hard question....?

Question

if someone says that u r stupid or fat.....anything bad and then immediately says i'm just jokin...what does this person acutally mean?

Answer 1

Depends...

Were you acting stupid at the time, are you over-weight? If the answer to either question is YES then even though they may have said they were joking... they meant it!

Answer 2

Hey that's a good question! In my opinion, I think it just depends on who's saying it. I have a kid at my church who will do that at school to me. He'll run up to me and act like he's trying to kill me and say "You're dumb! I'm going to rip off your head!" (lame, isn't it?) Then he'll throw on a smile and say Just kidding. I know he's joking cause he still calls me sometimes and we hang out a lot. But then there's these jocks at my school and they'll act like they're kidding, but if you look hard enough, they're holding in a laugh. They think they live above everyone else and that they should be worshiped. Not Going to happen! I think it depends on the person. Figure out what kind of character they are and then you'll be able to find out if it's a joke or something serious.

Answer 3

If this person tells you once, maybe twice, and this person does not know you well, in a position that someone might think is funny, then they really ARE joking! But if any of these are not fulfilled, then they are just immature brats trying to tell you, without offending you, that you really are fat, an idiot, etc., or they're just trying to make you tick. If they're just trying to make you mad, it might be OK to return the favor; call them immature, then say, with a wicked grin, "just kidding!"

Answer 4

Sounds like someone needs to grow up. They are just blurting rude things out, and then taking them back.
They may mean what they are saying, but don't react. Obviously they have a lot to learn about life. It's rude, and someday, if not already, it will cause people to avoid being friends with this person.

Answer 5

sometimes and i hate to say this, but even though they say they are joking some of them say it, but when they look at the reaction on ur face they take it back. Others don't mean it and r joking, but they find dome things funny and then don't think about how they r making the other person feel.

Answer 6

That kind of person wants to get a point across with out
seeming like a mean person.

Answer 7

maybe thats what they see in you. some people say that because that is what they look on you on the time that you are there on some situation (if you are called stupid). some people tell you on those things right away then just telling you that thats a joke but deep inside they mean it. thats how i look those people doing that.

Answer 8

Depending on the age, I am guessing this person is very immature, probably really young... If so, I would kind of lean towards this person not knowing how to express him or herself...
It could be out of jealousy who knows.. Not enough info to go on....

Answer 9

they may mean it or they may not but it depends up on the people who says it .
but don't worry u may not be beautiful outside but inside u r a STAR just ignore them
don't worry i take it that way because i undergo the thing u know who u r
just enjoy ur life
good luck

Answer 10

we say what we mean and mean what we say. no if's,an's or but's about it.this is a shallow person's way of telling you how he or she really feels about you.because they're not honest enough to say it to your face.so they turn it into a joke,thereby letting you know exactly how they feel about you as a person. using you as the but of their joke,and at your expense.when they realize your intelligence dosen't match their opinion of you. they say it was a joke. your feeling are hurt and inside, they're gloating..