I got an STD while cheating on my husband, how should i tell him?

Answer 1

yes, so he can get tested. messing with someone's health is not cool

Answer 2

Don't get me wrong, as long as you are sure that your husband hasn't been doing the same. Then you are positive of approx when and where the STD began.
I do not know your circumstances and I am not here to judge you. But, if your conscience is not your guide, then do tell him out of concern for yourself and where your own life is going so you can clean up and he can too.

Answer 3

Emme, Emme, Emme! I just read and answered your 'announcement' and now, here you DID get an STD. I am so sorry for you. You have no choice but to explain it all to your husband. Preface it by saying you have done something very serious and you are sorry. You need to tell him tonight because he needs to go to the doctor as well.

I hope you get to read my response on your previous question and seek some answers as to why this happened and, more importantly, WILL YOU ALLOW this type of behavior to continue.

Good Luck.

Answer 4

I am assuming warts, herpes or Clementia, either way, he has the right to know and he will need antibiotics.

You need to figure out what you want out of life, the party life, or the settle down, married life.

Right now, you are hurting more than just him, yourself too.

You need to talk to him ASAP and let him know what is going on, but be prepared for a blow-up.

If you are fearful of his reaction, tell him over the phone, no sense getting hurt physically and he will calm down, but the other person is right, he will prob want a divorce and hun, can ya blame him??

Answer 5

Wow... this is heavy!?!? First off, do not sleep with him until you've been treated by a Dr. Then tell your husband and see if he forgives you. If he does and wants to stay with you tell him your condition and that you're being treated. If he still sticks around he's obviously a good guy and do whatever you have to do to keep him!! More importantly learn a lesson from this!!

Answer 6

oh my goodness.i guess the only way u can tell him is straight out and being completly honest with him.you cant keep it from him.when he starts to itch hes going to wonder how the heck he got an std and itll be worse that u kept it from him.be big enough to tell him straight and be prepared to work overtime to save your marriage if thats what u want.

Answer 7

Please tell me this is a joke? Im sorry for whats happening to you I wouldnt wish an STD on anyone, but dont spread disease. Tell your husband, you were unfaithful, why should he have to pay with his health and body for your lapse in judgement, Im sure its easier said than done but please tell him my ex husband was unfaithful, give me something curable thank God but i was a good hardworking faithful wife and mother God forbid and forgive if he would have brought me a worse disease to me, to our bed, to my life, his then wife and mother to his daughter? I didnt deserve that, its bad enough you cheated dont add insult to injury.

Answer 8

Don't humour this tart, I hope her bits fall off. Fancy airing yr Pox problem on a world wide forum, u deserve everything u get, U slumpard.....

Answer 9

Your not going to find an easy way to tell him....just sit him down and tell him the truth.

You picked a nasty one to cheat with, huh ? Serves you right.

Answer 10

So the woman had a STD huh.....what comes around goes around....you play you pay...

Answer 11

STD? That sucks...

Just tell him. I don't think there's an easy method to tell him.