My stepmom lied about her age ? Why won't my dad divorce her ?

Question

My Stepmom is a total liar. My Dad married her like 17 years ago. He is now 50 , he thought she was year older - 51.
Nope turns out she is freaking 57 years old !!!!
Yeah the old broad is lucky cause she actually looks 45 or something. Ill give her points for being smart and slick.
So my dad was 33 and though he was marrying a 34 yr old.
Nope she was already 40 ! Wow
SOmehow she got knocked up my dad at 40 and 41 and I have two half brothers.
Anyway I dont hate her she has always been nice to me and my Dad loves her and she is great to him.
BUT she refuses to admit her lie. She just make slittl enervous jokes about never trust a woman who would tell you her age. and people are ageist.
My dad was upset at first and then he said she is stilla knockout and looks better than women who are 40s so he doesnt have energy to care. I told him to divorce her and he told me I dont understand their love and to neve rsuggest that again. We have lots of money and I dont want her to get it

How can I get my dad to divorce this lying tramp ?
Hes got looks and SO much cash.
I dont care if she acts nice, she lied about her age and that is a big NO NO.
How can I get him to dump her ?

Answer 1

They're Happy, You're not.
Live your live, make your own money!
That's how I learned to mind my own business!
They're happy, why do you say that dumb crap, I don't want her to get our money, it's not yours it's your dads, She lied and yeah it was wrong, but it's not her fault, it's also your dads, and this certainly isn't any of your business buddy.

Answer 2

Well, right now a guy I like is 25 and he thinks I am 27, but I am really 34. We're not even going out yet though. I didn't really mean to lie to him, but he's a bartender and he announced to the whole bar that I was celebrating my birthday on March 31st. Then I went back on April 28th and he brought it up to the whole bar AGAIN. Both times he asked my age and both times I lied. I was not about to tell a bar full of strangers my real age. This was before I started liking him. If he goes out with me I'll tell him. If not, I'll never tell him the truth. Many people say I still look 26-28 anyways. Leave your Dad and stepmom alone.

Answer 3

She is nice to you, nice to your dad, has two kids with him and you want to have him dump her because she lied about her age. Guess what genius women lie about their age. Hell even some guys lie about their age. Your dad isnt having a problem with this so guess what it isnt about the lying the whole thing is what you said in your last sentence. You want the cash hero, nothing else. Well guess what if they divorce she is getting a great deal of the cash anyway so man up and let your dad have his woman no matter how old she is. Just make sure you are taken care of in the will if that is what you are worried about.

Answer 4

YOU have to understand- when people really love each other it doesnt matter. He loves her. Not every woman is a golddigging trollop. THAT is something he would have noticed a while ago. Those women can't hide for very long. but seventeen years is a long time to wait just for some cash! There is obviously something more there or she would have tried something by now. and the fact that she is older, well, who cares! I realize that she lied to your father, but its his decision. If you like her and she is nice to you and has treated you well, maybe you need to forgive her. I know that it sucks when someone you trust lies to you, but if your father can forgive her, maybe you should too. be the bigger person here.

maybe you need to talk with her about it. tell her how it made you feel. if she really cares about you and your father she will earn that trust back.

Answer 5

Man, how old are you? Twelve? What do you mean you 'don't hate her'. You have called her names and want them to divorce. You are a spiteful, spoiled, small minded person.

They have been married SEVENTEEN years. WHAT IS YOUR PROBLEM. Her lie was not good but it is certainly not life shattering. If she is healthy and productive and loves and cares for your dad you, foolish one should be thrilled that your dad and half bothers have a wife and mom that loves and cares for them. Youi even admitted that she is kind to you and treats you well. You might want to shut your mouth before daddy divorces YOU.

I have two uncles that married older women. One knew his wife was 20 years older. The other didn't know his was 15 years older until a couple of years before she died. He loved and cared for her and nursed her during her last year of life. He greived her death becasue of like your dad said, you don't understand their kind of love.

I have one last thing to toss your way. You are so hot because the lied. So, you are sin free? Never told a lie? EVER? Never commitetted any other offense. Like NOT honoring your father? You need to get off your high horse and apologize to you dad AND his wife. Perhaps you need to clean your own home before cleaning others.

Answer 6

Ur dad must be the dumbest idiot in the world for going 17 years before realizing that his own wife is 6 years older than what he thot. How could you be so retarded to not even notice that for that long of a time? I think she should divorce him and take all of his money.

Answer 7

You sersiously need a life and a mate of your own!!

Why do you care so much? If shes nice to you and shes good to him and all she lied about was her age.. who cares!!!

Let your dad be happy, leave their relationship alone!!

Do you realize how much worse it could be? He could have a lying, cheating, lazy, mean, no good for nothing witch over there.. and your mad that she lied about her age 17 yrs ago!! Lots of women lie about their age WHO CARES!!

You need a social life!!

Answer 8

if ur dad is happy wht more would u want just make sure u get ur inheritance that way u wont have to worry about ur money and as long as u get along i dont think her age really matters as long as she isnt hiding about something else u should b ha[ppy u didnt get the ugly witch

Answer 9

You can't. He loves her and that's all there is to it. Get over it.

The only thing I find hard to believe is how after 17 years he still doesn't know her real age. No one can hide something for that long when they live together.

Answer 10

Obviously your father loves this Woman and you don't liker and is not for her age you never mention that you love your father you only mention his money wish is not your money so he can do with his wealth Wat ever he wants including living it to your step Mother. I think your are jealous of your father because like you mention the Woman is a knockout she has it all and you don't you probably have a crush on her