I wish i knew the answer to this question! She says im one of her best friends even though we don't do much together anymore, shes the type that will go after what she wants and gets it cause shes very very good looking (10/10), smart, high maintenaince but, if you knew her you would understand every guy i know has gone after her and failed, and its HARD to move on... REALLY HARD.. i am finding it really hard cause i still like her AND I WISH I COULD EITHER GET OVER HER or move on. I have quite a few really pretty girls that like me but i just am not ready atm with them.. cause she never gave me a definite answer when i asked her what she thought of me, she just said she wanted to be best friend and that is hard for me to take. I wish there was some conclusion on this, but she just won't give me any answers!! Man it hurts. Should i just get another girl that just as good to make her jealous cause i can in a flash or should i keep trying to win her
2007-06-15 20:06:26 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Thank you all. I appreciate it
2007-06-15 20:16:45 · update #1
If im the friend zone why the heck does she come talk to me when other girls are all flocking around me?
2007-06-15 20:23:54 · update #2
She is such a player
2007-06-15 20:24:36 · update #3
While I am sure this girl is likely the 10 as you described, she also sounds like a bit of a player. Did it ever occur to you that maybe there is a little fault in her personality, in that she needs constant attention to maintain that 'go for it' attitude? You are just a pawn for her, it sounds. And honestly, hooking up with someone else to make her jealous...is not very nice for the other girl. I would let her be for a while. Don't be so eager. Go out and date others. When she notices you have lost some of that interest, she may find you a lot more interesting. You know??
2007-06-15 20:13:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you are in the friend zone! It hard to get out of that zone. I believe that women know within the first five mins. whether not she will be remotely interested in someone. If its been years and no action, remain friendly but move on. If you remain alone, she might mistake that as you want independence. This won't work for women who seek a relationship. Since she is very choosey and all these guys who try to get with her keep failing, I believe she is searching for a particular type guy. Maybe by dating a girl for some length of time, she might start thinking that you are "steady Eddie" which I think would appeal to such a girl.
Those are my thoughts on the matter for what its worth. Good luck.
2007-06-16 03:19:49 · answer #2 · answered by Nacho 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
confidence is great but in your case its borderline arrogance. you shouldtn try to make her jealous that would accomplish absolutely nothing in the end, and if she said yall should remain friends then you have to respect those wishes and just try to cope with it and move on. i know it happend to me but thats part of the process you win some you lose some its htat simple you have to know when youve been beaten.
2007-06-16 03:13:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sweet heart, get yourself a woman so that you can be happy and stop dreaming. Wake up! Best friend or not you have a life to, so live it.
2007-06-16 03:14:34 · answer #4 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont go looking for another girl just to get over this one. That will only break her heart. (p.s. getting over her and moving on are the same thing). yes move on, but dont get another girl just to help you do it.
2007-06-16 03:11:26 · answer #5 · answered by Love Doctor 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋