One thing that you really don't like about them, or something they do that bugs you?
2007-06-15 19:43:31 · 23 answers · asked by Wutz it worth 2 ya? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
There's no perfect person first of all, everyone has a fault of some type.
2007-06-15 19:45:59 · update #1
Hi, people. This is Tony Parker from the San Antonio Spurs. As you know, Eva Longoria is my signigicant other.
What would I change about her? Hmm. Well, sometimes when she's a little nosey about the contract written in blood that I made with the devil in order to get her and win 4 championships that I keep under the bed in a box.
2007-06-15 19:50:23 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 5⤋
My husband always plays devil's advocate when I am telling him about a situation where I disagreed with someone or I became angry with someone.
Most of the time he cuts me off before I even finish telling him about it: I think maybe he just dislikes confrontation, but it is really frustrating to me because I need to vent my anger/frustration at that event and he cuts me off before I get to most of the time.
Sometimes he'll agree with me, but he still doesn't listen to the whole thing.
I don't care if I am right or not in those situations: I just want and need to get it all out of my system. I don't yell or anything, I just have to talk to somebody about it, and we no longer have any friends because they all drifted away after our son was born. So, other then my sisters, he is the only one I have to talk to.
For example:
I don't work right now, because I stay home with our son, but when I did I would get frustrated at doing more than my share of work at my jobs: especially when people would try to take advantage of me working so hard, by doing very little themselves, or nothing at all. ( I am a fairly quiet person at work, until I know everyone well) And you can't always say stuff about that at work or people treat you badly or as a troublemaker or whatnot, even if that person really is not doing their job: politics (drives me crazy: I prefer jobs where I don't have to deal with very many people for that reason).
In those situations my husband's response was always "but what can you do about it, you know nothing will happen if you try."
Which i already now which is why i was so frustrated to begin with. I just want him to be on my side from time to time and hear me out: he almost always shuts me down before then.
And I have talked to him about it, but to no effect.
Anyway, that is really my only major complaint about my husband, because I am always there for him when he is upset or frustrated about something. And I stick up for him.
It's something I have to live with, because in many other ways he is a great guy: that one just gets under my skin.
2007-06-16 03:12:41 · answer #2 · answered by Frances 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
When we discuss money situations. Admittedly, I am just as condescending in my tone when discussing this lovely subject as he is when he responds.
I guess my point is I hate the power struggle that always seems to accompany the money thing.
2007-06-16 02:49:28 · answer #3 · answered by Done 6 · 5⤊ 1⤋
I wish he mused more about life...that he questioned what he did more with a more open mind...and that he shared his thoughts and feelings spontaneously more often...sometimes it feels like he's just solving my "problems"...I don't like that. I want us to both share our weaknesses and strengths together.
2007-06-16 03:01:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
im happy with her but i just wish she wud be less embarassed by about our relationship. like whenever i call her beautiful she gets embarassed and when were with others she does if i talk about it as well.
2007-06-16 02:47:20 · answer #5 · answered by Reddevil 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋
There's only one thing I would even consider changing about my husband. I would make him stop snoring.
2007-06-16 02:48:38 · answer #6 · answered by S 4 · 6⤊ 1⤋
There are a few things, I don't like about my guy but I won't change a thing because that's not my job. If you don't like his ways leave him, it's as simple as that.
2007-06-16 02:46:36 · answer #7 · answered by Firebird 6 · 1⤊ 3⤋
I wish that he would just get to the point sometimes .... But I think I do the same thing too.
LOL
2007-06-16 02:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by Kelley 6 · 5⤊ 2⤋
Nothing, I'm totally happy with the man i got. Yes he has his "ways" but don't we all? Only he can change who he is. Besides goods and bads make him who he is...
2007-06-16 02:49:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 3⤋
Nothing, even tho he isnt perfect, he is who he is becuz that is what makes him who he is!
2007-06-16 02:46:47 · answer #10 · answered by sweetprincess_200583 2 · 3⤊ 1⤋