i was walking to my car the other day when i saw my my friends boyfriend kissing another girl.before that, i told my friend that he wasn't the right guy.if i tell her what happened, she wont believe me and she'll think i'm trying to keep her away from him.have any advice??????
2007-06-15 20:14:56 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
tell her so she knows .. she'll thank you for it later
2007-06-15 20:18:09 · answer #1 · answered by CoachAutumn 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't tell her anything! What you should do is give her hints so she can figure it out herself. The egg will fall on your face, TRUST ME! Chances are her boyfriend is going to deny it, and she will most likely believe him. That will make you look like a trouble-maker, even if you were trying to help her.
2007-06-15 20:21:50 · answer #2 · answered by yayaquack 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, tell her to ask her boyfriend about his activities that day and if he met any interesting people. If your friend won't listen to you, she is going to fall hard. You have two choices, tell her and risk the friendship or don't tell her and you guys remain friends. I would prefer to look out for my friend and tell her the truth than to see her hurting even worse if I don't.
2007-06-15 20:20:21 · answer #3 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Tell her regarless of what you had just told her. Just let her know that. "I saw your boyfriend kissing this girl, and I wanted to let you know because your my friend and I would hope you would do the same for me?" and that your intensions where only to inform her and nothing less.
2007-06-15 20:21:45 · answer #4 · answered by id10error 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How will she feel later if you didn't tell her? I would tell her but don't lay on any told-ya-so's or anything. Its her choice if she accepts it or not, so don't be invested in how she responds. She'll learn eventually. Then she'll value your honesty. If not, then she's not worth your friendship.
2007-06-15 20:22:29 · answer #5 · answered by davidfb108 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
forget about the whole accident.
it is the best way to keep ur friend..
I am sure u r mistaking ! remember he was someone looks like him, not him !!!
2007-06-15 20:25:28 · answer #6 · answered by Waseem 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
so are you going to stay with him even though kiss another girl just because you dont want a friend to date him. just let that friend know that you dont feel comfortable with her dating him.
2007-06-15 20:21:15 · answer #7 · answered by OB the Wolf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her find out for herself. Or take a picture of him the next time you see him with his "cheateree". In all cases, be ready to be there for her when she finds out without the "I told you so".
2007-06-15 20:18:03 · answer #8 · answered by pertinential 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
You have to tell her. She needs to know the truth.
2007-06-15 20:21:55 · answer #9 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her n dont beleieve on u , then dont tell , stay away from trouble , any way how u will tell no proof at all
2007-06-15 20:23:46 · answer #10 · answered by carmelite 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep first answer correct ,take a cell phone pic & show your friend, problem solved.
2007-06-15 20:20:19 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋