03:59:35 · 21 answers · asked by ♥Mommy to 3 year old Jacob and baby on the way♥ 7 in Weddings

My Stepmom is a total liar. My Dad married her like 17 years ago. He is now 50 , he thought she was year older - 51.
Nope turns out she is freaking 57 years old !!!!
Yeah the old broad is lucky cause she actually looks 45 or something. Ill give her points for being smart and slick.
So my dad was 33 and though he was marrying a 34 yr old.
Nope she was already 40 ! Wow
SOmehow she got knocked up my dad at 40 and 41 and I have two half brothers.
Anyway I dont hate her she has always been nice to me and my Dad loves her and she is great to him.
BUT she refuses to admit her lie. She just make slittl enervous jokes about never trust a woman who would tell you her age. and people are ageist.
My dad was upset at first and then he said she is stilla knockout and looks better than women who are 40s so he doesnt have energy to care. I told him to divorce her and he told me I dont understand their love and to neve rsuggest that again. We have lots of money and I dont want her to get it

2007-06-15 03:58:16 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I still have feelings for him even after he filed for divorce. If I could just get over these feelings I 'll be free. Right now I get these strong urge to call him an I do, we get into fights. I want to get over these feelings of missing him and the hurt and anger. I just want to be free.
Also, I cannot help but feel hurt that he has forgiven his mother who caused this divorce. He says that she's his mother that's why he has forgiven her. I hate her to hell !!!

Sorry fo ranting but right now my emotional level is very very high.

2007-06-15 03:58:06 · 7 answers · asked by Centered 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I met this guy a while ago, and just last night, he proposed, with a ring. Is it possible to plan a wedding in less than three months, and get a wedding gown made?

2007-06-15 03:58:05 · 18 answers · asked by sailorjupiter172003 2 in Weddings

if someone says that u r stupid or fat.....anything bad and then immediately says i'm just jokin...what does this person acutally mean?

2007-06-15 03:55:53 · 20 answers · asked by BH6413021 2 in Friends

My fiance has voiced that he considers himself prolife and when we started having sex he asked if I got pregnant what would I do? I told him I would keep it and that I feel like I could take care of a child.
I didnt however tell him that I had been pregnant when I was 20 and had chose an abortion, one of which was the abusive manipulative man that was the would be father.
I have never told my family and only my ex and 1 of my friends know about it.
Now that we are engaged I fell like I should tell him because he should know everything about me, but im also afraid of losing him.
I know that if we were ment to be he would except what happened.
At the same time though I dont think I ever have to tell anyone and that the only person that ever would need to know is my doctor.
I cant decide if I should tell him and have him think less of me (as a guy who had a similiar question did) or just leave it in the past.

2007-06-15 03:52:26 · 11 answers · asked by lrgblueeyes 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I had this bf over week ago and wednesday he dump me because he said I had to much drama and thenI said ok then I found out the same night he dating his ex gf he tell me he still wants to be freinds I said yes but I still love him he said he will give me a ohter chance if it don't work out with his ex what should I do?

2007-06-15 03:45:26 · 31 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Singles & Dating

I have read some of the answers to that poor girl's question about mulitiple abortions and I was throughly disgusted. You have no clue what some women go through in abusive controlling relationships. To sit there and say that poor girl is evil, is just sick. You disgusting, closed minded people really need to consider all sides of this issue because you are all clearly ignorant.

2007-06-15 03:41:32 · 40 answers · asked by ashley w 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My wife has been gaining weight. And the sex is non existant. This girl is so much hotter than my wife. I am torn. What should I do?

2007-06-15 03:40:50 · 56 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My ex-boyfriend, was horrible to me. He used to shout and swear at me, humilitate me, pressure me into doing drugs and going to things I didn't want to go to, tell me I was f.cked in the head (I've been suffering depression from childhood trauma), told lies to me about one of my friends and vice versa to weaken our relationship, told me what to think, do and how to feel, and was emotionally inept. He told me that unless we stopped arguing (i.e. I stopped agreeing with him) then we didn't have a future. And at a critical moment in my life, let me down really badly.

But, we had some good times too, mostly revolving around parties, yes, but he also did take me out to a few nice places, pampered me on my birthday and it made me so happy when I was making him happy.

Why do I miss him so much? He was never 'there' for me when I needed him, but I know in his own way he loved me. I just feel really empty without him, and want him here so badly. How do I stay strong?

2007-06-15 03:38:43 · 24 answers · asked by rollacoasta 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I am consumed with thoughts of my ex wife.Everyday i want to talk to her,i want to hear her voice.I live 300 miles away now and its so hard.I never wanted a divorce but she just went forward with it.I feel like im stuck in the past.Its strange,all of a sudden a memorie will flash in my mind of a moment i long forgot.Little snap shots of a happier time.When this happens my heart rate jumps up and i feel a sense of panic.Is this normal.I try so hard to move on but i am stuck in the past.My heart won't let her go.I am so in love with her still.

2007-06-15 03:26:53 · 12 answers · asked by Rodger M 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Walking in on your son rolling a joint? Or walking in on your son learning how to speak Vulcan and participating in Star Trek fandamonium hobbies? Which do you find more harmful to him becoming a productive member of society?

Please say why.

2007-06-15 03:26:52 · 20 answers · asked by Proverbial Quimby 1 in Family

My family and I were preparing for a wedding, he showed no interest. I would ask him to give me his opinion about the dress, guest lists, food matters, etc. I get no response or reaction would be one of an annoyance. I confronted him, saying you don't appeared to be the happy groom to be, what's wrong? His response, What do you expect me to do jump up and down for joy". You know I was floored. I had a "get to know you" luncheon with my mother in law to be after the luncheon I knew the wedding was off. She expressed her concerns:how can I be a good wife if I have never been married, in so many ways she labeled me as a tramp because I broke up with him earlier in the year. I should have considered his daughter's feelings because she is A student, wants to go to college and no behavioral problems. The next day he put the wed off, he wanted to wait to get a better shift, third shift would hurt our marriage and without any regards to my feelngs as I sat on the bed crying.

2007-06-15 03:24:07 · 18 answers · asked by Moe 2 in Weddings

I would rather do that on his birthday or the day he went to heaven. I have to make sure my husband has a good day..

2007-06-15 03:21:07 · 18 answers · asked by Holiday 2 in Marriage & Divorce

we always go to court since we been here closer to my husband ex

2007-06-15 03:14:43 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

My brother(my kid's uncle) is verbally mean to my kids. He's not physically mean to them, and they've never been left alone with them. He just says mean things and he's an adult!!! He is married but doesn't have kids of his own. He says things to my 10 yr old son that are degrading to his physical body (he's overweight), or he'll tell him "I'm not gonna come visit you in jail when you get there".

Anyone have a similar problem.

What should I do about it? I never say anything to him. We just try and leave quickly and try to avoid him.

He's not all bad. He's an ok guy to me and he's always been a good brother. I just think he has some jealousy issues or anger issues.

2007-06-15 03:08:33 · 7 answers · asked by veebeedee 2 in Family

My husband and my daughter and I moved in with our bff's. We were all having finacial problems and she was about to give birth and scared crapless. So to help eachother out we moved in together. I love my bff but her fiance i could kill. He works a dead end job making $7.25 an hr, he has another kid he has to pay child support for and he never goes to work. Is it ok for us to be angry with him? He keeps saying that hes going to find a second job but he won't even get off his *** to go to the one he has. Help!

2007-06-15 03:05:35 · 10 answers · asked by sarcastic 3 in Friends

do you find the opposite sex more attractive in the summer months compared to winter??

2007-06-15 03:05:29 · 25 answers · asked by thegenius 3 in Singles & Dating