I had this bf over week ago and wednesday he dump me because he said I had to much drama and thenI said ok then I found out the same night he dating his ex gf he tell me he still wants to be freinds I said yes but I still love him he said he will give me a ohter chance if it don't work out with his ex what should I do?
2007-06-15 03:45:26 · 31 answers · asked by dollface 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why would you want to wait around just in case he might want to date you later? That is making him the one in charge and giving him ALL the power.
Not only that, if he dumped you, why would you want to be with him again anyway?? Time to move on to something bigger and better. Don't let him have ANY power over you.
2007-06-15 03:48:00 · answer #1 · answered by Go Coogs! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok sorry 2 tell u this but this guy is a jerk and u should forget about him asap , coz he is goin 2 use u as a friend ir a bf , and off course don't wait for him , i mean he is tellin u "ok u stay here available for me and when i get fed up with my ex or if things don't work between us , then i'll come back 2 u " , he is treating u like a thing he owns or a toy or something , and u don't deserve that , so if u want my advice , forget about him and find some other guy who appreciates u
2007-06-15 10:52:23 · answer #2 · answered by breakstuff 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe if you didn't talk like Tarzan on Codine men would give you more respect. You probably do have too much drama, and if you have to ask if you should wait for his other relationship to fail so he'll give you a chance, then you're clueless anyway. Or you can just be his back up booty call, cause that's what he's thinking.
2007-06-15 10:50:19 · answer #3 · answered by Tony L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know this is going to hurt when I write this but....Would you really want to be with a guy that would leave his ex for you? Girl, keep busy make sure he knows that you are seeing other people. I know you love him but you know what the song says: If you love someone you got to let them go.....and if he comes back the it means so much more. Heather Headley. Hope this helps.
2007-06-15 10:50:43 · answer #4 · answered by j w 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
O HECK NO !! don't let him put you as 2nd best you derserve better tell him it hurts to much to be friends & if he doesn't want you now then you won't be waiting for him later even if it hurts you to be away from him he will realize later that he lost a good person & you will have found someone better
2007-06-15 10:51:07 · answer #5 · answered by goldeeloxxz 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget him and move on. don't wait on the side like his little puppy. you are not second best . go find someone who wants you first and doesn't wait you to wait around to see if things work out between him and some other chick. get off the computer, get dressed up, go out with some friends and let the man searching begin. good luck
2007-06-15 10:49:57 · answer #6 · answered by Supermommy!!! 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I suggest you take the high ground with this one. Don't waste the pretty. You deserve much more than being shelved and waiting for this guy to take an interest in you again.
2007-06-15 10:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by Trillian 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you serious? Do you like being scrap meat? You need to move on.. I wouldnt even be friends with his lying behind!!
And I sure wouldnt sit around and hope it didnt work out btwn him and his x.. You deserve better than that!!
2007-06-15 10:49:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with him, there's other guys out there. An plus you don't want to worry about his ex being around if you guys got back together.
2007-06-15 10:49:05 · answer #9 · answered by Sublime Girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you are not a second best girl and don't let this guy treat you like you are!! He wants to have his cake and eat it too and you are not cake! I understand that you love him but you should not have to sacrifice self respect for love.
Good luck
2007-06-15 11:02:56 · answer #10 · answered by hippiemommy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋