Family & Relationships - 15 June 2007

I am a 25 year old virgin, and I have never been on a single date, out of fear that the women I date will cheat on me. I do know that everyone is capable of having affairs, even me. But I just do not want to fall in love with someone who is going to cheat on me, even as I said, everyone is capable of it, however, I just do not see myself doing something like that because of the way I feel about it.

As to all these affairs I hear about? I hear about them from my friends, my work colleagues, in news papers, and television chat shows. Basically I have given up on love, just to protect my heart from getting broken.

2007-06-15 20:31:29 · 22 answers · asked by Shredder 2 in Singles & Dating

Well I am with my gf for more then 10 months now. I am 24 years of age. I never had any relationship in my life. I feel in love with this girl, 10 months back. After couple of months of knowing her I found out that she had a serious past relationship which went on for 3years. She broke up only few months befor meeting me. I discovered this fact by hacking in to her yahoo account and reading her chat conversations.

Now, my problem, I was and I am still deeply in love with this girl. We had a very big fight after I discovered about her past relationship and she tried explaining that she afraid of losing me and that why she never told me about her past relationship.

These all happened about 6 months back, but one thing I have observed in myself is that i have grown too much suspicious about her. I still hack and spy on her personal computer.

Please if anyone can let me know, what am i doing is right or wrong? And how I get myself completely out of this?
Every reply will be appriciated

2007-06-15 20:30:40 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am moving back into my parents house (with my wife and newborn baby girl)

2007-06-15 20:29:43 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

8 years 5 children and the woman breaks up with you....what do you do?....

2007-06-15 20:24:46 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2007-06-15 20:24:35 · 13 answers · asked by reddevilsscholes 1 in Singles & Dating

You lost a loved one (sister) to HIV, and when at work hear people crack HIV/AIDS jokes. I hear that and I just want to punch them in the face.

2007-06-15 20:24:26 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I love to kiss my lover "armpit", is that normal?
Gentlemen: Do you do the same?
Ladies: do you like your lover to kiss your "armpit"?

2007-06-15 20:22:51 · 20 answers · asked by thani124 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay so about a week ago my boyfriend pecked another girl on the neck in front of me. I got realllyyyyyy upset and threw the coke I had bought him in the face. He came after me really upset and told me how much he loved me and he was just saying "hey" and I told him it was HIGHLY inappropriate and unacceptable and I said I won't take that crap. He told me he was so sorry and didn't know what the hell he was thinking and that he would never ever do it again and he promised me. What's worse is the girl looks like a man...but she is a huge flirt. Although looks don't matter. Anyways, we are together again and he understands how my trust is broken but he says he loves me (we have been dating for a while) and we both love each other a lot. He's never EVER done anything to make me not trust him before....did I over-react and am I stupid to be with him again?? Honest opinions please...thanks!! :)

2007-06-15 20:22:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 20:18:32 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm scared as Hell...but I haven't been feeling well lately. My (ex) boyfriend and I hade sex about a month ago. I have bruise-like sores on my back. Should I?

2007-06-15 20:18:29 · 5 answers · asked by Sylvia 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a mother of three, my husband has been having affair with another marrried women when confronted he told me that that's his weak point and i must accept and live with it as he has been a gd husband, gd faTHER, he bring s out out, gives me cash for home expenditures, comes back but very late, i dont want a divorce or a brokien marriage he already told me that if i cant accxept and gtive him any pressure he would choose to leave me . i need help i am keep on crying of my state and loneliness, i do not have friends to share too, i want my marriage and want my hubby but he is treating me with no feeling, how come he got no heart to think of me and

2007-06-15 20:16:48 · 19 answers · asked by susan r 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was walking to my car the other day when i saw my my friends boyfriend kissing another girl.before that, i told my friend that he wasn't the right guy.if i tell her what happened, she wont believe me and she'll think i'm trying to keep her away from him.have any advice??????

2007-06-15 20:14:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 16, and Jason is 19.Jason stay in houston and i stay in baton rouge. Should I hook up with him????????Or just stay in the 16-18 yrs. old range

2007-06-15 20:13:13 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

It's a fact that it is possible.

2007-06-15 20:07:08 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2007-06-15 20:06:47 · 20 answers · asked by Emme T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

But im still hurt from my past relationship, my ego is damaged, self esteem damaged. I know i wont get a women interested in me until these are repaired, it's going to take time. Why wont a woman love me when I'm down. I see it all the time, man gets weak, woman leave or not interested.

2007-06-15 20:06:42 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I wish i knew the answer to this question! She says im one of her best friends even though we don't do much together anymore, shes the type that will go after what she wants and gets it cause shes very very good looking (10/10), smart, high maintenaince but, if you knew her you would understand every guy i know has gone after her and failed, and its HARD to move on... REALLY HARD.. i am finding it really hard cause i still like her AND I WISH I COULD EITHER GET OVER HER or move on. I have quite a few really pretty girls that like me but i just am not ready atm with them.. cause she never gave me a definite answer when i asked her what she thought of me, she just said she wanted to be best friend and that is hard for me to take. I wish there was some conclusion on this, but she just won't give me any answers!! Man it hurts. Should i just get another girl that just as good to make her jealous cause i can in a flash or should i keep trying to win her

2007-06-15 20:06:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Ok I'm just wondering if you meet a guy and he totally worked out at the gym 3 times a week and what not but was still a little overweight. So when you grab his arm you could totally feel a huge mass meat on it. Do you think this is attractive or not? He is trying... why don't you help give him a push?

Also if you have dated a fat guy. What was the relationship like?

2007-06-15 20:03:26 · 18 answers · asked by Jackel 2 in Singles & Dating

she doesn't like to comeout for a date.. but she says she is mad on me and wants to marry me. she can never live without me in her life..... and me too lovin her lots than anythin else in my life........ but i wanted to show her my love how much sincere and strong and passionate i am abt her........pls help me how to make her realise i love her lots and lots in this world........... pls suggest me

2007-06-15 20:03:19 · 3 answers · asked by LOVE 1 in Singles & Dating

my friend started going out with this really nice guy but i think she is to young

2007-06-15 19:55:51 · 9 answers · asked by joejonasgurl 2 in Friends

y ex boyfriend dumped me a little over a month ago and i've been feeling really depressed since.... i know that i should move on and get over him but it's hard.... i'm really trying my best to move on and i know a few guys who like me and want to date me but i just dont feel that it's fair to them that i still have feelings for my ex.... i kinda like this one guy who i think might like me as well but it just doesn't feel rite and sometimes i get a little sad.... can i be with another guy if i still have feelings for someone? i now it's not fair to him but my frens are telling me to give him a try.... just yesterday, i went on a day trip with my coursemates and my ex was there as well... we are still frens though sometimes it can be a little awkward.... and after the trip my fren told me that a girl taking the same course as him held his hand.... it broke my heart again at that point and even though i know that there is nothing going on between them (she has a bf) it hurts....

2007-06-15 19:55:02 · 5 answers · asked by Bi 2 in Singles & Dating

Hey.. my brothers are 13,,14,, and 15...yrs old...
They really like things like games...soccer...PS....
I want to give them birthdays present... So what should i give???? Oh yeah.. Im 15 yrs old girl....Help Me plzz???But dont too expensive present.. like xbox .. its too expensive for mee!! >.<;

2007-06-15 19:54:27 · 4 answers · asked by Ly 2 in Family

We seem to have lots of things in common and yes, we did become intimate.

I'm confused and I'm not sure what to do?

2007-06-15 19:54:26 · 20 answers · asked by Emme T 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im really bored someone tlk to me.. i have to stay up all night....... bc off my friend! she wont stop calling... so i need someone to tlk to!!!!!!!

2007-06-15 19:53:12 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

me and my boyfriend are moving to a house of 3 bedrooms, we only need 1 bedroom. Anyway, the lounge room is very tiny without a door, i am planning to make the biggest bedroom our lounge room because it has a door, ie when i go sleep my boyfriend can close the lounge room's door and keep it quiet, but my question is, what should i put in the 'real' lounge room? its the first room where the front door of the house is, it has no door, its connected to the kitchen. Thanks

2007-06-15 19:50:58 · 11 answers · asked by tostosh 1 in Family

I had a beatuiful wedding and it was a great day and it was a sacred day and a wonderful celebration exspeically the honeymoon:) when you are at church what is a proper but loving kiss to give to your beloved.

My husband and I never made out or kissed for a very long time in our coursthip so when we were pronounced husband and wife we kissed with fire and passion but we did not french kiss because our mom asked us not to.

But looking back I would have done our kiss more differently maybe deep and long but without all the drama, What would be a speical kiss to give your groom when you are pronounced husband and wife?

2007-06-15 19:47:00 · 11 answers · asked by encourager4God 5 in Weddings

ok i know it sounds wierd but i see figures off my imagination i look out a window and picture really scary things and im soooooooooooooooooooo scard i have to go to the bathroom but theres a window and so i cant go Help i have to go!!!!! and i9m not 3

2007-06-15 19:46:05 · 10 answers · asked by jorddani 2 in Singles & Dating

One thing that you really don't like about them, or something they do that bugs you?

2007-06-15 19:43:31 · 23 answers · asked by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 in Singles & Dating

two weeks ago, i had posted a question about my soon to be ex husband contacting me (he wanted space - wanted out of the marriage of 7 yrs. - got a gf, etc.). since getting the responses here, i have stopped communicating with him. this week again he sent me a couple emails about how poorly he was doing and left me a v.m. in which he sounded awful and said he would understand if i did not want to talk to him (but never saying he wants to come back). my heart broke when i heard his voice - i wanted to be there for him. now, i am very tempted to call him back. i know calling him will only leave me with pain and hurt. how do i stay strong and not give in to the temptation? how do i fight my instinct to take care of him (at my own expense)?

2007-06-15 19:39:25 · 19 answers · asked by stuck 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I am a 27 year old single white male, and lately I've gotten this sudden physical attraction to African women. I mean, it's partly directed at African-American women I suppose, but really, it's more geared toward women who are actually from Africa, like 100% pure-blooded African women!!

There are some Afican immigrants who attend the church I go to and the last couple weeks or so, I don't know what it is, but I've noticed I'm attracted these native African womean. Not sure why...lol

So.....................do you guys think this is normal??? I've never dated anyone outside of my race before (and I'm 100% white).

Any suggestions or advice?????????/ Thanks to all!!!!!! :)

2007-06-15 19:38:22 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating