y ex boyfriend dumped me a little over a month ago and i've been feeling really depressed since.... i know that i should move on and get over him but it's hard.... i'm really trying my best to move on and i know a few guys who like me and want to date me but i just dont feel that it's fair to them that i still have feelings for my ex.... i kinda like this one guy who i think might like me as well but it just doesn't feel rite and sometimes i get a little sad.... can i be with another guy if i still have feelings for someone? i now it's not fair to him but my frens are telling me to give him a try.... just yesterday, i went on a day trip with my coursemates and my ex was there as well... we are still frens though sometimes it can be a little awkward.... and after the trip my fren told me that a girl taking the same course as him held his hand.... it broke my heart again at that point and even though i know that there is nothing going on between them (she has a bf) it hurts....
2007-06-15 19:55:02 · 5 answers · asked by Bi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You really cannot remain sad like this. You need to do something good for yourself, do something you really like to get your mind off of your ex,and guys on a whole just for a couple of hours or may be a day. You don't need a man to be happy, you have to make YOURSELF happy. When you are ready to date you'll know it, so if you are not ready now don't force yourself. Stop listening to pitiful music or movies that will make you think about him. Go shopping, go to the beach with some friends whatever it is. Remember it's your life so live it, have some good clean fun.
2007-06-15 20:04:27 · answer #1 · answered by Firebird 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i agree with your friends. if you like this guy and he likes you back, i am almost positive that he will probably date you even knowing that you still love your ex. i am sure he has probably been heart broken before so he should know what it feels like trying to move on. if he really cares he will help you. i have been in your position before and from that experience i have learned that, for me anyway, it was a lot easier to get past and get over him with another guy around. you might not feel comfortable yet to kiss him or anything like that, but if he is a good, understanding that is actually WORTH taking time for, than he wont try forcing you into anything you arent ready for. despite what most people think, there are actually good, decent guys out there that are sympathetic and helpful. anyhoo, back on topic, give him a try. you might learn that he can be a big help after all......and i hope it all works out for the better for you.....
-kenzie
2007-06-16 03:07:36 · answer #2 · answered by okie chick 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop wallowing in your self pity girl~ it's over, now move on.
Go out with some of those guys...you'll probably be pleasantly surprised and enjoy the company...and your feelings for the jerk will fade away.
You gotta make a step toward moving on unless you want to stay depressed....
Your beautiful and wonderful, go enjoy your freedom!
2007-06-16 03:00:56 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It IS tough to get over someone, but give urself time. And yes, sometimes it helps to get ur mind off ur ex by going out with someone else, be it casual dating or not. U'll never know u might fall in love & then find out what u've been missing all along!
2007-06-16 03:01:20 · answer #4 · answered by Saf 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Take some time to spend single. its not fair to you or whatever guy you would get together with if you have feelings for someone else. Take time to allow yourself to get over him, which might mean youll have to stop being his friend for a little.
2007-06-16 03:00:50 · answer #5 · answered by Lauryn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋